Hello Jzhane,

I read your blog everyday. I feel like you are that friend I could talk to. My name is Zara John (Not real name) and I am 48 years old. I am a Teacher and I am smart,beautiful and a Christian.

Jzhane,since I was born up to this day,no man has ever asked me out. I have never been in a relationship before. Its as if I am invincible to men. I have been on a dating site once . I met a guy online but he just wanted to sleep with me which I did not agree to. I feel lonely most times in my life. The only thing that gives e joy is teaching the beautiful children in school.

The Children call me Ms. Zara and I see them like my own children but I actually wish they are truly mine. I feel like I have missed so much in life. I do not let people know how I feel inside. People think I am used to it by now. But as I near the age 50,I am getting scared more and more.

My upbringing may have a lot to do with my situation. I grew up in very strict religious background and for most of my adult life,I was thought I was going to be a reverend sister. But I backed out just before I got into convent. I tried to make friends but men only see me like a sister. I had a crush on a guy in school back then but I could never tell him. Today he is married with kids.

My mother has been to several prayer houses for my situation.Some have told her that I am not.....see more




https://livelystones.com.ng/almost-50-i-fear-that-i-will-be-alone-for-the-rest-of-my-life/

Your story seems like one for us to visit your site. Tell the lady to get her family to matchmake her with a man. End of problem.

She spent her youthful age selecting...now see the result...she been manless till now could either be a spiritual problem,character issue or she was a die hard ferminist before.

You're 50, you're alive! that's good.

may not be because she is selective. Maybe some other reasons.it well!

donbachi:
She spent her youthful age selecting...now see the result...she been manless till now could either be a spiritual problem,character issue or she was a die hard ferminist before.

All these lie-lie stories, abeg. NEXT!

hope your name is not Thomas?

meobizy:
All these lie-lie stories, abeg. NEXT!

For almost two weeks now. 60 percent of our stories are from this who join our either our whatsapp or telegram groups from here. So what the heck are some of you talking about

And also note only Jzhane , who is in full employment writes for LS without support. So, if she is making up all the stories, she must be a genius

Beke2020:
Hello Jzhane,

I read your blog everyday. I feel like you are that friend I could talk to. My name is Zara John (Not real name) and I am 48 years old. I am a Teacher and I am smart,beautiful and a Christian.

Jzhane,since I was born up to this day,no man has ever asked me out. I have never been in a relationship before. Its as if I am invincible to men. I have been on a dating site once . I met a guy online but he just wanted to sleep with me which I did not agree to. I feel lonely most times in my life. The only thing that gives e joy is teaching the beautiful children in school.

The Children call me Ms. Zara and I see them like my own children but I actually wish they are truly mine. I feel like I have missed so much in life. I do not let people know how I feel inside. People think I am used to it by now. But as I near the age 50,I am getting scared more and more.

My upbringing may have a lot to do with my situation. I grew up in very strict religious background and for most of my adult life,I was thought I was going to be a reverend sister. But I backed out just before I got into convent. I tried to make friends but men only see me like a sister. I had a crush on a guy in school back then but I could never tell him. Today he is married with kids.

My mother has been to several prayer houses for my situation.Some have told her that I am not.....see more




https://livelystones.com.ng/almost-50-i-fear-that-i-will-be-alone-for-the-rest-of-my-life/

the next best thing to do to get pregnant and be a single mom if still possible. not been married is not strange but not having a child is strange.

As afar as I am concerned

Nothing is wrong with you

The only problem you have is you yourself

That means you are still a virgin or what?

There are many men out there and I don't know how you want them to marry you without sleeping with you, not even with your present age

Get a man for yourself and feel like a woman

If you think you can't get one for reasons best known to you

Go and adopt a child and start having sense of womanhood and motherhood

If you continue with your solo life style, at old age you will be on your own honestly

All the money you are making, what are you using it for

No matter how you love your students and see them as your children you are deceiving yourself because they will still go home and meet their mum

Since you love children adopt one and be happy with yourself

If you don't act fast loneliness will deal with you