divinelove:
Move on already and stop crying everyday about her

Weakling

kapelvej:
Thanks Bro. But this is now more than an issueof pride, if you see my previous posts you will see that it has nothing to do with pride from. I have done this for all these years , this is the first time I decided to put a break. It is just too much

I hope all your estate documents are with you, always visit those areas and inform people around cuz of your present state of marriage. Any ur family member whom you had issues with cuz of ur wife, make up with them. An eye for an eye .
Am presently in court with a step mum whom my dad overlooked and her attitude eventually led to his death.
i hope that you eat and sleep well. check your self properly for any sign of depression. if she is going to influence your kids negatively ,find a way to take custody. Don't keep issues to your self, share with friends and family. If you come across people with similar experiences, share ASAP . Don't be spiritual /emotional / and mumu thing called conscience.
I guess you were doing gentleman approach, she has attained a level you look like trash to her, lastly IRON SHARPENETH IRON.

id4sho:

I hope all your estate documents are with you, always visit those areas and inform people around cuz of your present state of marriage. Any ur family member whom you had issues with cuz of ur wife, make up with them. An eye for an eye .
Am presently in court with a step mum whom my dad overlooked and her attitude eventually led to his death.
i hope that you eat and sleep well. check your self properly for any sign of depression. if she is going to influence your kids negatively ,find a way to take custody. Don't keep issues to your self, share with friends and family. If you come across people with similar experiences, share ASAP . Don't be spiritual /emotional / and mumu thing called conscience.
I guess you were doing gentleman approach, she has attained a level you look like trash to her, lastly IRON SHARPENETH IRON.

One love. You nailed it

nanauju:


You think he has issues for loving his wife even though he loved the wrong person? You think this is some form of bf/gf childish talk of ur kind? U better swerve if you don't have anything reasonable to say.

I repeat this thread is not for babies like you

Damn!!! you're not just sexy but fuckxy we would make a good couple you know )8

coolcatty:


The aim is to be happy.

You seem like a nice quiet guy...thats your bane...werey guys will not even be here opening threads upon threads for a woman...a woman that has kids for you, someone that you are tied with for life...whats the worst that will happen??....she will marry another man..and so? do you think its that easy for her to remarry with that her attitude and pride plus kids??

Oga you are just giving yourself HBP for nothing...get a decent behaved and loose girlfriend (someone that will knack sense out of you) and start living like a bachelor again...just be paying child support...when she is tired she should go file for divorce by herself.

If na me
I go don move on tey tey

kapelvej:
The previous threads

1. https://www.nairaland.com/4447411/wife-finally-moved

2. https://www.nairaland.com/4457718/update-wife-finally-moved


Hello all the good people of naira land and family section, I am updating you all on my previous thread, about how my wife and I have refused to speak with each other, I have always been to call and work out things when situation gets bad, but this time, I have resolved never to. As for me, enough is enough. For the fact that we have still not communicated since these past months just for an issue as simple as that, and that we do not live in the same place, I think this is more than meets the eye. Probably this separation is all she wanted all these while to make her happy. What do you think guys?

It's so sad things had to go this way despite your effort to make it work. U have done your part . Move on and make yourself happy.it is well. PM me if u don't mind

realtalk19:


It's so sad things had to go this way despite your effort to make it work. U have done your part . Move on and make yourself happy.it is well. PM me if u don't mind

I Will. Thanks

id4sho:

Once in love, Always in love. it baffles me when people get separated just because of pride . The wife might never find true Happiness again.

You know how this your post reek of biased opinion yea? For some reasons you alone came to a conclusion with, you think it's ONLY the wife that would hit difficulty in finding true Happiness AGAIN! Weldone sir!

You should focus more on if you have moved on and/or want to move on.

Try third party intervention with a view to resolving issues or dissolving amicably

Make sure you send upkeep and school fees for our children as at when due
Keep records of these payments

Focus on other things until you’re ready to give love another chance

Good luck

@OP, if truly wat you posted here is true, please move on. It may be difficult at first but at last you will feel strong and confident. Never let a women make you a pushover. Even they themselves know they get attracted to alpha male they can’t control or push around(even though they deny it) move on, be single again. Travel the world if u av the means. Life is too short to be sad over any body . I mean anybody including ur blood relative.
Above all dnt involve any pastor or Imam who may cnot Monica te your feeling for you. Peace!