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Re: Masturbation: I Think I Have PE And ED, I'm Just 20 by SUNNINO(m): 11:35pm On Jul 05, 2018
Pray and fast, then go for deliverance in MFM
Re: Masturbation: I Think I Have PE And ED, I'm Just 20 by BilliBaron: 11:35pm On Jul 05, 2018
My mentor once said "FIGHT POISON WITH POISON" the point here is you can stop it by using what causes it for you. You said watching porn makes you masturbate. Then use the same porn and stop it. Try to hold back while watching it. Focus all your mind on it and when you get aroused try to hold back and keep watching the porn. You can also focus your mind on something that makes you angry each time you get aroused, no matter how hard it is for you try to hold your hand back. Always find something to focus on. Something painful works well. And stop being idles and also Pray To God to give you the strenght to overcome it. And i Believe He (GOD) will do it for you.
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Re: Masturbation: I Think I Have PE And ED, I'm Just 20 by twosquare(m): 11:35pm On Jul 05, 2018
helppppp:
Hi everyone, I have to narrate my ordeal to you all. I'm really suffering here and I'm very sad at present. No one knows this cuz I'm always jovial. Seriously I suffer a lot!

I can't even recall when I started watching porn but this week will make a complete 2 years that I have been masturbating. I felt this kind of regret when it was a year too. Please help me, I don't want it to persist again. I don't want to continue with it.

It's even got to a stage that I get aroused to anything exposure about the female. Merely looking at boobs at times, I'd have to control myself. I can't even stand a TV soft sexual act, I'd definitely be aroused. I'm hating on myself!

Before, when I engage in this act, I used to last long a little time but nowadays, I can't even stay two seconds. All I need to hear is the voice of the porn star and I'm done. I know that means I've already developed premature ejaculation (PE) .. Another one I notice nowadays is that I don't get the full control of my joystick as before, it's still standing but I feel it's lost some strength. I feel I have developed erection dysfunction (ED) also and I have never had sex before. I don't my future wife to be depressed about me!


I'm gonna be 21 in August, I don't want this thing to remain with me please help.. I have already lost enough with it. My final year result was pure rubbish, I was only lucky to make a 2.1 cuz i had had good results already in the past. Lots of times I have also contemptlated suicide or harming myself in a way to end this but I won't do that ever.

Even being in my early twenties, I'm far from being broke but I've never had a girlfriend. Just help me please!

Prayers help a lot. You think it doesn't like you stated? No. It took time for Masturbation to drag you ON to where you are, likewise it will take some time to get you back to where you are supposed to be. It is not easy but before you can overcome it, you have to first resolve in your mind not to commit fornication, then, not to watch pornography, and never to masturbate. One door leads to another. Your mind is left open,you need to guard it with the Word of God. Constantly.

If you feed your mind garbage, you will do garbage things o. Honestly speaking. Stay off Nairaland for a while, Romance section. If you have no business on the Internet, I will suggest you go off for a while and have a personal retreat. Study and know your triggers. Avoid them. What am I even saying? Flee. NL is not even helping issues when you see things like "curvy actress"... This, that; you too will want to look. But avoid the temptation.

Now, like I told someone on this forum last week. Go and master the Book of Romans. Read, and re-read and listen to the audio version. Faith comes by hearing, and hearing by the word of God. Your soul cannot be strengthened if you have not resolved in your mind to obey faith. When the urge comes, get down on your knees and pray. Be plain with God, no hiding. Talk with Jesus... Soon, improvements will come. Now, take note of something, there is always an open window, where after you have done all I have said, you won't feel the urge,, you'll will be free. It's not a time to relax; it's the period to increase your fire and pray the more till you overcome.

Finally, keep yourself away from sexual sin, it's not worth it. For every bad habit, there is always a demon behind it intensifying it to keep the doer in bondage. May God help you. Do this, and you will have what you seek. Shalom.

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Re: Masturbation: I Think I Have PE And ED, I'm Just 20 by That3: 11:38pm On Jul 05, 2018
My guy stop worrying over nothing and chill with the best Fap material this night. Just do it infrequently as too much of everything is bad even eating food and drinking water and don't let it interfere with serious matter. But it's Still better than nacking olosho and contacting STD. I am not interested in girls for now, Still young and have a long way to go(Have to excel in my studies and work which masturbatión haven't hinder in anyway), BTW no money. So mastûrbating is keeping my libido in check so i don't go make one false move with one useless gurl thinking it's love. Now grab that long anaconda and shoot one big boost! cool
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Re: Masturbation: I Think I Have PE And ED, I'm Just 20 by Dgeoman(m): 11:41pm On Jul 05, 2018
Bro well thesame with me here i have been masturbating for more than 4 years now without any side effects. So all this stuffs is the matter of the mind because i see no difference between sex n masturbating just learn to control your ejaculation or kuku meet a sabi boy for chemist make e kuku the conjoin you with some issues.
Re: Masturbation: I Think I Have PE And ED, I'm Just 20 by Rhea(f): 11:42pm On Jul 05, 2018
helppppp:
Hi everyone, I have to narrate my ordeal to you all. I'm really suffering here and I'm very sad at present. No one knows this cuz I'm always jovial. Seriously I suffer a lot!

I can't even recall when I started watching porn but this week will make a complete 2 years that I have been masturbating. I felt this kind of regret when it was a year too. Please help me, I don't want it to persist again. I don't want to continue with it.

It's even got to a stage that I get aroused to anything exposure about the female. Merely looking at boobs at times, I'd have to control myself. I can't even stand a TV soft sexual act, I'd definitely be aroused. I'm hating on myself!

Before, when I engage in this act, I used to last long a little time but nowadays, I can't even stay two seconds. All I need to hear is the voice of the porn star and I'm done. I know that means I've already developed premature ejaculation (PE) .. Another one I notice nowadays is that I don't get the full control of my joystick as before, it's still standing but I feel it's lost some strength. I feel I have developed erection dysfunction (ED) also and I have never had sex before. I don't my future wife to be depressed about me!


I'm gonna be 21 in August, I don't want this thing to remain with me please help.. I have already lost enough with it. My final year result was pure rubbish, I was only lucky to make a 2.1 cuz i had had good results already in the past. Lots of times I have also contemptlated suicide or harming myself in a way to end this but I won't do that ever.

Even being in my early twenties, I'm far from being broke but I've never had a girlfriend. Just help me please!


It is all in your head. And it is worse than ED. You have to give it up one way or the other. There are many teenagers suffering from the same plight today. Someone may have to sprinkle some cameroon pepper inside your vaseline. Try it once, and you'll never try wa.nk again.
Re: Masturbation: I Think I Have PE And ED, I'm Just 20 by Rhea(f): 11:43pm On Jul 05, 2018
That3:
My guy stop worrying over nothing and chill with the best Fap material this night. Just do it infrequently as too much of everything is bad even eating food and drinking water and don't let it interfere with serious matter. But it's Still better than nacking olosho and contacting STD. I am not interested in girls for now, Still young and have a long way to go(Have to excel in my studies and work which masturbatión haven't hinder in anyway), BTW no money. So mastûrbating is keeping my libido in check so i don't go make one false move with one useless gurl thinking it's love. Now grab that long anaconda and shoot one big boost! cool
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Re: Masturbation: I Think I Have PE And ED, I'm Just 20 by That3: 11:45pm On Jul 05, 2018
awwfar:
na anoda tin dey do u my guy, started when I was writing my ssce back in 2006 and up till this moment d journey has been a fulfiling one. I dey fap if I no get phussy around and nothing do me.. in fact, going to fap now.. you need pictures?
Omo nack me those pictures, I am in the mood.
Re: Masturbation: I Think I Have PE And ED, I'm Just 20 by yinkakani(m): 11:45pm On Jul 05, 2018
Well, you really do have to quit porn and masturbation. You could join the NoFap community on reddit, read the success stories on there, determine to quit porn by taking the first step which is deleting porn videos, pictures, GIF images, or any sexually explicit material and rewire your brain.

It takes around 90days for your brain to rewire your porn addiction. The problems you highlighted I reckon are psychological(i'm not a medical expert), less of physiological. Quit porn and masturbation and you'll be fine. You can download a tracker on play store e.g habitbull to track your progress. Good luck bro.
Re: Masturbation: I Think I Have PE And ED, I'm Just 20 by delishpot: 11:50pm On Jul 05, 2018
nero2face:
My brother don't even think about killing ur self bcuz of this, many have been in same battle and many are still battling tot (single and even married), some end up getting totally free from it while some only succeed in bringing it down to the minimum, some ladies has it worse than we guys, I battled with same years ago and I can tell u am 99% free today, get ur self a good girlfriend who loves sex too, she'll make u loose appetite in watching Porn and de fear of not being able to satisfy her alone makes u run out of porn videos... May God help us
Stop decieving him. Masturbation destrys ones sexual drive for physical intimacy with ones spouse. With time he will not enjoy sex if it is not done the way he is used to. The more he masturbates the less he is interested in physical relations with his wife should he have one in future. Plus it is defiling of ones body.You that is advicing him otherwise, do you masturbate?
Re: Masturbation: I Think I Have PE And ED, I'm Just 20 by Gurusarenna: 11:51pm On Jul 05, 2018
KaBabs1:
LMFAO. This one is a learner sha. How can you know you have PE when technically, you're still a virgin? An addicted wankēr with more than 6 years experience told you that you he doesn't have PE but you disregarded him saying you don't want to listen to people like hm. E be like say you never know why you open this thread. Perhaps you don't really need help. Shior. Masturbation is healthy fam. If you know, you know. Don't allow the society's view about it to get to you.
you're part of the society view undecided
Re: Masturbation: I Think I Have PE And ED, I'm Just 20 by delishpot: 11:54pm On Jul 05, 2018
KaBabs1:
LMFAO. This one is a learner sha. How can you know you have PE when technically, you're still a virgin? An addicted wankēr with more than 6 years experience told you that you he doesn't have PE but you disregarded him saying you don't want to listen to people like hm. E be like say you never know why you open this thread. Perhaps you don't really need help. Shior. Masturbation is healthy fam. If you know, you know. Don't allow the society's view about it to get to you.

So how often do you masturbate?
Re: Masturbation: I Think I Have PE And ED, I'm Just 20 by Nobody: 11:55pm On Jul 05, 2018
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Re: Masturbation: I Think I Have PE And ED, I'm Just 20 by Rhea(f): 12:00am On Jul 06, 2018
That3:
My guy stop worrying over nothing and chill with the best Fap material this night. Just do it infrequently as too much of everything is bad even eating food and drinking water and don't let it interfere with serious matter. But it's Still better than nacking olosho and contacting STD. I am not interested in girls for now, Still young and have a long way to go(Have to excel in my studies and work which masturbatión haven't hinder in anyway), BTW no money. So mastûrbating is keeping my libido in check so i don't go make one false move with one useless gurl thinking it's love. Now grab that long anaconda and shoot one big boost! cool
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These curves are just too criminal.

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Re: Masturbation: I Think I Have PE And ED, I'm Just 20 by That3: 12:05am On Jul 06, 2018
Rhea:


These curves are just too criminal.
Mehn! It gets me going every damn time. I don't even know which one to concentrate on cry. If only God can just bless me with one of such ladies my mission on earth would be accomplished and i can die with a smile on my face cry.
Re: Masturbation: I Think I Have PE And ED, I'm Just 20 by Rhea(f): 12:08am On Jul 06, 2018
That3:
Mehn! It gets me going every damn time. I don't even know which one to concentrate on cry. If only God can just bless me with one of such ladies my mission on earth would be accomplished and i can die with a smile on my face cry.

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Re: Masturbation: I Think I Have PE And ED, I'm Just 20 by Unlimited22: 12:09am On Jul 06, 2018
soberdrunk:




Wow!!! "6 years"!!


4years-------Bsc

2years--------Msc


Technically you have a Masters degree in Self pleasure, keep it up and you are heading for PHD then you can be called Dr Wanky..
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Re: Masturbation: I Think I Have PE And ED, I'm Just 20 by Flirtyjane(f): 12:09am On Jul 06, 2018
nero2face:
My brother don't even think about killing ur self bcuz of this, many have been in same battle and many are still battling tot (single and even married), some end up getting totally free from it while some only succeed in bringing it down to the minimum, some ladies has it worse than we guys, I battled with same years ago and I can tell u am 99% free today, get ur self a good girlfriend who loves sex too, she'll make u loose appetite in watching Porn and de fear of not being able to satisfy her alone makes u run out of porn videos... May God help us

And you think you make sense?
You are teaching him to graduate from masturbating to fornicating.

And you think that is a solution?

Rubbish
Re: Masturbation: I Think I Have PE And ED, I'm Just 20 by Akpacha(m): 12:12am On Jul 06, 2018
helppppp:
Hi everyone, I have to narrate my ordeal to you all. I'm really suffering here and I'm very sad at present. No one knows this cuz I'm always jovial. Seriously I suffer a lot!

I can't even recall when I started watching porn but this week will make a complete 2 years that I have been masturbating. I felt this kind of regret when it was a year too. Please help me, I don't want it to persist again. I don't want to continue with it.

It's even got to a stage that I get aroused to anything exposure about the female. Merely looking at boobs at times, I'd have to control myself. I can't even stand a TV soft sexual act, I'd definitely be aroused. I'm hating on myself!

Before, when I engage in this act, I used to last long a little time but nowadays, I can't even stay two seconds. All I need to hear is the voice of the porn star and I'm done. I know that means I've already developed premature ejaculation (PE) .. Another one I notice nowadays is that I don't get the full control of my joystick as before, it's still standing but I feel it's lost some strength. I feel I have developed erection dysfunction (ED) also and I have never had sex before. I don't my future wife to be depressed about me!


I'm gonna be 21 in August, I don't want this thing to remain with me please help.. I have already lost enough with it. My final year result was pure rubbish, I was only lucky to make a 2.1 cuz i had had good results already in the past. Lots of times I have also contemptlated suicide or harming myself in a way to end this but I won't do that ever.

Even being in my early twenties, I'm far from being broke but I've never had a girlfriend. Just help me please!

Hummm final year result na rubbish and u ended with a second class upper. Weldon sir! Wait for experts to schooling u on subject matter.
Re: Masturbation: I Think I Have PE And ED, I'm Just 20 by Akpacha(m): 12:13am On Jul 06, 2018
Nwodosis:
What you should be bothered with is the high cost of Vaselines or the lubricant that you are using in this harsh economy and not about the act of masturbation! Masturbation as an act is harmless. The best way to put an end to masturbation if you wish is not to see it as an evil act or being abnormal, the more you see it as evil, the more you fight with your conscience and the guilt follows after, that you've done an evil act. When it bothers you less, it gets off your mind. Nature is even in support of masturbation, have you wondered why you can't tickle yourself but you can excite your sexual organs?
lol mad man!
Re: Masturbation: I Think I Have PE And ED, I'm Just 20 by justli: 12:17am On Jul 06, 2018
Hey, I hope you are still reading. Don't get too hard on yourself. At least you realised there is a problem and actively seeking solution, unlike most of the dickheads who think wanking away their essence is the best thing that has ever happened to them.

I want you to know that their is a way out. And surprisingly, it is so easy and painless.

Someone on this forum carelessly dropped the hint. That one hint freed me from the class of internet porn and masturbation.

All the advice up there , they are Noble, but they don't work. You need to understand that internet porn is the worst form of addiction known to man. Now you have lost virility, surfering PIED(porn INduced Erectile Dysfunction) , low self confidence , suffering and emptiness inside .

We have all been there. And I can't think of a worst way to be alive.

To save you the epistle, Google https://sites.google.com/site/hackbookeasypeasy/home/

Follow that link, it will guide you to freedom. It is a free read online. Make sure to complete the book, open another thread and give us your testimony .

Now go get busy.
Re: Masturbation: I Think I Have PE And ED, I'm Just 20 by guardsman: 12:22am On Jul 06, 2018
helppppp:
Hi everyone, I have to narrate my ordeal to you all. I'm really suffering here and I'm very sad at present. No one knows this cuz I'm always jovial. Seriously I suffer a lot!

I can't even recall when I started watching porn but this week will make a complete 2 years that I have been masturbating. I felt this kind of regret when it was a year too. Please help me, I don't want it to persist again. I don't want to continue with it.

It's even got to a stage that I get aroused to anything exposure about the female. Merely looking at boobs at times, I'd have to control myself. I can't even stand a TV soft sexual act, I'd definitely be aroused. I'm hating on myself!

Before, when I engage in this act, I used to last long a little time but nowadays, I can't even stay two seconds. All I need to hear is the voice of the porn star and I'm done. I know that means I've already developed premature ejaculation (PE) .. Another one I notice nowadays is that I don't get the full control of my joystick as before, it's still standing but I feel it's lost some strength. I feel I have developed erection dysfunction (ED) also and I have never had sex before. I don't my future wife to be depressed about me!


I'm gonna be 21 in August, I don't want this thing to remain with me please help.. I have already lost enough with it. My final year result was pure rubbish, I was only lucky to make a 2.1 cuz i had had good results already in the past. Lots of times I have also contemptlated suicide or harming myself in a way to end this but I won't do that ever.

Even being in my early twenties, I'm far from being broke but I've never had a girlfriend. Just help me please!


U hav not been masturbating. U have been overmasturbating. There's a difference. People who don't suffer these side effects hav been masturbating & not overmasturbating. If they did, they'd suffer d same thing u ar going thru.
Firstly, u hav to stop masturbating for a while to allow ur body recover.
Eat well & healthy. Rest well. Exercise. U may take some medications or better still see a Gynecologist. U will be back to ur healthy self earlier than you think if u stay focused & disciplined. Stay away frm porn, focus ur mind on other things. Go out more & be more sociable.
I read someone here telling you about Edging. Pls don't. It's another form of masturbation which might rewire ur brain with serious consequences. U may just be jumping frm frying pan to fire. Do not edge. Run frm any form of masturbation.
Good luck.
Re: Masturbation: I Think I Have PE And ED, I'm Just 20 by justli: 12:28am On Jul 06, 2018
@oop, I hope you read this comment. First off, I must tell you you are in a dip shit. But their is a way out.

This one act, is going to eat your life out. Forget the blockheads up their commenting about how masturbation is the best thing that has ever happened to them.

The problem isn't masturbation. The problem is pornography. Porn is the cause of your erectile disfunction.

You are two years in the act, you are just getting started. The road is long, bleak and tormenting. The story is the same. Surge of dopamine. A minute of ecstacy. The withdrawal leaves you hopelessly empty like a walking corpse.

We have all been there. Some of us got lucky and made it out of the dungeon. The the majority, their life is tied to porn . It takes virtually all a man has to give: your virility, confidence, focus , passion and even socialising with the opposite sex.

I will tell you what worked for me. Not the usual blab like: will power, prayers, socialising. Those things don't work with porn. Two weeks later you would take another peek on indecency, and you are trapped again for six months until you fight it again for another 3 weeks, and the circle goes on and on.

Take it from me, porn is the worst form of slavery mankind has had to devices.

If you follow through my advice, you will come back here and write your testimony.

It was on this forum that someone droped the hint. HackBook easypeasy. A free read online. That's the one book that saved my life. I tried everything else, same story, relapsed after 3 weeks.

Now I feel I owe it to everyone suffering this scourge an exposure to this knowledge.

https://sites.google.com/site/hackbookeasypeasy/home/
Follow that link and find your essence back again. Everyone can find joy, happiness, and peace again.

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Re: Masturbation: I Think I Have PE And ED, I'm Just 20 by Fastfingers33: 12:28am On Jul 06, 2018
Mastubation is a killer,run from it,as for the guy be determined, get away from erotic stuff, eat well,

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Re: Masturbation: I Think I Have PE And ED, I'm Just 20 by Fastfingers33: 12:30am On Jul 06, 2018
SUNNINO:
Pray and fast, then go for deliverance in MFM
That is d best, prepare for dry fasting 3days
Re: Masturbation: I Think I Have PE And ED, I'm Just 20 by deedondavi(m): 12:48am On Jul 06, 2018
soberdrunk:




Wow!!! "6 years"!!


4years-------Bsc

2years--------Msc


Technically you have a Masters degree in Self pleasure, keep it up and you are heading for PHD then you can be called Dr Wanky..


lol
Re: Masturbation: I Think I Have PE And ED, I'm Just 20 by pmm3(m): 12:58am On Jul 06, 2018
my brother chill...as a matter of fact your case is not critical....talkin from experience...Ur panickin and dat leads to psychological problem,the thing is that your watchin porn alot,masturbate alot thereby causing harm to your stuff.....i will advice you go to a pharmacy ,they will prescrip a drug that will help u relax owk you will be fyn in no tym....this ur probs is more like losin virginity sha.....u will be alryt trust me bro
Re: Masturbation: I Think I Have PE And ED, I'm Just 20 by Dollabiz: 1:02am On Jul 06, 2018
hmmmm
Re: Masturbation: I Think I Have PE And ED, I'm Just 20 by AK481(m): 1:09am On Jul 06, 2018
helppppp:
I would also really appreciate this if you can advise me on how to gain back my strong erection and delayed ejaculation. I'm just confused!

Forgive my typos in the write up



Please move this to front page lalasticlala abeg!

Stop pmo for 1 year
Re: Masturbation: I Think I Have PE And ED, I'm Just 20 by AK481(m): 1:20am On Jul 06, 2018

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