Divorce can be such an eye-opening reality for so many married couples, but you still hear stories of people who say they were completely shocked when their spouse asked for a separation.

When you’re looking from the outside in, it can be hard to wrap your head around this. How did they have NO idea that this was coming? How did they live with the same person day after day, the person they married, and still have no indication that their marriage was about to end?


1. They don’t process change well.


There are people who thrive on routine. They find security in the familiar. And, all too often, those kinds of people can have a huge blindspot when their marriage starts to struggle.

If pressed, they probably would admit that they knew something wasn’t quite right in their relationship, but they just didn’t know how to process the information OR they just needed a lot more time to process it than their spouse did.

However, that doesn’t mean that they’re actually surprised by the breakup. It just took them longer to acknowledge it. The danger is when those slow-processors embrace the role of the “victim” in the divorce, even when they had just as much warning as anyone else.
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