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5 Things Women Secretly Want In Relationships But Wont Say by TheOlofofo(m): 4:31pm On Jan 20, 2019
Do you know what women want in a man?

Most men see women as completely different from them and, therefore, almost impossible to understand, much less please. It’s this great divide in understanding that keeps many men from having the relationship they really want with their woman (and that their woman really wants with them) — a great one!

To learn how to be a good boyfriend or husband and help your relationship thrive, you first need to know what women want from the men they love.

Here are the 5 things women secretly want in relationships from a good boyfriend or husband, but would never tell you.

1. A man she is proud of and respects
You being comfortable and confident in your own skin and in any situation is important to her. She will be showing you off to her family and friends and you definitely want that to go well. (Note: Being confident and being cocky are two very different things.)

You must have ambition. Not necessarily ambition to rule the world, but an ambition to do something important because that shows commitment, discipline, a strong work ethic, and an ability to dream.

She will always be proud of a man who is well-groomed. That doesn’t mean you’ve got to look like you just walked out of GQ, but it does mean you take care of your hygiene, wear clean clothes and take care of your health.

Being a strong man who is also compassionate and kind always commands respect. Strong isn’t necessarily measured by muscles, it’s also measured by character, intelligence, and integrity.

Finally, she will respect a man whose family and friends love and respect him. If his friends and family don’t admire him, why should she?

2. A man who respects her
Your woman wants your respect. You can show her this by doing polite things like saying “thank you” and apologizing immediately on your own when you’re wrong.

She will also know you respect her by your honesty (but not brutal honesty — remember kindness and compassion), your loyalty and treating her as your equal.

Finally, she’ll know you respect her when you accept her being her — even when it’s not all pretty or nice — without trying to fix her (unless, of course, she asks you to). Sometimes, this means giving her time and space to take care of herself. And sometimes, this means she will need you to forgive her immediately.

3. A man she feels connected to
For most women, this connection is emotional. She needs you to tell her explicitly that you feel connected to her, so it’s important that you be emotionally available and vulnerable with her by sharing your fears and concerns. (Don’t worry, you’ll still be her Superman even if you have a concern or two every once in a while.)

she’s talking with you). So, put down the phone, step away from the keyboard, listen to what she has to say and engage with her.

Another way to build a connection with her is to purposely grow together by working toward common goals or dreams. She’ll love it when you support her, challenge and motivate her to go for what she wants out of her life too.

She’ll feel close to you when she feels consistency and security in the relationship and when she knows you’ve got her back because you’ve got compatible values.

Read full post here>>> https://vybz360.com/blog/2019/01/20/5-things-women-secretly-want-in-relationships/

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