monimekaz:
I used to be this bright child but I must confess I have not achieved anything as an adult .Dreams are turning nightmares .They said we should get skills that certificate is not enough,got some IT skills etc but none is getting me close to my dream .My talent just there wasting ,depression setting and no one seems to believe in you anymore .It is heartbreaking.

aboyaji:
Spiritual attribution to some natural happenings can't be much emphasized. I am a victim of all these aforementioned and a lot of friends I have are too.

Inhibition itself should not be ignored in this regard. Fear of the unknown, self constraints, very spiritual family background. All the listed play a very big role in a child's disposition.

Almost 3 of my friends are facing this same fate. Very brilliant, highly knowledgeable. I'm not exaggerating. They are all graduates with 2.1, 2.2 and all but nothing much on their side.

Is it English or laws of physics and mathematics and all Albert Einstein's notations we come this world for?

Is it watching other people's car zoom pass us or looking at big mansions and salivating that we come to see?

Is it solving university problems for undergraduates and correcting every m]stakes and impressions and following the main Oga behind like dog in a bid to get daily chopins like 1k or 2 we come for?

Most times, it's the extroverts that make it in this world. Parents should balance the weighing scale they use while raising a child.

Thanks.

monimekaz:
I used to be this bright child but I must confess I have not achieved anything as an adult .Dreams are turning nightmares .They said we should get skills that certificate is not enough,got some IT skills etc but none is getting me close to my dream .My talent just there wasting ,depression setting and no one seems to believe in you anymore .It is heartbreaking.

ikorodureporta:
Have you seen someone you knew back then in your elementary & secondary schools who was among the top students; brilliant & very promising, but now living in their past glory?

Some of them got to the university, struggled out, & for years they ain't got any meaningful job, whereas those average to poor performers then are doing very well with family, cars & houses..

This could be as a result of their star being blocked!
When a child is seen with such a promising talent, a number of people will be envious: friends, family members, neighbors, especially if that child lives in a populated face-me-i-face-you compound. Others that didn't show those early signs of greatness were never attacked, & they're still living their normal lives...just as the king saw the star of Jesus Christ & never wanted him alive
Parents should ensure that their 'gifted' children are adequately protected:
* Stop bragging with your neighbors or family members of how intelligent your child is
* Hard work should be rewarded. Any of your child doing exceptionally well should be encouraged with gifts
* Pray for your child. They also require your blessings of protection

If you are in this category of adults, just know that your life has been hacked, & you need a divine intervention

monimekaz:
I used to be this bright child but I must confess I have not achieved anything as an adult .Dreams are turning nightmares .They said we should get skills that certificate is not enough,got some IT skills etc but none is getting me close to my dream .My talent just there wasting ,depression setting and no one seems to believe in you anymore .It is heartbreaking.

CreepyBlackpool:
There's no such thing as star being blocked

no village people involved.


He stopped reading and started failing, simple as that!

CreepyBlackpool:
There's no such thing as star being blocked

no village people involved.


He stopped reading and started failing, simple as that!

franchasng:
Shutup! Some things are beyond your stupid understanding, this poster made pure sense.

While growing up, I was the brightest star from nursery to higher institution level, I graduated as 3rd best graduating student. I got offers, and sometimes to last stage interviews in top oil firms and blue chip firms, at the end, I won't hear from the HR departments again for no reason after excellent performance at interviews.

I never failed any job aptitude text or exam, Mobil, chevron, total, nlng, shell, Schlumberger, DHL, NNPC, globacom, NBC, just think of any top firm u know, I passed their aptitude test and interviews, and some I stopped at aptitude test no hearing from HR again.

monimekaz:
I used to be this bright child but I must confess I have not achieved anything as an adult .Dreams are turning nightmares .They said we should get skills that certificate is not enough,got some IT skills etc but none is getting me close to my dream .My talent just there wasting ,depression setting and no one seems to believe in you anymore .It is heartbreaking.

ozoneymcm:
Do you know me?

Uyi168:
And we have been praying these prayers for aeons now..
Na where we dea, we still dea..
Abegii

CreepyBlackpool:
There's no such thing as star being blocked

no village people involved.


He stopped reading and started failing, simple as that!

franchasng:
Don't just quit, IT skills is not enough cos it seems u got the IT skills hoping to use it to secure a good job, there is no enough job in Nigeria and the few good jobs, the connected Nigerians are taken them up and fixing their people.

You need to embrace business.

Remove pride and shyness, enter street, find anything sellable and start to sell it asap. It doesn't matter what it is, just find anything that people need a lot, whatever it is, go into reselling it without shame.

Trading saved a lot of Nigerians and Africans.

Trading and selling are the fastest ways to become financially successful in Nigeria and Africa and anywhere in the world.

Forget your graduate level, assume you are not a graduate and hustle street wise like non graduates. If you are Igbo, it will be easy for you, if not, it won't be so easy but still try okay

God in His infinite mercy will change your story before 2020 if you work diligently in the things I suggested above without pride. Go and prosper, God have heard your cries and seen your tears, I release you tonight to your destiny.

Whatever the enemy snatched from you, God of 7th hour will restore it for you and you will be like they that dream. Cry no more.

Just that I have lots of projects like this I have taken up, I would have added yours, but let me see how it goes, join me in prayer too, once things pick up more like I project this year, I am going to help as many nairalanders as I can carry to get started in life, God please help me

Ozkar:
yes, opinion not fact. If you state opinions like they are facts, the least you can do is back them up.

There are more introverts in the top 10 richest list, yet extroverts are the ones that make it in the world. Well done sir.

GeorgeTheCoder:


This article was written by an idiot.

CreepyBlackpool:
There's no such thing as star being blocked

no village people involved.


He stopped reading and started failing, simple as that!

aboyaji:
Spiritual attribution to some natural happenings can't be much emphasized. I am a victim of all these aforementioned and a lot of friends I have are too.

Inhibition itself should not be ignored in this regard. Fear of the unknown, self constraints, very spiritual family background. All the listed play a very big role in a child's disposition.

Almost 3 of my friends are facing this same fate. Very brilliant, highly knowledgeable. I'm not exaggerating. They are all graduates with 2.1, 2.2 and all but nothing much on their side.

Is it English or laws of physics and mathematics and all Albert Einstein's notations we come this world for?

Is it watching other people's car zoom pass us or looking at big mansions and salivating that we come to see?

Is it solving university problems for undergraduates and correcting every m]stakes and impressions and following the main Oga behind like dog in a bid to get daily chopins like 1k or 2 we come for?

Most times, it's the extroverts that make it in this world. Parents should balance the weighing scale they use while raising a child.

Thanks.

Sarang:


Please don't bring introvert and extrovert stuff into this.. Where you born rich? At least 95 percent of people born rich will always be rich and same applies to poor. Only few people manage to scale out of poverty and that takes planning, hardwork and smartness. And for God's sake their are some dumb introverts as well

monimekaz:


Thank you so much sir

Sarang:


Please don't bring introvert and extrovert stuff into this.. Where you born rich? At least 95 percent of people born rich will always be rich and same applies to poor. Only few people manage to scale out of poverty and that takes planning, hardwork and smartness. And for God's sake their are some dumb introverts as well

Denikayan:
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You watch too much Nollywood movies and stayed too long in the village

Is this counseling or religious preaching, either of both, you are completely off point.


Devil, spirit, life hacked, gifts and sort of gibberish!

monimekaz:


Good at HTML/CSS ...elementary JavaScript/Php ..Good with Photoshop /Coreldraw (graphic design) ..
I understand how to create database with SQL ...I can handle WordPress quite well .

alphawg:


I pray you'll never believe!!


I just pray you'll never jam some experiences that'll make you believe!!!