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I Have Never Had An Orgasm. by chichi234(f): 12:20am On Nov 08, 2018 |
I am a married woman but ever since I got married I have never had an orgasm. I married as a virgin. I don't really enjoy sex that much. My husband think I orgasm whenever we have sex but it's a lie because I normally fake it. Pls I need help. Am I the one with problems or my husband |
Re: I Have Never Had An Orgasm. by yomi007k(m): 1:25am On Nov 08, 2018 |
Don't worry, it is achievable. You and your husband need to spend time with pre-intimacy and possibly study your body better. 4 Likes |
Re: I Have Never Had An Orgasm. by arrestdarrester: 1:32am On Nov 08, 2018 |
Did you undergo circumcision as a girl? If no, the problem is mostly psychological. |
Re: I Have Never Had An Orgasm. by Vega100: 2:30am On Nov 08, 2018 |
chichi234:send a PM to me... Giving women orgasm is my Subspecialty , I'm adept at it. 30mins with me makes your life turn around.. I shall be waiting your pm..... We are going to be very discreet so no worries.. |
Re: I Have Never Had An Orgasm. by onlinetomola(m): 5:49am On Nov 08, 2018 |
The problem is ur Husband really... |
Re: I Have Never Had An Orgasm. by chichi234(f): 6:57am On Nov 08, 2018 |
Vega100:you must be silly 24 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: I Have Never Had An Orgasm. by Dyt(f): 6:58am On Nov 08, 2018 |
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Re: I Have Never Had An Orgasm. by chichi234(f): 7:00am On Nov 08, 2018 |
arrestdarrester: No I wasn't circumcised |
Re: I Have Never Had An Orgasm. by Vega100: 7:27am On Nov 08, 2018 |
chichi234:what did I do aunty? I was only trying to help. |
Re: I Have Never Had An Orgasm. by Nobody: 7:32am On Nov 08, 2018 |
Vega100:apostle have some shame,haba!what did i just see up there? Spits! 4 Likes |
Re: I Have Never Had An Orgasm. by Vega100: 7:37am On Nov 08, 2018 |
nwanneni:i was trying na help nigga... WTF with you bitches calling me apostle. Gush!!! |
Re: I Have Never Had An Orgasm. by chichi234(f): 7:45am On Nov 08, 2018 |
Vega100: So I should leave my husband for you... You try |
Re: I Have Never Had An Orgasm. by Vega100: 7:54am On Nov 08, 2018 |
chichi234: Discreet is the magic word. |
Re: I Have Never Had An Orgasm. by thorpido(m): 8:41am On Nov 08, 2018 |
Your husband doesn't quite get it.Stop pretending too. Your husband needs to learn about your body and you need to guide him too.Spend considerable time on pre-intimacy. Many women don't orgasm by penetrative sex(alone).For most it is by clitoral stimulation. You should also explore other styles.Perhaps you have just been doing missionary. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I Have Never Had An Orgasm. by chichi234(f): 8:50am On Nov 08, 2018 |
Vega100: Oloshi 6 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: I Have Never Had An Orgasm. by Dyt(f): 9:08am On Nov 08, 2018 |
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Re: I Have Never Had An Orgasm. by Nobody: 9:08am On Nov 08, 2018 |
chichi234: The problem is that once you untie your wrapper, pull your panties & spread your legs apart, your husband just dive in without first turning on the necessary hormonal switch which triggers orgasm. It is just like coming back from work at night and unlocking the door to your apartment - and then on entry, you're complaining that you can't find your way into the bedroom because you can't see. For you to find your way into the bedroom, you need to flick on the switch to turn on the lights - else, you might bruise or break your leg by hitting it against the wall or centre table while groping through the darkness in your bid to get to the bedroom. Now, this is the 21st century. The primitive way our ancestors were used to having their intercourse is different from the modern day ways due to our exposure. For you to experience orgasm, you & your husband must cultivate a habit of indulging in mindblowing & erotic pre-intimacy for atleast 20 minutes before inserting the curved lamba into the wet slippery & odoriferous fanny. 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I Have Never Had An Orgasm. by Nobody: 9:09am On Nov 08, 2018 |
You are the problem, you are not sincere about it. Sex is meant to be enjoyed. Don't fake orgasm. Carry your husband along so you guys can work it out together. Communication in marriage is important, even during sexual activities. Moreover madam, learn how to relax when you guys are "doing" it. Don't get nervous or unnecessarily anxious. Tell him how you feel at every thrust, so he can know if he is getting it right or not. Lies or faking it can't do it.... 4 Likes |
Re: I Have Never Had An Orgasm. by chichi234(f): 9:31am On Nov 08, 2018 |
Zoharariel: The funny thing is that my husband believes in pre-intimacy. I'm always the one who will say it's ok after like 5mins and let's just have the sex. |
Re: I Have Never Had An Orgasm. by chichi234(f): 9:35am On Nov 08, 2018 |
luxy44: I think I agree with you... I guess I have a lot of inhibitions. E.g. I cant give head nor receive. It's disgusting. I can't initiate sex I'm just reclusive when it comes to sex |
Re: I Have Never Had An Orgasm. by Vega100: 10:05am On Nov 08, 2018 |
chichi234:enough of the insults, nonsense, u have been the one insulting me and I was only trying to help seeing ur predicaments . I am very sure a Lonely sore man is behind this moniker, seeking attention from People online. Fok off!!! |
Re: I Have Never Had An Orgasm. by flyingdutchman(m): 12:47pm On Nov 08, 2018 |
Vega100:Apostle, why this perversion and immaturity? 3 Likes |
Re: I Have Never Had An Orgasm. by flyingdutchman(m): 12:48pm On Nov 08, 2018 |
Vega100:Apostle, woo woo woo!!! Male Olosho!!! No dignity. |
Re: I Have Never Had An Orgasm. by flyingdutchman(m): 12:51pm On Nov 08, 2018 |
chichi234:Chichi, good day ma. There is nothing like openness in marriage. Sit your guy down, tell him the truth and be willing to research and find a solution with him AS A TEAM. Meanwhile, a word of advice (I know you are decent): never entertain thoughts of cheating. It never ends well. Best of luck and much respect to you! 3 Likes |
Re: I Have Never Had An Orgasm. by yvelchstores(f): 2:10pm On Nov 08, 2018 |
chichi234:gbam. Nne d problem is u. |
Re: I Have Never Had An Orgasm. by Nobody: 4:04pm On Nov 08, 2018 |
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Re: I Have Never Had An Orgasm. by Nobody: 5:22pm On Nov 08, 2018 |
harveybeaks: 1 Like |
Re: I Have Never Had An Orgasm. by mrsthang: 5:55pm On Nov 08, 2018 |
Lol, Never had one with my husband but have had plenty alone. Same situation,he is my only sexual experience. He's also not into lots of sex so I have to manage my konji because he's an amazing man and I'm in a happy marriage. Have considered stepping out due to frustration,so far I haven't. Will be,glad to see others confessing 4 Likes |
Re: I Have Never Had An Orgasm. by Nobody: 6:05pm On Nov 08, 2018 |
mrsthang: 5 Likes |
Re: I Have Never Had An Orgasm. by kapelvej: 6:10pm On Nov 08, 2018 |
chichi234:Since you have never had sex till marriage, do you know what is an orgasm. You may be having one and you don't know, BTW, there is no point faking one at all 1 Like |
Re: I Have Never Had An Orgasm. by bluefilm: 6:44pm On Nov 08, 2018 |
Hmm... hanty chichi na wa for you o! Maybe you should act like that your friend some years ago who wanted to have two men at once servicing her. I'm sure you will get that orgasm you seek that way. |
Re: I Have Never Had An Orgasm. by Vega100: 7:07pm On Nov 08, 2018 |
flyingdutchman:stop quoting me little prick! The hell with you and your silly apostle.. Idiata |
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