الحمد لله رب العالمين والصلاة والسلام على رسول الله صلى الله عليه وسلم.

We pray Allah سبحانه وتعالى accepts our Ibaadah and grant our supplications.
Wishing us a blessed Eid.

Earlier today shortly after solat ul Eid, I had the privilege of meeting one of our noble Mashaykh حفظه الله ورعاه in Makkah.
A mere visitation turned an avenue for a great and beneficial Naseehah.

I found it to be most beneficial Naseehah that I cannot alone benefit it all, reason for sharing some of the benefits to us.

May Allah continue to bless and protect Him for us upon goodness.

In explaining the the verse 28 of suratul Hajj by another of our Mashaykh in one of the sittings of learning.
He explained part of the benefits of going for hajj may include both worldly and hereafter gains.
He proceeded saying meeting some of the Mashaykh at Hajj or Umrah also serves as part of the benefits of pilgrimage.
May Allah continue to bless all of them for us upon goodness and grant the dead ones amongst them Mercy.
Below are some of the Naseehah I gathered from him.

Sincerity (Al Ikhlaas)
So many Muslims today do not know the importance of it in our lives.

Be dutiful and responsible to your wives and children.

Only Allah gives rizk.

Wives to uphold the laws of Allah irrespective of how unfavourable it may look to them.

Women should fear Allah and be contented with their husbands according to his best ability.

Women should work but change their orientation that they must be economically stable in case husbands die.
What guarantees husbands will die first?

Parents should strive to be pious and righteous servants of Allah and leave the future for Allah. He cited the Story of Nabiy Musa and Khidr when they assisted the two young orphans whom their father was a righteous servant of Allah.

He also described that wives are of 2 categories as described by Allah in the same verse of Surat Nisah.

(4:34) Men are the protectors and maintainers of women because Allah has made one of them excel over the other, and because they spend out of their possessions (to support them). Thus righteous women are obedient and guard the rights of men in their absence under Allah's protection.
As for women of whom you fear rebellion, admonish them, and remain apart from them in beds, and beat them. Then if they obey you, do not seek ways to harm them. Allah is Exalted, Great.

That no man should dare touch the first category unjustly. because Allah is greater than anyone and He can deal with such men accordingly.

The second category already requested for what they experience as advised by the same verse.

Women are to make their choice, where do they want to belong.

Women should fear Allah in all aspects of life and do not be self-centred.

A lot of women especially widows/divorcees/unmarried amongst us need to be under husbands again in order to have the right feelings at all time.
Financial assistance only is not enough.

He cited the lives of the early generation of Muslims, before a widow would finish her Iddah, proposals would have been waiting for her.
Our widows today do not only need our financial assistance but to be fully back under husbands also.

Women should endeavour to assist husbands to attain Allah's love not His punishment.
Some Muslimahs will not mind their husbands committing Zinah but will go against him taking another wife.

Women who want their husbands to love them should give a lot of respects to their husbands.

Co-wives should give respect to themselves as no one is senior or junior.

Love is not just a mere speech but actions.

All gatherings of knowledge should be taken serious and not a social gathering or market place.

Students of knowledge are advised to review their intentions at all times.
Ikhlaas first in any situation.

One may possess these 4 things but the 5th is the most important;
1. Knowledge

2. Experience

3. Age

4. Wisdom

5. Ikhlaas

Always respect Scholars who are knowledge based, those who always defend the Shariah and not their personalities no matter what.

Only Allah that grants Attawfeeq

One may be poor and still achieve a lot in life.

Being trustworthy is paramount.

Never take what doesn't belong to you at any point in time
Whatever is yours will not miss you

Always depend on Allah in all situations

Never cease to say what pleases Allah at any point in time or wherever situation you find yourself.

Opportunity may close at any time but Allah will always provide a better option if you truly depend on him

Do whatever you want to do to please Allah and not to please His creatures in detriment to Allah's injunctions.

Your huge salary you earn doesn't guarantee success while your low salary or low income you earn doesn't guarantee you failure.
Attawfeeq is only granted by Allah

Loss of an item doesn't mean is the end, endeavour to pray over it, perhaps Allah will grant you what is better

These are the few benefits that can be remembered from the little time spent with the noble Sheikh.
May Allah continue to bless him and his family and grant him Attawfeeq.
جزاه الله خيرا خير الجزاء

Shawaal 1st 1439, Makkah, Saudi Arabia
QRO (c)

Alhamidillahi. I am happy to be a Muslim. Juma'at kareem

Alhamdulillah and Jazakallahu Khairan for sharing. Thanks

quadraheem:
الحمد لله رب العالمين والصلاة والسلام على رسول الله صلى الله عليه وسلم.

We pray Allah سبحانه وتعالى accepts our Ibaadah and grant our supplications.
Wishing us a blessed Eid.

Earlier today shortly after solat ul Eid, I had the privilege of meeting one of our noble Mashaykh حفظه الله ورعاه in Makkah.
A mere visitation turned an avenue for a great and beneficial Naseehah.

I found it to be most beneficial Naseehah that I cannot alone benefit it all, reason for sharing some of the benefits to us.

May Allah continue to bless and protect Him for us upon goodness.

In explaining the the verse 28 of suratul Hajj by another of our Mashaykh in one of the sittings of learning.
He explained part of the benefits of going for hajj may include both worldly and hereafter gains.
He proceeded saying meeting some of the Mashaykh at Hajj or Umrah also serves as part of the benefits of pilgrimage.
May Allah continue to bless all of them for us upon goodness and grant the dead ones amongst them Mercy.
Below are some of the Naseehah I gathered from him.

The Shaykh name??

جزاك الله خيراً

his name?

Jazakallahu Khairan

Jaza'kumu llahu khayran

Masha Allah

May Allah reward you abundantly