There is a general misconception that socializing is likely to distract students and young people in general from excelling in school. Some think that developing in intelligence and maturity does not allow for socializing. But that’s not true. Finding a balance in your social life as with other aspects of your life is key. Once you’re able to gain control, you’ll be just fine. Study has even shown that socializing helps us live longer and happier lives — which we all want right?

Beyond Social Media
Social media has made connecting with friends and meeting new people very easy — you can even learn about your potential new friends within seconds. However, nothing compares to good-old human interactions; viewing the sun set with a friend, going shopping with that bestie, watching a football match with the guys, sharing your dreams, aspirations and even childhood memories, cooking and making cooking videos, photo sessions in lecture theaters, reading and sharing knowledge… the list of things to do with friends are endless.


Come Out and Play

Socializing is like food to the heart. Some people are understandably shy and have difficulty relating with others. Some others think socializing takes too much time, emotional and physical energy. What do you think?

Here are 3 reasons why you should socialize.

- You can sleep easy

Study shows that connecting with friends can boost your brain health and lower your risk of depression. Knowing someone out there is looking out for you, or you’re not alone in anything you choose to do helps you sleep with your two eyes closed. Friends can also help take your mind off depressing thoughts.

- A Friend in Need…

And then there will always be someone to talk to. You can find certain conversations soothing and relaxing, and you can get help in your academics or personal affairs from friends when you need it.

- For the sheer fun of it.

Nothing beats the fun of being with other people, especially people you connect with, there’s never a dull moment. So, grab your positive vibes, put on your best shoes and go easy on yourself. You deserve some accolades too.

Ways to boost your social engagement

Looking for ways to help you get more social? Here are some ideas to get you started.

Have an open mind — You’ll surprise even yourself.

Don’t expect too much — In fact, expect nothing. Just have fun, go with the flow… at your own pace of course.

Take advantage of shared spaces — You can’t meet new people in the comfort of your own space. You’ll have to come out to places where there’s bound to be people, like your hostel’s communal lounge, kitchenettes and courtyards.

Contribute to conversations — Not many people know how knowledgeable, funny or smart you are until they hear you speak.

Smile more — smiling makes you more approachable, you’ll invite new people to you with a warm smile.

Open your arms — Be welcoming, which also means you have to be willing to give your time and resources.
Try out new things — or places — That newly opened nail salon or barbershop will be a nice place to start. Go and find your place outside the shores of your hostel with friends. The fun part is, there are many things you can do which doesn’t have to cost a lot of money.

Our Stand

We recognize the importance of socializing and its benefits to mental health and that’s why we factored it in the development of our hostels. We have shared spaces as communal lounges, where residents can enjoy each other’s companies. We encourage friends to book their rooms and stay together. Very often, we organize gatherings that brings all residents and SA8 team members together to interact with each other.


We say: “Meeting new people stimulates the mind, gives energy, leads to more encounters and infinitely expands your world.”