What is wrong with men weaving their hairs? Many south African do it and even in America,Christians do it, but in Nigeria if you weave, you are looked upon as a not-too-serious type, footballer or a "sango" worshipper? Is christianity against it? what of Islam?

I don't think it has anything to do with religion------it has more to do with culture. From the cultural aspect, it's believed by most people that guys on braids, locks, ear-rings are irresponsible and unserious. That's why in serious business organisations like banks, schools etc You dare not even go for a job interview in braids,ear-rings etc because of your appearance. Even if you came out with a first class. And definately, most parents wouldn't approve their daughters marring guys with such.

but do you think it is right because is like talking about homosexuality, when you fill out forms you will be asked if you are "straight or otherwise". this shows that even nature does not subscribe to it.

busygirl:

I don't think it has anything to do with religion------it has more to do with culture. From the cultural aspect, it's believed by most people that guys on braids, locks, ear-rings are irresponsible and unserious. That's why in serious business organisations like banks, schools etc You dare not even go for a job interview in braids,ear-rings etc because of your appearance. Even if you came out with a first class. And definately, most parents wouldn't approve their daughters marring guys with such.

dearie i'll sue you ooh why do keep reading my mind, i think i have to buy a padlock and start locking it

well said though

@cute-ass, thanks.

busygirl:

@cute-ass, thanks.

you're welcome dear. you think so smart and i like that

hoping to bump into you more often, take care hun