pooozeee:


I have stopped eating in house even water I don't drink again and I have equally stopped giving her stipend for her up keeps thinking she will just vex and park out but this is not working out

pooozeee:
This would be the 3rd time my wife would attack me with two kitchen knives on her hand, threatening to stab me.

Now I want a divorce, each time I tell her to park out of my home, she resists

I have heard about couples fighting and eventually, the husband gets killed by the wife thru the knife.

I don't want this to happen to me, I want a peaceful separation but don't know how to really go about it.

Pls, kindly advice me.

LadySarah:
She has ur child and won't pack out to anywhere.You are the man,go to the police and report first.Then call her ppl to know what's going on.

She needs to be taken to a mental hospital.Pack ur bags and leave for them. You must have a friend you can squat with or visit the church where you pay your tithe,let them give you accommodation for now until everything is sorted out.


I'm also sure you are 60% responsible for what is going on.
What is causing the quarrel?

carammel:

Has she always been like this?
What leads to her threatening you with knives always?
[s]Are you the type that provokes your woman emotionally and still expect her to behave normal?[/s]

Whatever answer you give will not matter anymore because, from your comments, you are fed up of her already.
Good luck living with the next woman.

pooozeee:


Even if I am responsible for what is happening, is it suppose to lead to the extend of stabbing with a knife, 3 days ago she almost stabbed me, even threatened to stabb me in the eye.

pooozeee:


How can I park out of my house, sounds absurd, she would rather pack out for me

pooozeee:


Even if I am responsible for what is happening, is it suppose to lead to the extend of stabbing with a knife, 3 days ago she almost stabbed me, even threatened to stabb me in the eye.

pooozeee:
Divorce is not an easy thing to do, it is easier said than done, I no most of you won't do it too, a child is attached, think about the trauma the child will go thru seeing her mum alone and not seeing her dad everyday, that is what I am thinking of

pooozeee:


How can I park out of my house, sounds absurd, she would rather pack out for me

Ranchhoddas:
Is she physically stronger than you?

Only a woman who has no scintilla of fear would do that.

Go and buy your own knives. The next time she tries it draw yours and threaten a bloodbath in the strongest possible way. She must get the sense that she is in danger. Stop only when you see the fear in her eyes.

When you are done, firmly ask for a divorce.
She will quickly sign whatever papers you present to her.

Violence must be neutralized with violence!

VolTOxic:


What nonsense is this?

pooozeee:
Successfully divorced

pooozeee:
This would be the 3rd time my wife would attack me with two kitchen knives on her hand, threatening to stab me.

Now I want a divorce, each time I tell her to pack out of my home, she resist

I have heard about couples fighting and eventually the husband gets killed by the wife thru the knife.

I don't want this to happen to me, I want a peaceful separation but don't know how to really go about it.

Pls kindly advice me.

pooozeee:
Divorce is not an easy thing to do, it is easier said than done, I no most of you won't do it too, a child is attached, think about the trauma the child will go thru seeing her mum alone and not seeing her dad everyday, that is what I am thinking of

extremelygolden:
Op, since you have refused all the good advise given to you, kindly let us have your full name so that when she finally stabs you and we read it on the dailies or online, we will not bother cracking our head on who you are.

People advised that you should pack out of the house, at least temporarily until you find a way round the matter, you said no!

Someone said go back to your wife's family and collect back the bride price you paid, you don't want to make up your mind on that, etc.

Now, what advise are you really expecting to hear?

pooozeee:
Successfully divorced

Kingzy4pep:
He has divorced already. He wrote it up there.

Katier00:
I have this crazy idea. Get her some nice flowers and take her out on a date, then while you are at it, excuse yourself and run as your legs can carry you and change your house keys. On a serious note try to admit her in to a facility cos she sick.mental illness is real. Help her get help

PSTEMMA1960:
ewo, my chest ooooo... U are very wicked...