RoyalBlak007:
Caffeine-free coffee still contains caffeine.

There are many advantages and disadvantages when it comes to coffee. If your doctor recommends you to expel all substances that stimulate the nervous system, you have to remember that each caffeine-free coffee pack contains from 0.01 to 3% caffeine.

MissJoy29:

I'm sorry I upset you. It wasn't intentional. I just didn't think we are friends & that's the truth. After all, we just started chatting well recently (if I'm wrong, correct me).
2-4 months? Really?

MissJoy29:

I believe this. I don't mind all these things they write on food packets or containers. They can really be misleading. One day, we will see "sugarless sugar", "fatless oil" etc. Lol.

PreciousBro:

How do you make friends? What or who are friends to you. I did consider you a friend, we don't have to acquaint it with some physical presence. You don't chat with strangers with so much gusto or enthusiasm. If I sensed your awkwardness lodged by my flirtatiousness then I was right. I have a great sense of perception so I can tell you haven't been truly friendly or spontaneous in our chats seeing you think of me as a stranger yet didn't have the utmost courage to relate it to me even in the most joking or friendly way possible. My dear, it speaks little of your Freewill.

As a lady that you are,I understand the undecidedness of it. But I've always liked bold ladies. Maybe we are truly strangers after all lol.
I actually related my friendly intentions with you the first time we chatted and I followed you as my first follow yet I had to sound it again that I'm your friend? Ok my nature might be such that I flirt on a low key anonymously ,so? I flirt whoever I want to but that's just what it is. Or should I have sounded I want you to be my "Nwa baby" before you know my likesness for you is beyond social media? I'm a strange being so not the average Nigerian. It's very hard to find my ilk, I at least thought we had similarities perhaps not. So sorry I follow you,sorry I chat with you, sorry I flirt with you. Sorry I'm even mentioning you.

RoyalBlak007:

They are just writing to sell

MissJoy29:

If only you know the type of person I am, you won't be this critical....
I'm also very different from your average Nigerian girl & their mentality...just like you said.

Who mentioned physical presence? 'Cause I sure didn't. I have great friends here I haven't seen before. Not just physically only but even in pictures. We dont even know what we look like. But we have this amazing friendship & connection that is mind boggling. And I'm talking about close-to-a- year-friendship.

Do you think we got there immediately we started talking? Or is the word "gradual" not in your dictionary?

Precious, I think you were too hasty in your assertion & perception of me. And I'm not going to attempt to change that cos it's of no use to someone who has already mapped me out in his head. We are different people so you can't expect me to reason like you do especially when we don't know ourselves that much. And not only that; you shouldn't use your own views & behaviours to judge or criticise me & even insult me subtly.

So thank you for everything too.
@bolded, please stop following & chatting me up here. Stop mentioning me too cos I won't reply. Take care.

ogbiwa:
Precious and Joy now now e don reach quarrel? Too easy. You guys hug and make up biko

Wow so packaged juice isn't 100% natural? Didn't know.
RoyalBlak007 you went on hiatus mate?

MissJoy29:

I believe this. I don't mind all these things they write on food packets or containers. They can really be misleading. One day, we will see "sugarless sugar", "fatless oil" etc. Lol.

cana882:
Yea fats are solid at room temperature while oil is liquid at room temperature, so fatless oil actually exist.

MissJoy29:

@bolded, don't mind us.

Yeah the quarrel was too easy. But I'm not surprised. Because, anyone who thinks building friendship is easy,then definitely,quarrelling or breaking up should be easy for the person too.

So, it's alright.

PreciousBro:


Hmm I come online only to find the most Shockingly electrifying Wonder,a Follow(er) from my dearest Nwanyi oma seems to me the sore to mutual friendly feeling is starting to heal it self. That's what friendship is, at least for starters. My Joy couldn't help to shoot a fire ball at me subliminally indicating my values on friendship as inadequate. aww lol

Darling! Some of the bestest' friendship happen by a click like a switch it defies 'graduallity' or some duration period. At least that was it for me and from your countenance read by me, your responses concurred. Need I remind you sweetie that I'm a free man with full options of friendship patterns, spontaneity works. I don't just act a follower to just or a single rule of making or building friends/ship.

And at bolded again, you forgot "Making up''. As they rush in and out due to quarrelling or breaking up as you say, they also make up quickly. Proof my friendship with you isn't a quicky-fluke, you followed me even after verbally warning i shouldnt becsuse you won't. And I mentioned you after I implied I won't anymore

MissJoy29:

But truly, your values on friendship are inadequate.

@first bolded, so you got to friendship-ville before me. Will it be a crime if you wait for me? Like I said earlier, you shouldn't expect everyone to act & think as you do. That's why we are uniquely different with divergent views, opinions, experiences, etc to "spice up" the friendship.

@second bolded, I'm free too with everyone. But not everyone is my friend. Friendship is earned honey, contrary to what you posited in your earlier post. You work hard at building AND sustaining it. Except its fake or superficial which I don't do.

@third bolded, I didn't say I won't follow you or I can't. I only said you shouldn't mention me cos I won't reply. But, we have both broken that part of the "agreement". So......
truce?

PreciousBro:

I think you're way too serious.

I like to think of friendship more like a ride,a process, a movement with endless point of arrival or destination not a state or a room where you enter. My values represent freeness. I'm not a one rule follower. That doesn't guarranty anything. Life is in process. You ordinarilised my values being diff from yours whiles you also imply I'm trying to perforce you to follow mine. I'm not in anyway trying to change your mind but constant related conversations edifies us into better or advance thinkers.

Friendship being a ride by me depicts severity or degree by which we attain and it's in continuity. It could be a sweet smooth ride or a rough timid one but then since there're no rules to things pertaining 'freeness' it connotes spontaneity, Independence. You make it sound like your own perspective in friendship puts you in a higher pedestal. I think if you were a lot freer as claimed contrary to whatever,you'd not think homogenously. You'd be like a bird and fly to both or all sides of a map to be receptive to change and take whom ever emotionally and or psychologically balances with you despite the state of ride or journey, not building blocks or fences simply because you feel it hasn't reached the expected duration like you're on a timer. I was in friendship ville the moment I chatted with you friendly, another level or degree of friendship ville the second time we chatted. It's all in relative doses. The real issue here is more with you caught in the web of a friendship-approach- dilemma. That's why you got heldup at the rememberance of your rules despite all sweet conversations or mood our little relation brought. You reset the whole friendly voyage. LoL

We are all diff and we see things differently so
by the time you perhaps start to see things a little diff from your present state you might understand me.

Truce hunNay!

Remember friendship is not just a state but a ride,a rollercoaster,a wheel that propels you up n down to many states,places, stages. Where some you either like or dislike,love or hate. They transcend into memories.

Good night!

scarr:
PreciousBro
MissJoy29
Please get a room

PreciousBro, i think you took this too far real quick. Nobody owes you friendship. For future sakes, kind gestures from a lady doesnt mean she likes u or you guys are a "thing".



Now both of you hug and make up

adepitan278:
MissJoy29:Did I hear you say "bedroom"? What are we going to be doing there? We'll be grinding pepper and onion. Or isn't that what they do in the bedroom?k

MissJoy29:

Thank you for seeing it. That's what I was trying to explain to him.

@bolded, why do guys misconstrue that a lot?

scarr:


I wish i knew the answer to that, beats me too. Although it happens with ladies too but more with men

MissJoy29:

Yes....it definitely happens more with men.

And if only I know why they act like that....

scarr:


In as much as i think it can be attributed to a number of things but that's a discussion for another day.
Just keep being yourself.