Is it appropriate ?

its inappropriate and childish.me,I don't put any form of come on my phone and neither does she..it all comes down to understanding and maturity.even if her phone is encoded,I can't do it

only a jobless n broke A$$ n***a does dat.

You have created several humiliating and demoralising threads cos of this lady, believe you me, one day she will lose it and go to town on you.

A man or a woman demanding such is insecure, relationship should not translate to loss of self.

JoannaSedley:
You have created several humiliating and demoralising threads cos of this lady, believe you me, one day she will lose it and go to town on you.

Stalker get a life.

Guitarlife:

Stalker get a life.

Insecure fiancé abi fiancee get a grip on yourself dude.

JoannaSedley:
Insecure fiancé abi fiancee get a grip on yourself dude.

Lol see women defending themselves.
I dont expect a lady to feel bad if her fiancee is checking her phone, thats if she got nothing to hide.

Guitarlife:

Lol see women defending themselves.
I dont expect a lady to feel bad if her fiancee is checking her phone, thats if she got nothing to hide.

It is just that your insecurity is quite nauseating. You have created a helluva thread about this lady and you ain't even married yet. She will go to town on you after marriage aswear.

JoannaSedley:
It is just that your insecurity is quite nauseating. You have created a helluva thread about this lady and you ain't even married yet. She will go to town on you after marriage aswear.

You havent said anything new, just the same biased opinion. Stol letting your gender influence you try and be objective. Would you have your brother going into a marriage without properly doing his check ?

Now its a crime to vet a lady before marrying her , why not just toss a coin ? I bet that'd be okay by you.

Guitarlife:

You havent said anything new, just the same biased opinion. Stol letting your gender influence you try and be objective. Would you have your brother going into a marriage without properly doing his check ?

Now its a crime to vet a lady before marrying her , why not just toss a coin ? I bet that'd be okay by you.

okay, let's try this. Bith of you should just exchange your phones and have a field day FBIng and CIAing on each others privacy. How about that? You believe you are the only one buying market and she is waiting to accept whatever the hell she got thrown at irrespective of how rotten it is.

Guitarlife:
Is it appropriate ?

Why not? If she doesn't have any skeleton in her wardrobe, why should she be afraid & reluctant in giving you access to her phone?

Look, any woman I marry will be routinely subjected to a random integrity testing without prior notice.

I will ask her to remove her panties, sit down on the couch, open her thighs wide & stick my forefinger into her bushy oven.

If the temperature therein is above 75 degree celsius, that means she just engaged in an unholy & illegal activity that triggered a friction thereby resulting in the rise of temperature.

The mechanics is similar to the engine of any motorcar. Once the engine is ignited & the pistons start going up & down in the block, and it is driven from iyana ipaja to mushin olosha.

You park the vehicle and switch off the engine, what do you notice?

The temperature & the heat from the engine bay would have risen beyond 120 degree celsius especially if it was driven with air conditioner.

And what do you think I would do to such a lady? Chase her back to her father's house in the middle of the night with an APC branded broom because Nigerian women of nowadays are never to be trusted!

U are being unsecured with everything, simply because fear has clouded you. By the time u marry her and she regularly ask to see ur phone chat then she becomes the nagging wife. Leave this lady and search for a submissive soul, they are plenty.

When last did u show her undying love cos that is what the bible said , husband love ur wife and wife submit to ur husbands, not only when it's convenient for both, but even in ur gloomy days. So why the distrust.

The truth is u need an overly submissive wife who won't even communicate her fears when u are trying to decide on something that will affect both of you ,cos I don't know why u will suggest court marriage to her out of the blues and when she says no u term her as an not been submissive..