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Make Her Work To Win You Over by Donshaga(op): 5:23pm On Sep 22, 2018
Hey man,

There's a famous principle called "effort justification".

It's the psychological law that states "the more effort we put into something, the more we want it."

This law is the reason why us men go CRAZY over women who are "hard to get".

Because winning her over demands a LOT of effort.

Unless you know this seduction technique.


But here's the thing:

The rule goes both ways.

When a woman senses you are putting effort in to "win her approval to like you", 99% of the time she quickly loses interest.

Her dream man is a guy who SHE has to work for.

Look, I'm not saying it's impossible to "get her approval to like you" by putting in a bunch of effort...

Buying her stuff... taking her on expensive dates... complimenting her... using "these lame techniques" that scream "THIS GUY IS A TRY HARD".

She's just probably not going to fall in love with you, or get obsessed with you.

You'll be "just like the rest 99℅ guys she meets)
And if you're lucky she'll let you date her for a few months.

How completely pathetic.

The only way to get her CRAZY about you, is you can make HER work for YOU.

It doesn't matter if you're 350-pound slob who lives with mom and dad...

If you know how to compel HER to put in effort to win YOU over, she's going to "justify" it to herself.

She'll tell herself, "wow, I'm putting all this effort in, I must really be into this guy."

This works because of the psychological law of "effort justification".

Women backwards rationalize. When they work for something, they automatically convince themselves they want it.

And I've figured out how any guy can use this to get a girl he wants.

Imagine that...

The girl you've been thinking about, almost magically begins to put in all the effort to win your affection... and get in your pants.

While you sit back, relax and enjoy the fun.

Well, that's now possible with a simple, which I've revealed here
that surely gets HER attracted to YOU...
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