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Meet The Women Paid To Cry At The Funerals Of Strangers by Omuneizzy6(m): 4:03pm On Sep 12, 2018
Some people find it hard to cry when their loved-ones’ die, but wailing and mourning are a big part of funerals in Ghana, as it is indicative of the deceased’ social standing or how beloved they were by their family and community. So it’s no wonder that some Ghanaians are willing to pay professional mourners to cry on their behalf.
Ami Dokli is the leader of one of the several groups of professional mourners in Ghana. In a recent interview with BBC Africa, she said that some people cannot cry at their relatives’ funerals, so they rely on her and her team to do the wailing. Dokli and the other women in her team are all widows who, after their husbands died, decided to come together to help others give their loved-ones a proper send-off to the afterlife.

But crying for strangers is not the easiest thing in the world, so professional mourners charge a fee for their services, the size of which is in direct relation to the size of the funeral. If it’s a big funeral, their tears cost more.
Professional mourning is just one small part of the extravagance associated with Ghanaian funerals. People in Ghana will spend as much if not more on a funeral as they would on a wedding. A funeral planner told CNN that the average funeral should cost between $15,000-$20,000 (about N5miliion-and N7million), and should feature as many mourners as possible. These big social events are preceded by obligatory giant billboards that announce funeral arrangements, and sometimes feature artistic coffins shaped as something reminiscent of the deceased, and even dancing pallbearers.

According to Madam Awo Yaadonkoh, the leader of the Kumasi Funeral Criers Association, another group of talented criers-for hire in Ghana, professional mourners can help the family of the deceased raise more money from funeral participants.
Interestingly enough, some of these professional mourners charge by the style of crying that the customer is interested in. Here’s the list of crying styles offered by Kumasi Funeral Criers Association: crying with swagg, deep wailing and shouting, crying and rolling on the ground, crying and walking at funeral ground, highly emotional crying, basic crying, crying and vomiting. That last one sounds interesting.

Re: Meet The Women Paid To Cry At The Funerals Of Strangers by emmyid(m): 4:12pm On Sep 12, 2018
What the essence of the cry? Will it rise the Dead?






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Re: Meet The Women Paid To Cry At The Funerals Of Strangers by adewumiopeyemi(m): 4:51pm On Sep 12, 2018
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Re: Meet The Women Paid To Cry At The Funerals Of Strangers by PrincessB1(f): 5:06pm On Sep 12, 2018
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Re: Meet The Women Paid To Cry At The Funerals Of Strangers by helinues: 7:23pm On Sep 12, 2018
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