Another aspect of why women are treated as sexual object, that is looked upon as merely as a sexual desire for a male pleasure, is because of the media, the media has a major role to play in the way woman are portrayed, why are men not frequently used as sex object, naked or half naked to advertise products or in films as a male prostitute? It boils down to the fact men and boys are more valued in the society than women. The majority of Nigerian film particularly <Yoruba film> always portrays women as weak, cheap, and available for sex at all time for money. Very annoying why a so called actress or a woman film director who claims to be educated, will be using her talent and education to pass negative messages to the public? Why portray a woman in this 21st century as ever available for sex money, as a nonentity, almost naked for advert or films? For over hundred years women have been fighting for the betterment of women especially in empowerment, to occupy respectable position to earn a good remuneration as equal as that of men; without been harassed sexually, or as intimacy gadgets for the pleasure of men, for promotion in the office and whatever. What is the point of educating the girl child if at the end of all, she will often be passing messages to the public that been a intimacy gadget for men pleasure is a better way of earning money after have been dehumanized. Women should value themselves and dictate how men should treat them. Women should choose part that values women, which do not promote them as sex object, but promote them as successful career women, successful mothers, politician etc.

The bad effect of TVs on our children mind

The intelligence, competence and creativity of our women actresses should be more displayed than their bodies. Let’s remember that not many parent truly have time, or are around to control what their children watch on TV or cable station; let’s not forget that images and video sticks in our mind forever, especially in children minds, daily our media and film industries are propagating sex, giving more values to sex and prostitution rather than family core values and morals, all we watch on media is women half-dressed breast exposed to the public particularly these our actress or public figures women, who are supposed to be our role models. Many children who are left on their own without proper parental care are having android phones today, where they continuously watch these things not only on TV or cables but on social media, just tell me why rape will not quadruple or prostitution or runs another form of prostitution will not be on the rise, Including violence.

Let’s change the mind set of our women to be hard working and respectable

Sex and money promote violence, many young girls who watch these films think that through sex with a rich man will automatically become rich, let’s change the mind set of our women who are public figure to portray women as independent hard working women, not lazy, intelligent and creative women irrespective of the economy situation in our countries.