kun55:
I had sex with my girlfriend early last month a week after she became sick and had symptoms of HIV (SORE THROAT) and Night Fever. After about 2 weeks after the sex I started having symptoms too. I first had Sore Throat, Then Mild Fever but get very high at night, cold, Muscle and Joint pains, Fatigue, Diarrhea and weight loss, cough (dat refuses to go along with chest pain). I confronted her and asked her to tell me the truth if she cheated. She confessed that she cheated on me two weeks ago before we had sex. I urged her to go for a test, she did and it was negative(though) not up to 3 months. I have treated for malaria and typhoid but fever still persist. I am waiting for the completion of the 3 months to go for a test. I feel very nervous and suicidal.

OgogoroFreak:
treated for malaria and typhoid, how? Self medication??

kun55:
yes. i bought malaria meds and ciprofloxacin for typhiod

Illuminatus:
I cannot presume to know what you are going through. I cannot even say that I understand.

However, I can tell you that it is not as bad as it seems right now.

Sure, you are scared and feeling betrayed, but then I am almost certain that in six months time, you would have forgotten how you feel right now.

First thing you should know is that it is 2018 and not 1988. HIV, whilst a chronic health condition, is not a death sentence. It is not as much of a big deal as it used to be. We understand the virus better now and have more effective ways of managing it. So testing positive may not be as ground breaking and life altering as you think.

The most important thing for you right now is to understand that there is no reason to be worried. I mean, it is not like you can do anything to alter your position now and worrying is not going to change that.

Try to maintain a positive mindset. Do not obsess over it. It is not worth it. If you have a trusted friend or confidant, talk to them.

Try and maintain a healthy lifestyle now. Avoid sex at this point. Get tested. It may turn out to not be HIV but another sort of STI.

Good luck. I expect to hear some good news from you in three and six months time.






PS: There are options out there to prevent and manage HIV and other STIs. Always use a condom. Alternatively, you can start on on PrEP (a drug taken daily to prevent HIV infection). If you have unprotected sex, seek medical help and try to have PEP (a batch of drugs taken not less than 72 hours after exposure to prevent HIV infection) administered. Get tested regularly.

kun55:
I instructed the girl to ask the said guy in question to get tested which she did and it came back Negative. I have a feeling both of them may still be in the window period. Because the symptoms was just too obvious. Still waiting for the 3months .

Millichamp:


Are you still experiencing the symptoms?

kun55:
I had sex with my girlfriend early last month a week after she became sick and had symptoms of HIV (SORE THROAT) and Night Fever. After about 2 weeks after the sex I started having symptoms too. I first had Sore Throat, Then Mild Fever but get very high at night, cold, Muscle and Joint pains, Fatigue, Diarrhea and weight loss, cough (dat refuses to go along with chest pain). I confronted her and asked her to tell me the truth if she cheated. She confessed that she cheated on me two weeks ago before we had sex. I urged her to go for a test, she did and it was negative(though) not up to 3 months. I have treated for malaria and typhoid but fever still persist. I am waiting for the completion of the 3 months to go for a test. I feel very nervous/depressed and suicidal.
I also instructed her to inform the guy she cheated on me with to get tested which he did and it came out negative. I am having a feeling both of them testing negative may be due to window period coz the symptoms was too obvious..I an waiting for the completion of 3 months to get tested..I am really nervous and scared

Illuminatus:
I cannot presume to know what you are going through. I cannot even say that I understand.

However, I can tell you that it is not as bad as it seems right now.

Sure, you are scared and feeling betrayed, but then I am almost certain that in six months time, you would have forgotten how you feel right now.

First thing you should know is that it is 2018 and not 1988. HIV, whilst a chronic health condition, is not a death sentence. It is not as much of a big deal as it used to be. We understand the virus better now and have more effective ways of managing it. So testing positive may not be as ground breaking and life altering as you think.

The most important thing for you right now is to understand that there is no reason to be worried. I mean, it is not like you can do anything to alter your position now and worrying is not going to change that.

Try to maintain a positive mindset. Do not obsess over it. It is not worth it. If you have a trusted friend or confidant, talk to them.

Try and maintain a healthy lifestyle now. Avoid sex at this point. Get tested. It may turn out to not be HIV but another sort of STI.

Good luck. I expect to hear some good news from you in three and six months time.






PS: There are options out there to prevent and manage HIV and other STIs. Always use a condom. Alternatively, you can start on on PrEP (a drug taken daily to prevent HIV infection). If you have unprotected sex, seek medical help and try to have PEP (a batch of drugs taken not less than 72 hours after exposure to prevent HIV infection) administered. Get tested regularly. Get vaccines for some of these diseases which are available.

fakeprophet:


HIV medication, is it really free? some public hospitals extort their patience

MrNipplesLover:
imagine. and if u tell these girls now that they don't worth it, dem go start releasing their cums on top person head.

these girls are hard to be trusted. trust a girl at your own risk. most of the married ones self are not left out.
I pray u have not been infected.

this is a lesson for you (and other careless guys out there)

UndauntedYOCA:
Whoever is undeserving is undeserving irrespective of gender bro.