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| Help by buttermi(op): 3:26pm On Jul 15, 2010 |
I've bin dating dis guy since 5 month ago and he promise 2 marry me,but i dnt know any of his friends and family.wat do u fink i shld do about dis kind of guy. |
| Re: Help by papa190(m): 3:31pm On Jul 15, 2010 |
u are very dull, say YES SIR,THANK U~ |
| Re: Help by helovesme(f): 3:34pm On Jul 15, 2010 |
when will ladies learn that meeting the members of a man's family is no guarantee that he will marry you. you can meet his father, mother, grandma and also the grave of his ancestors and yet he will not exchange wedding vows with you. how old is the guy?are you sure he is not married or already engaged with someone else? i can understand his reservations about meeting his family but a man that shields you from his friends has something up his sleeves. my advice: relax, be your self, enjoy the relationship, keep showering him with love but do not put your heart 100percent in it and when the time is right, he will be the one begging and pleading with you to meet his parents. however, do not allow him to meet your parents yet though. |
| Re: Help by buttermi(op): 3:35pm On Jul 15, 2010 |
i ask for ur advice nt 2 abuse me |
| Re: Help by Nobody: 3:37pm On Jul 15, 2010 |
@poster instead of worrying about meeting his friends, you should probably worry about the fact that he wants to marry you after just 5months. . . . . . . . . . . . as you just confirmed by your post that you DONT know the guy. |
| Re: Help by papa190(m): 3:38pm On Jul 15, 2010 |
helovesme:WHAT Are u saying there is no man that would want a future wif u that wont take u to go meet his family and friends,im a man and personally speaking if i would meet a lady who im only havin a fling with,i would never take that lady to my family (I guess u are simply in an affair too where u have never met your guyz parents so ure giving her such a silly advice) poster please if he hasnt shown u 2 his family then run with your heels touching the back of your head~  |
| Re: Help by MrAnus: 3:44pm On Jul 15, 2010 |
BIG MISTAKE, HE IS A PLAYER, TRUSS ME!! BEEN THERE, DONE THAT!!! IF U MARRY HIM, HE WILL TREAT U LIKE $HIT IN FUTURE LOOK B4 U LEAP |
| Re: Help by LordReed(m): 3:45pm On Jul 15, 2010 |
@papa190 Guy u harsh o! buttermi u are not in a gud place rite now cos d way u framed dis situation I don't tink d guy is really serious with u. If a guy is lookin to d future he will b very bold to show u off to his friends at least. After 5 months n u don't know his friends? Girl u are in trouble o! |
| Re: Help by MrAnus: 3:46pm On Jul 15, 2010 |
buttermi , I GUESS PAPA190 IS TRYIN TO SAY U R DUMB |
| Re: Help by Omolola1(f): 3:47pm On Jul 15, 2010 |
@ poster, 5 MONTHS  RUN! RUN! RUN! with d whole of your body, RUN!!! |
| Re: Help by MrAnus: 3:48pm On Jul 15, 2010 |
buttermi , HON HE MAY BE SHY TO SHOW U COZ HE BELIEVES U R UGLY, OR HIS FAMILY MIGHT SAY U LOOK LIKE A HOUSE GIRL FROM VILLAGE |
| Re: Help by Blueice4re(f): 3:49pm On Jul 15, 2010 |
Hey gal dont be in a hurry. |
| Re: Help by jaybee3(m): 3:49pm On Jul 15, 2010 |
Meeting his folks guarantees zilch. It's damn too early for him to be talking abt marrying u sef. Are you the type dat the key to your treasure is the magic word "marriage" |
| Re: Help by afrobaby(f): 3:51pm On Jul 15, 2010 |
why don't u just give him some time, men can be deceptive at times, just be careful |
| Re: Help by helovesme(f): 3:52pm On Jul 15, 2010 |
Lord_Reed:i fear men. my first cousin has been in similiar relationship. in her case, she knew all the man's family members and not one of his friends. apparently the man was married with kids but the entire family hated his wife [she stayed in another part of the courntry] and wanted him to divorce her and they were more than happy to see him dating my cousin. the man only confessed his marital status after about 1 year into the relationship. that is why i said that meeting his family members is no guarantee that all is well. buttermi, shine your eyes well well o. |
| Re: Help by papa190(m): 4:11pm On Jul 15, 2010 |
^^ Rather u should worry cos i sense u dont know any of your BF's People so u too are in soup~ |
| Re: Help by CasaNova1(m): 4:17pm On Jul 15, 2010 |
Just give it time. When he's ready he will take you to meet his family. Has he met yours too? |
| Re: Help by MrAnus: 4:18pm On Jul 15, 2010 |
does papa190 live in Nairaland? he everywhere!!!!!! Is he Nairaland night watchman ?? |
| Re: Help by papa190(m): 4:24pm On Jul 15, 2010 |
rotflmfao~ |
| Re: Help by Onchedu(m): 4:49pm On Jul 15, 2010 |
Gan gan!!! |
| Re: Help by LordReed(m): 6:17pm On Jul 15, 2010 |
Even wen a guy is not going 2 marry u he will at least introduce u to his friends unless he has an ulterior motive. Now wen a guy is serious about marriage do u tink he would do less? No way! Especially if he has sistas he will make em meet her. He can reserve parents for d mean time. The bottomline is he will let folk around him know. |
| Re: Help by Nobody: 2:33pm On Jul 16, 2010 |
I"ve been in a similar situation myself,i didnt wait to find out if he was married,engaged,e.t.c i just knew it wasnt rt if a man is down wit u (except he is a spy and protecting u) he will definately show you to his frends well atleast.as a lot of pips have told you(the truth)meeting a man"s parents does nt guarantee marriage wit him.Finally as your man is not a ghost surely you should have met a frend?i hope you knw where he lives.pls shine your eyes lots of evil men out there. |
