Nigerian media personality, Shade Ladipo has thrown a shade at all those that advised her to settle for less. According to the 35 year old, she was told by many that she can hardly find the man of her choice due to her age and that the only kind of men she can get now are baby daddies, divorcees or older men. They even pointed out that young men will be scared of her because of her wealth.

Sharing her message on Instagram, she also posted a picture of a dark-skinned young man whom she says is her man.

Shade Ladipo wrote:

“It’s amazing how the world wants to tell you what you do or don’t deserve
Ha Shade you’re already 35, just manage a divorcee or maybe an older guy or maybe someone with kids ….
All these young guys don’t like strong women like you
Ha Shade you’re driving brand new car, you will chase young guys away
Ha Shade you’re living in a Penthouse Apartment, they will think you’re an Aristo babe
Ha Shade you’re too out there on social media, they will think you are too loose
Sigh
What the world thinks you deserve ….
What the world wants you to have ….
It’s all a reflection of what their minds are limited to
No matter your age, please don’t let anyone define what your life should or should not look like
You decide that shit
Take away the power you have given to anyone around you to determine what Success looks likeDefine your standards
Write them down
Keep yourself busy
Work on building yourself
Don’t ever settle for less
YOU are Plan A and everything else is Plan B
YOUR happiness is everything
Everything you want is dependent on YOU
#RantOver #HelloHusband #NotADivorcee #NotAMarriedMan #NotABabyDaddy #NotOnSocialMedia #NotEvenOlderThanMe #Blessed #MyOwnWakandaWarrior #SexyBlackChocolateMan #shadeladipo

https://www.wotzup.ng/shade-ladipo-flaunts-man-35/

So much hypocrisy in one post.

She is telling people not to live their life according to what other people advice, yet she doesn't know that she is actually telling people how to live their life. If you successful chased after wealth, got and finally nabbed a young man, what makes you think such will be the case of the ladies you are advising to toe your path? How are you even sure that the young man you found at 35 really loves you and not your money?

I only pity dumb girls who listen to all these selfish ladies who are only concerned about themselves. There is a reason why your womanly features become pronounced around 20 years old. It is for you to attract a man to marry you. But some foolish girls prefer to waste the beauty on different guys who just enjoy them for nothing. In their minds, they are chasing career and want to be successful with riches. By the time they clock 30, they start to notice that their curves are now getting saggy, men no longer stare at them or even look their way cos there are younger girls springing up by the day.

The new talk now is that Naija girls don't know more than marriage. Guys, ask yourself: How many of would prefer marrying a 30+ year old lady over a 22 year old girl? Yet, you all foolishly join the bandwagon of those fooling ladies by telling them to be ambitious and ignore nature's call.

The thing is, if your mind is telling you to get a man at an early age, don't ignore it for a foolish advice to be ambitious. Same tongue that told you to be ambitious will still be the one o mock you when you have no man at an old age. You are a flower with only one phase. Once that phase is over, you can't re-live it.

Hmmm