A single lady, according to Joro Olumofin, thanked married Nigerian men for assisting single ladies this year...

That is how your future husband will help other women

ValCon888:

That is how your future husband will help other women

You dey mind am..

Women keep loving those that chase them around cause they're their source of income.

It beat my imagination how married men chase women more than single men Nigerian girls have since admitted that married men are the best.

Lol... A woman who sleeps with a married man is cursed.

Oga. Meanwhile, if you're a single mother want to settle down DM me. I've news for you

Lol they were helping you with the loose change in their pocket and you were giving them your priced possession. Why eat left over when you can eat a whole meal?

hisgrace090:
Women keep loving those that chase them around cause they're their source of income.

It beat my imagination how married men chase women more than single men Nigerian girls have since admitted that married men are the best.

Lots of irresponsible men around now. Some go as far as denying their wives and kids also wishing they met you before getting married to their spouse.

faithfull18:

Lots of irresponsible men around now. Some go as far as denying their wives and kids also wishing they met you before getting married to their spouse.

But how do you ladies fall for this kind of lies? A simple visit to his house uninvited will solve the problem. Why agree to even date a man you haven't been to his house on different occasions, sometimes without formal invitations?

The common thing is to run around clubs and hotels and stupidly believe your man is single. Arrangee meetings and outings do not tell the true state of a man/woman.

Treasuredlove:
Lol they were helping you with the loose change in their pocket and you were giving them your priced possession. Why eat left over when you can eat a whole meal?

Sadly, a mistress has the better part of the husband as long as she has him.

Acidosis:


But how do you ladies fall for this kind of lies? A simple visit to his house uninvited will solve the problem. Why agree to even date a man you haven't been to his house on different occasions, sometimes without formal invitations?

The common thing is to run around clubs and hotels and stupidly believe your man is single. Arrangee meetings and outings do not tell the true state of a man/woman.

People need to be truly careful.

Things are happening.

bukatyne:


Sadly, a mistress has the better part of the husband as long as she has him.

yeah, that is what we are made to believe but when we look at the most important moments in his life, it's his wife standing next to him and it's his wife he is building a future with...I just see mistresses as underpaid therapists

Treasuredlove:
yeah, that is what we are made to believe but when we look at the most important moments in his life, it's his wife standing next to him and it's his wife he is building a future with...I just see mistresses as underpaid therapists

What important moments?

What future could he possibly be building with wife by cheating on her?

90% of the people on this thread advised the OP to take it cool, look the other way, make herself happy and pray about it.

Do you think the mistress is having such emotional trauma?

In fact the man is having the best of slay queen/ homely wifey next to the mistress.

The wife ALWAYS has the short end of the stick hence the make yourself happy, pray for him, look the other way, focus on your kids etc.

bukatyne:


What important moments?

What future could he possibly be building with wife by cheating on her?

90% of the people on this thread advised the OP to take it cool, look the other way, make herself happy and pray about it.

Do you think the mistress is having such emotional trauma?

In fact the man is having the best of slay queen/ homely wifey next to the mistress.

The wife ALWAYS has the short end of the stick hence the make yourself happy, pray for him, looks the other way, focus on your kids etc.

no ma'am, you are wrong
The wife has an unfair deal but never the short end, except she is an ignorant one
The mistress has no legal, spiritual or physical power over the husband like the wife
You will never find a mistress standing next to her sugar daddy when he is being sworn into an important office
You will never find a mistress standing next to her sugar daddy when he sees his kids graduate from uni or get married
You will never see a mistress stand next to her sugar daddy when he is breaking ground on his first house
It won't be his mistress on any of his formal legal documents...not at work, not even when it comes to his welfare
I can go on and on
No be by "it is me he takes out, it is me he buys stuff" imagine the needs of a mistress...clothes, shoes, a new phone..shallow stuff...and the needs of a wife.."building a house, the kids school fees etc)investments
When he goes to church nko and they call him deacon? Whe he is celebrating his mom or dad's 90th, which foolish man will proudly display his mistress?
She gets the short end of the stick but claims a weak point of having his attention. Which attention? Lol the wife must have even shifted her affections to her kids and the man will obviously have started getting jealous...and the mistress? Countless abortions and even if she has kids they are still termed outsiders...the husband takes care of all the bills at home before he honors her request....but she doesn't know this of course...he will pay his rent before he pays hers etc. She would do well to get a man of her own and build a life with him because she is easily replaceable. A man 's wife will always have that special place a mistress can never have and that is just the truth

Treasuredlove:
no ma'am, you are wrong
The wife has an unfair deal but never the short end, except she is an ignorant one
The mistress has no legal, spiritual or physical power over the husband like the wife
You will never find a mistress standing next to her sugar daddy when he is being sworn into an important office
You will never find a mistress standing next to her sugar daddy when he sees his kids graduate from uni or get married
You will never see a mistress stand next to her sugar daddy when he is breaking ground on his first house
It won't be his mistress on any of his formal legal documents...not at work, not even when it comes to his welfare
I can go on and on
No be by "it is me he takes out, it is me he buys stuff" imagine the needs of a mistress...clothes, shoes, a new phone..shallow stuff...and the needs of a wife.."building a house, the kids school fees etc)investments
When he goes to church nko and they call him deacon? Whe he is celebrating his mom or dad's 90th, which foolish man will proudly display his mistress?
She gets the short end of the stick but claims a weak point of having his attention. Which attention? Lol the wife must have even shifted her affections to her kids and the man will obviously have started getting jealous...and the mistress? Countless abortions and even if she has kids they are still termed outsiders...the husband takes care of all the bills at home before he honors her request....but she doesn't know this of course...he will pay his rent before he pays hers etc. She would do well to get a man of her own and build a life with him because she is easily replaceable. A man 's wife will always have that special place a mistress can never have and that is just the truth

heyyy see how you just analyzed it as if its easy

How about the wasted years

Then why are you pretending as if you don't know in some cases side Chic's take away the attention of the man from his family to herself to the extent that he won't pay his own children's school fees and other household bills?

By the time he comes to his senses do you know how many things that will be affected? Meanwhile the side chic will jump to the next highest bidder

These side Chic's have nothing worthwhile to offer than to steal,kill and destroy. They don't care about your marriage but your pocket.whether your wife breaks down, they don't care

Then again some crazy side Chic's go as far as threatening the wife with acid attacks. These girls don't do corner corner things again. They come to the open and if you are doing any important event in your family they're so brazen to attend it even if you don't invite them.they even want your wife to know you're fucking them.they don't want to be hidden or placed at the back again o and they don't care how your wife or kids feel

SAMBARRY:
heyyy see how you just analyzed it as if its easy

How about the wasted years

Then why are you pretending as if you don't know in some cases side Chic's take away the attention of the man from his family to herself to the extent that he won't pay his own children's school fees and other household bills?

By the time he comes to his senses do you know how many things that will be affected? Meanwhile the side chic will jump to the next highest bidder

These side Chic's have nothing worthwhile to offer than to steal,kill and destroy. They don't care about your marriage but your pocket.whether your wife breaks down, they don't care

Then again some crazy side Chic's go as far as threatening the wife with acid attacks. These girls don't do corner corner things again. They come to the open and if you are doing any important event in your family they're so brazen to attend it even if you don't invite them.they even want your wife to know you're fucking them.they don't want to be hidden or placed at the back again o and they don't care how your wife or kids feel

you are right in everything you have said but remember karma and it is even more deadly when faced alone that is why I said the side chic has it worse in the end and the wife has an unfair deal
Men should just behave themselves, seriously wives really don't have to go through all these stuff

Treasuredlove:
you are right in everything you have said but remember karma and it is even more deadly when faced alone that is why I said the side chic has it worse in the end and the wife has an unfair deal
Men should just behave themselves, seriously wives really don't have to go through all these stuff

now you're talking. The issue comes from the men.once they can put their phenese in control,everything will fall in place but it seems the brain is always inside their boxers going by a lot of you people's actions more like you think with your phenese without giving consideration to future consequences to your family.


You put /stake your family (the people you love) in jeopardy/danger for someone you don't love or have any future with. Does it make sense to you?

People are really becoming shameless. Imagine dating a married man and being so bold to announce it.

May God help this generation.


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SAMBARRY:
now you're talking. The issue comes from the men.once they can put their phenese in control,everything will fall in place but it seems the brain is always inside their boxers going by a lot of you people's actions more like you think with your phenese without giving consideration to future consequences to your family.


You put /stake your family (the people you love) in jeopardy/danger for someone you don't love or have any future with. Does it make sense to you?

lool...I am a woman o and I have zero tolerance for cheating either from a man or woman

Treasuredlove:
Lol they were helping you with the loose change in their pocket and you were giving them your priced possession. Why eat left over when you can eat a whole meal?

this sums it up