folake4u:
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Cassie and Diddy dated for 11years? WTF!!!

I don't understand why people are unnecessarily emotional with what Toke said this time around . She clearly spelt that it's her opinion, if you no like am, waka pass.

Let's not allow sentiments cloud our judgment by the way.


I stand with Toke on this one (excluding the last paragraph sha )

Sharon6:
She's totally right. May we not find ourselves in the hands of time wasters.







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OneSentence:
[s]this is so true. that's why as a man if you aren't ready and don't have some minimum things set down u shouldn't woo a girl. don't make make girl fall and promise her marriage once things are set. set them first b4 that talk. Infact at a certain age any man or woman should b ashamed of using the words bf and gf to describe their relationship[/s]

Biglittlelois:
She is right this time, men like that are destiny wasters, ladies, dont let any guy decieve you with "in 5 years time, we'lll get married" what happened to right now? before getting into any relationship, define it from the onset, tell him your commitment longevity, if he's not good with it, bounce!!!

BlackAdam55:
everything is wrong with it

Biglittlelois:
She is right this time, men like that are destiny wasters, ladies, dont let any guy decieve you with "in 5 years time, we'lll get married" what happened to right now? before getting into any relationship, define it from the onset, tell him your commitment longevity, if he's not good with it, bounce!!!

omooba969:


@bolded,

Please throw more light on it coz ayam not understanding.

omooba969:


@bolded,

Buahahahahaha Toke & Pocohantas must not see this...lol

CodeTemplar:
Five yrs is enuf for a child to start walking after birth.

CodeTemplar:
Five yrs is enuf for a child to start walking after birth.

mogbojaiye:

My brother Abeg rest

Becus many of the females here are already in high institution already so if they like make they know filter advices from social media, ,,,that is their life problem

Toxxic:
Hypocritical, libertarian cretin. Going by your stupid logic, shouldn't you leave the emotional people alone and let them vent? It's their opinion, so what's your stress?

Confused, bungling, inconsistent, deluded liberals everywhere.

simplesearch:


OK, to be precise many relationship nowadays are built on premarital sex making and experimentation. The lady readily give in because she believes it will be impossible for the Man to throw her out after such sacrifice, while the man lack the discipline to keep the lady she treasure until the D-Day, He instead coerces her every now and then to satisfy his inordinate desire. With this kind of scenario playing out in a relationship, there'll be little or no time for a sincere and clear-cut discussion on how to move the relationship forward as both party are already enjoying what should be reserved for the future, this may go on for half a decade or more, with no sense of commitment to put a seal to the relationship. If they eventually get married there'll be little or nothing new to enjoy or treasure anymore, the woman may no longer show much interest except when she wants another baby while the man may start assuming to have seen it after all and want something new. In essence a woman may become bitter with a man after marriage not for delaying her but for turning her a intimacy gadget before marriage, most women always find it difficult to believe the Man ever loved them in the first place, they assume it was their sacrifice that made the marriage work-out. So sometimes it is not the length of time as life can be sometimes unpredictable but what both of you engaged in within those waiting period. A woman who give you too much sex before marriage may feel less obligated to do so once the union is consummated, often times leading to frustration on the part of the man who may feel short-changed, not knowing it was the consequences of his initial action. When this is the case most times the man resort to visiting every club house to get satisfied or throwing in for divorce which is usually the end result of long relationship built on immoral self satisfaction before marriage, when a man sue for divorce on this ground most women may not budge not because even though everything was consensual they nevertheless feel exploited and unloved, but a sincere heartfelt talk will do wonders like magic. That is exactly her point and I believe she (Toke)is a victim of this kind of scenario, unfortunately DIVORCE is always a bad option because it create an entirely new problem on its own. The bottom-line is that whether a relationship is long, short, far or near once it is built on vices rather than virtue often lead to Heartache and crisis.

folake4u:



No wonder you're choleric .

Yes, I'm a liberal, kill yourself!

folake4u:
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Cassie and Diddy dated for 11years? WTF!!!

I don't understand why people are unnecessarily emotional with what Toke said this time around . She clearly spelt that it's her opinion, if you no like am, waka pass.

Let's not allow sentiments cloud our judgment by the way.


I stand with Toke on this one (excluding the last paragraph sha )

Tallesty1:
Her take on people's relationships right?

Toxxic:
Go die in a pit, piece of filth. Liberals are hypocritical scumbags. Just look at you. Contradictory shitty goat.

daveP:
She knows her audience ain't dumb so she quickly included that part of its her opinion. But we all know she's playing a Linda Ikeji on people.


She also said, " in my experience" lol

wonder what experience she is referring to first of all.

fallicio misericodium to me cos of she specified age then this would-be totally a valid good point. She's forgotten many teenagers date also and have perfect marriages as we speak?


What works for geese may not work for Lion or Cucko-a-doodle!!! Why is she yet to learn that simple philosophical idea?


Overall, it's crap. why? Rem most of our parents have the longest, if not best marriages that we all crave to break their records. Not perfect marriages, but with what divorces is, we definitely crave such time. Yet most of them courted past this 5yrs. Personally, thunder faya any guy out there that leaves a geh hanging after wasting her time. that's my idea. I'm concerned cos she knows this will influence lots of ladies out there. and it would become a trend soon, even twill affect guys that have good intent too.


She should pack one side abeg!!!

folake4u:


Hmmm true, I like the way you reasoned here. Valid points actually.
But I don't see why you should be dating more than 2,3 years if you actually want to spend your entire life with such person cos I feel those years should be enough for you to know the in and out of your partner.
Infact, you can't know EVERYTHING about your partner cos people change a lot. Change is one thing that is constant.
(my opinion though).







Replied your mail a long time ago .

daveP:



Why I think she's just seeking attention once more is the fact that she doesn't think before she speaks. Yeah, I'll repeat that anyday. Toke blabs alot and it's always senseless and unbaked.


If she did her thinking before she recorded that video, then what of students that fell in love in year one and have to wait for 5-6 yrs(nysc inclusive, work also)? You see why I said she's just blabbing?


Hope we know that's the largest section of how young ones meet and get married? So from year 1 till final year, the guy was wasting her time ba? Why is it even blamed on the guy? Why can't she also point fingers at the lady for wasting the guy's time too? (She's indirectly admitting it's a man's world after all) Lol


That asides, 5yrs isn't a waste to me for that section of lovers.

And most times, if you really love someone, I think the rushing is actually a sign you don't love such person. Rem bills and catering needs to be assured first? Asides that, some things also need be settled.(If most people eager to walk the aisle see marriage as an era of spending their lives with that man or lady for the next 50-70yrs, I think many would really think thrice; taking and giving of bullsh, etc, and still make the best outvif adjustments and tolerance. That's a deep way to qualify your spouse. But I guess many just wana get off the market fast)


To me this very blog piece is for those desperate for marriage like about 40 and still single. Ehen!!! That should be her audience. Funny enough, their wealth of experience is way more filled up than hers. so overall, once again, she blabbeth!!!


OYO to whoever, ladies especially that follows this crap advice, cos we know intentions are not always the same even in a house of 6.

Not all guys have bad intentions or waste of time syndrome(a hint she passes across with style)

Overall, she needs Jesus again, this time as her Lord and Master. Na saviour he be for now to her!!


I dunno why I never Open my mail till now. I'll respond soon.

cc Tallesty1

daveP:
No need for this now. Haba. We can't afford agree. But we can try En ensure the other sees good reason in why we agree to disagree. Don't take this option na!


Sheath your sword pls.

folake4u:




Hmmmm true sha.
I no fit argue again biko nu .

Lwkmd! Seems you don't like Toke one bit .


No problem. How've you been?

daveP:
Lol. Been good. round the good work as well.

This is like the first time I'm paying attention to details of what she's said. She can continue, but I fear for the senseless lots that would become followers of her sayings. How's Law and the hunt for that spot?

daveP:



Why I think she's just seeking attention once more is the fact that she doesn't think before she speaks. Yeah, I'll repeat that anyday. Toke blabs alot and it's always senseless and unbaked.


If she did her thinking before she recorded that video, then what of students that fell in love in year one and have to wait for 5-6 yrs(nysc inclusive, work also)? You see why I said she's just blabbing?


Hope we know that's the largest section of how young ones meet and get married? So from year 1 till final year, the guy was wasting her time ba? Why is it even blamed on the guy? Why can't she also point fingers at the lady for wasting the guy's time too? (She's indirectly admitting it's a man's world after all) Lol


That asides, 5yrs isn't a waste to me for that section of lovers.

And most times, if you really love someone, I think the rushing is actually a sign you don't love such person. Rem bills and catering needs to be assured first? Asides that, some things also need be settled.(If most people eager to walk the aisle see marriage as an era of spending their lives with that man or lady for the next 50-70yrs, I think many would really think thrice; taking and giving of bullsh, etc, and still make the best outvif adjustments and tolerance. That's a deep way to qualify your spouse. But I guess many just wana get off the market fast)


To me this very blog piece is for those desperate for marriage like about 40 and still single. Ehen!!! That should be her audience. Funny enough, their wealth of experience is way more filled up than hers. so overall, once again, she blabbeth!!!


OYO to whoever, ladies especially that follows this crap advice, cos we know intentions are not always the same even in a house of 6.

Not all guys have bad intentions or waste of time syndrome(a hint she passes across with style)

Overall, she needs Jesus again, this time as her Lord and Master. Na saviour he be for now to her!!


I dunno why I never Open my mail till now. I'll respond soon.

cc Tallesty1