anjilgreat:


I do not ride on emotions. I speak on the side of morality. Do you know that the main reason why this issue of baby mama thrives is because most men still have complete access to their children and lay claim to them conveniently.

The society in time past used to frown at the issue of having children out of wedlock but what do we have now? the society has started embracing it and you can imagine a so-called celebrity who is suppose to be a role model to young ones advising another to do same.

I don't blame them or those supporting his view of having children outside wedlock, I blame these lady's that have lost their moral values and prefer having children for these so-called called celebrities because of financial gains and fame.

BTW, I wonder how you'll feel if your sisters or children become baby mamas. You are entitled to your views and I expect you to respect my opinion. Stay blessed.

phemmyfour:
Women! Always love to be at the receiving end. Always looking for someone to understand them

Ionkidiz:
Timaya na God go bless you

spiritedtete:


Shaping their growing up depends on me... And the philosophy which they will learn all on me.

So when they grow up... They won't depart from it...

I learnt and grew up through a wise father... HIs wisdom was a miracle... And he gave me a gift of powerful imagination.

That has sharpen my world. And now I see beyond the eyes

shollyshine:
marriage works broh when you get the right partner...

Waakanda:
Very wrong advice bro ... As for me, I'm enjoying my marriage like 'kilode'

jbreezy:
Honestly, itz jst hard to find a naija woman who will love yu unconditionally for wu yu are...american/ british women av different mentality tho...for me, itz either foreign woman or no marriage

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jbreezy:
Honestly, itz jst hard to find a naija woman who will love yu unconditionally for wu yu are...american/ british women av different mentality tho...for me, itz either foreign woman or no marriage

mytime24:
See them baby papas

Giving advice to fellow men to b like them


What a shame

jbreezy:
Honestly, itz jst hard to find a naija woman who will love yu unconditionally for wu yu are...american/ british women av different mentality tho...for me, itz either foreign woman or no marriage

cucumbae:
He has learned a lesson from empress.Na money be fine Bo-Bo.

omooba969:


Responding to the first paragraph - I will rather speak up in the best interest of the innocent child than sweat over two fvckaz who are damaged goods. To deny access (in whatever shape or form) to the kids would only make a bad situation worse as it'll only do two things - feed the stinking ego of who retains custody & affect the development of the child.

@bolded in 1st paragraph - To implement what you're inadvertently suggesting is to say that capital punishment has reduced the rate of incessant killings in America.

Responding to 3rd paragraph - You have shown courage by hitting the nail on the head coz it's a major factor in this saga. As a woman, if you're not willing to have a child for a particular person, everyone knows what you're capable of doing - you flush it out.

Most of those babymamas know what they're doing.

Your concluding paragraph is sheer emotional blackmail.

mailemy:
From my side,without paying a pride price,the child is not yours.

Kimsokrates:
I don't really blame timaya for making this statement.I blame the prevalence of cheating in most marriage.Prominence of cheating in marriage institutions is what most of this"no marriage"proponents adduce when defending their decision not to get married.
Moreover, finding the right partner these days is beginning to look like an arduous task.But I don't subscribe to babymamaism.If you end up settling down with the right person,I don't see why the marriage won't stand the test of time

anjilgreat:
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Your view of emotional blackmail is not what you think but I asked you a question of reality.

You are entitled to your opinion. I am busy right now and don't expect you to completely agree with me Take care.

xtervaganza:
He's right. I wish I never got married and more than 70% of married men feel the same way

Shortyy:
SMH look at what a so called respected celebrity is vomiting from his mouth? Marriage is not for everyone. Don't discourage people from getting married just cuz you are not mentally mature to get married.
I'll get married someday, when I'm ready and with someone who understands me. Not just love, love isn't enough.

I'm so disappointed in you Timaya.

Newboss:
Oh, how dumb those your people are

Who is your father? The one that paid your mom's bride price or the one that fücked your mom, released his semen into her pussy, and a sperm succeeded in fertilizing an egg which finally metastasized into a foetus?

Oh, some people are so dumb.

Go ahead and deny the child access to the father and blame the father when shit gets real.

You are dealing with a human being, not some plastic baby.

Shortyy:

I want to understand my spouse and be understood too. Try to comprehend people first before jumping into conclusions.

DonFreshmoney:


After bleepin lot of men, u wanna give an unfortunate man a wide hole right?? Anyway, most ladies are oloesho either in and out of marriage.. I support Timaya on dis.

Bantino:


Exactly what marriage is, or requires; sacrifice! But not the sacrifice of domestic abuse etc

There are still people who are willing to sacrifice in the right way by amending and adjusting their life styles to accommodate their partners and make marriage work. Most people are getting married for the wrong reasons, and some have wrong perceptions of what a marriage should be like.

That someone's marriage failed doesn't mean that all marriages are bound to fail..

It's not a bed of roses though

anjilgreat:


I do not ride on emotions. I speak on the side of morality. Do you know that the main reason why this issue of baby mama thrives is because most men still have complete access to their children and lay claim to them conveniently.

The society in time past used to frown at the issue of having children out of wedlock but what do we have now? the society has started embracing it and you can imagine a so-called celebrity who is suppose to be a role model to young ones advising another to do same.

I don't blame them or those supporting his view of having children outside wedlock, I blame these lady's that have lost their moral values and prefer having children for these so-called called celebrities because of financial gains and fame.

BTW, I wonder how you'll feel if your sisters or children become baby mamas. You are entitled to your views and I expect you to respect my opinion. Stay blessed.

anjilgreat:



Marriage needs two committed people who truly love each other to make it work. Don't worry at the right time, God will give you a wife that will love u unconditionally and vice versa.

Marriage is not all about foreign women or men. Do you know that Africans, esp. Nigerians have greater commitment to marriage than their foreign counterparts. This is one reason why most women will prefer to stay in an abusive marriage for the sake of their children, for the sake of how far they have come with their husbands and for other reasons.

On the other hand, most of the foreign women will not even think twice to divorce their husbands and you know that divorce favours women abroad.

My advice, marriage is one of the best gifts God has given to human. Wait and pray for the right spouse that will complement you and help you to fulfill your purpose on earth, be it Nigerian or foreign that will truly love u for who u are and not what u have.