Some women hold the motion that their/your worth is weighed by the love they/you receive and not by the love they/you give. So they in order to increase their worthiness, they invest in things which they believe will boost their attraction, hence admiration which they believe will consummate in love of men for them. This motion leads them to extreme lengths like the one illustrated in the attachments below of an extremely slim and malnourished girls obviously heading to their grave yard than paradise. It makes you to wonder at times what sort of Love is this, in practice. Does it look like the Agape love that Christ has for the church which is demonstrated by the husband's love for his wife? For all the guys out there who claim love for sexy and slim fit girls, always and only Over emphasizing the external at the expense of internal qualities. look at what your type of love has produced.
if this wrong motion by women has brought about these things, then it ought to be reviewed in the light of God's word cos i remember Jesus saying that it is more blessed to give than to receive. That should also applied to love, hence it is worthier to give love than to receive love.

it is appalling