in nigeria mostly,we blame 'principalities' 'voodoo' 'charms' for 100% misfortunes in our lives.
it is also related to family and general societal issues, one thing ignorant careless africans always fail to observe,is the 'human mistakes' before blaming any external party. at any occurrence all blames are passed on both suspicious and non suspicious living beings.
we are 70% responsible, causes of our untimely predicaments,for a family who fails to acknowledge the necessary truths in life such a family heads to the paths of destruction. you hear cases of drunk family heads not giving the appropriate care and materials to the children,what do you expect from such,you hear issues of nagging house wives swearing oaths at their husbands please please what outcome do you also expect from such non chalant attitudes.
for every smoke there's always a fire somewhere heating up, if you don't pay your regular bills and the likes in your households and the rightful agencies attached to them deprives you from further usage,of who's fault is that?, who knows may be during one of the dark nights one just end up striking his or her head to a chair or door handle who then do you blame?? .
we do not hold annual or monthly family meetings to know possible roots of family problems instead we hold incessant talks about issues in our lives and use almighty God as the yardstick, when you pray it is as well working towards it. you don't pray for family unity and end up being the 'fool' stalling up every possible meetings.
this new year approaches,take your time to settle up every possible beefs and plan peace into your environments before the great new year.