What will you do if your cousin is dating a married man with two kids and
the man in question is helping you  to get a job that is worth eighty thousand
bucks a month only for  you to discover that he is married?

Sorry that i answer question with question. But is the married man dating to marry or just for fun

Its his life not your's, the best u can do is advise him

which one concern me? --if datz wat he/she wants--wetin concern agbero with overload?

well like i've always said, you can take the horse to the stream but you cannot force it to drink

Like whitelexi said, all you can do is try to advice her and talk her out of it. I assume she's an adult, which makes her capable of making her own decisions even though in this case a dishearthening and wrong one. But at the end of the day there's little or nothing you can do about it its not like you can force her out of it

is it that he's the only guy in town. or that no single ones are available or is it that she just likes sharing someone else's remnants or that she doesn't think she can do better or that she isn't worth more than a "hide and seek" relationship (which is what it always is when your so called partner isn't totally yours and you're the one that came late to the game )

all you can do is to talk some sense into her, and let her consience do the rest, the guy too should be ashamed of himself, because it takes two to tango
if after you've talked to her, she continues then she should either be ready to remain single the rest of her life, or be ready for what is coming her way

i'm sure she doesn't expect to go free in her marriage, after being a "party of destroyal" in someone else's. I'm not wishing her evil sha, just that i was taught that what goes around comes around

Creamish:

which one concern me? --if datz wat he/she wants--wetin concern agbero with overload?

Gbam