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Re: What Intimacy In Marriage Really Mean And How To Build It - Faith Oyedepo by Nobody: 10:55am On Jan 27, 2019
dingbang:
keep quiet and listen when an experienced woman is giving advice about marriage. cool
thank you very much
they will never learn, later they will run to the media that their man is running after single ladies. they fail to understand that she is speaking from woman perspective and also experienced
Re: What Intimacy In Marriage Really Mean And How To Build It - Faith Oyedepo by Nobody: 10:59am On Jan 27, 2019
bayodaniel:
A wise woman builds her house but a foolish woman pulls it down with her own hands.




don't mind her
they are blind to the true. the woman advising them is successful in life, but they won't listen
Re: What Intimacy In Marriage Really Mean And How To Build It - Faith Oyedepo by Yammfy(f): 11:35am On Jan 27, 2019
smiley

Re: What Intimacy In Marriage Really Mean And How To Build It - Faith Oyedepo by Adeyeye09(m): 11:40am On Jan 27, 2019
Hoodbilonia:
funny thing is even if u fuc your wife frm nw till etermity
e no mean say u go enter heaven
abegi
scam pastors
to all those pussy asses worshiping dey pastor
u can suck his dick since na wife of pastor dey gof advise
africa is cursed
why so bitter?
Re: What Intimacy In Marriage Really Mean And How To Build It - Faith Oyedepo by JKhafe(f): 12:29pm On Jan 27, 2019
astOorR:
Godly homes breed godly Children... very important key to national transformation.

God bless you Ma.
What happen to Isaac & Rebecca, e.t.c?
Re: What Intimacy In Marriage Really Mean And How To Build It - Faith Oyedepo by Nobody: 1:09pm On Jan 27, 2019
Simplep:
Nice
Women do dis,women do dat,keep ur marriage, make it work,work on ur marriage, do this,do that,what exactly should(can) the man do sef??...
grin
Re: What Intimacy In Marriage Really Mean And How To Build It - Faith Oyedepo by Vome: 1:28pm On Jan 27, 2019
Truefaith:
So much as intimacy between husband and wife is an important issue of life, we should be careful who is teaching us a supposedly good thing.

The Devil has never had more successful disciples in Nigeria than the Oyedepos.



We should ask our lady pastor where in the Bible the Lord Jesus Christ EXTRACTED LIVE SNAKES AND SCORPIONS from the bodies of his followers.


Unconverted witches and sorcerers are now teachers in fake churches in the name of Pentecostalism.




The Oyedepos are HINDUS masquerading as Christians.


www.thetruechristianfaith.com

Una first meet before??
Why so much hatred
Re: What Intimacy In Marriage Really Mean And How To Build It - Faith Oyedepo by gud4dbest(m): 1:38pm On Jan 27, 2019
Simplep:
Nice
Women do dis,women do dat,keep ur marriage, make it work,work on ur marriage, do this,do that,what exactly should(can) the man do sef??...
Men have their role to play but the truth of the matter is a home that will stand the contribution to make it so comes from the woman while it is like that is a matter one needs to understand. "a wise woman builds her home but the foolish one tears it down"
Re: What Intimacy In Marriage Really Mean And How To Build It - Faith Oyedepo by astOorR(m): 1:43pm On Jan 27, 2019
JKhafe:

What happen to Isaac & Rebecca, e.t.c?

Jacob became the nation Israel ��
Re: What Intimacy In Marriage Really Mean And How To Build It - Faith Oyedepo by GospelAkede: 1:54pm On Jan 27, 2019
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Re: What Intimacy In Marriage Really Mean And How To Build It - Faith Oyedepo by jolyment: 3:51pm On Jan 27, 2019
rentAcock:
Never marry a man who won't go down on you for at least 20 minutes before intercourse otherwise you will end up seeking my services in secret.

Idiot spotted
Re: What Intimacy In Marriage Really Mean And How To Build It - Faith Oyedepo by rentAcock(m): 3:54pm On Jan 27, 2019
jolyment:


Idiot spotted

Your dad
Re: What Intimacy In Marriage Really Mean And How To Build It - Faith Oyedepo by jolyment: 4:36pm On Jan 27, 2019
rentAcock:


Your dad

Same here
Re: What Intimacy In Marriage Really Mean And How To Build It - Faith Oyedepo by femi4: 4:58pm On Jan 27, 2019
Simplep:
Nice
Women do dis,women do dat,keep ur marriage, make it work,work on ur marriage, do this,do that,what exactly should(can) the man do sef??...
provides wife's needs
Re: What Intimacy In Marriage Really Mean And How To Build It - Faith Oyedepo by omgtzsammie(m): 7:00pm On Jan 27, 2019
samsam2019:
So being a pastor's wife is now a qualification to give marital advise?




Nonsense

No sir, being in a successful marriage qualifies you ..
Re: What Intimacy In Marriage Really Mean And How To Build It - Faith Oyedepo by JKhafe(f): 12:04am On Jan 28, 2019
astOorR:

Jacob became the nation Israel ��
How many children did this godly home produce?
Re: What Intimacy In Marriage Really Mean And How To Build It - Faith Oyedepo by Mryacks: 11:06am On Jan 28, 2019
danieljoel759:
The wife of the General Overseer of the Living Faith Church Worldwide (Dr. David Oyedepo), Faith Abiola Oyedepo explains to us what real intimacy in marriage really means, here is what she wrote...

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I bring God’s Word your way today. I see God doing something new in your home and family in Jesus’ name. I will be sharing with you a topic which I titled: Attaining Intimacy in marriage.

It is very important that we know that marriage is the mystery of two people becoming one. Intimacy is the pillar of every successful marriage and it is the responsibility of both parties. When we talk about intimacy, the husband and wife should be the most intimate persons and best of friends.

What is intimacy?
Intimacy is the closeness of your relationship with your spouse – emotionally, spiritually, intellectually, sexually, and in many other ways. Intimacy is not an end but rather a journey that lasts throughout your marriage. Intimacy means a warm, close, confidential or private relationship, which develops through long association, friendship and familiarity.

UNDERSTANDING THE NEEDS FOR INTIMACY
Spiritual Needs
You must understand your likes and needs spiritually as husband and wife and help each other to attain it. For example, if your husband likes waking up in the middle of the night to read or study, you can be of help to him by alerting him when it is time to wake up:You, too, can also do likewise and make him a cup of hot tea. You can encourage him to do some spiritual exercise that he needs.

Emotional Needs
For intimacy to be developed in a marriage, you must understand your husband’s emotions. When he is depressed, try to find out what is happening and encourage him. You must not allow an “uncaring attitude” to creep into your home.


Psychological Needs
You must also understand some masculine peculiarities like desire for:

-Profound respect

-Admiration

These are two basic things, which every man craves from his wife.

PHYSICAL NEEDS: – Intimacy can be developed if you understand what your husband’s physical needs are and meet them.

You should satisfy his physical needs by
Giving your husband the type of food he likes, and not the one you like. Even, if you do not like a particular type of food before, you could try to adjust simply because of him.
Always wear the colour or type/style of dress he likes, not the one you want to wear. If he does not like a particular dress, it is not advisable to keep wearing such.
Adopt hairdos or styles that he likes, not what you like.
Be available to him when he wants to make love to you.
Do everything to please him. This will aid in developing intimacy because he will trust and have interest in you.

Companionship
Every man is created to crave constant fellowship. It is one of the major motivating factors that draw two people of the opposite sex together. After creation, the only thing that God called “Not good” was the fact that man was alone. Loneliness has been discovered to be one of the causes of mental retardation and erratic behaviours in many people, who are in that condition.

True companionship is what makes marriage meaningful. Spouses are not meant to be roommates but the closest of friends. The Word of God says: Iron sharpeneth iron; so a man sharpeneth the countenance of his friend (Proverbs 27:17).

It is unfortunate that many couples are missing out of this wonderful aspect of marriage. They live under the same roof, yet they are more or less strangers. Such marriages are empty and with time, their frustration leads to divorce. This is not the will of God. He expects you to have sweet communion not only with Him, but also with your partner.

The first step to take to enjoy intimacy in your marriage is to have an intimate relationship with your Creator; that is, be born again. You become born again by confessing your sins and accepting Jesus Christ as the Lord and Saviour of your life and family. If you are already born again, rejoice because your case is settled. If you are not yet born again and you desire to do so right now, please pray this prayer with faith in your heart: Dear Lord Jesus Christ, I come to You today. I am a sinner. Forgive me my sins and cleanse me with Your Blood. I accept You as my Lord and personal Saviour. Make me a child of God today. Thank You for delivering me from sin and satan to serve the living God and thank You for accepting me into Your Kingdom.

Congratulations! If you prayed this simple prayer of faith with me, you are now born again and a child of God. He loves you and will never leave you. Read your Bible daily, obey God’s Word and seek Christian fellowship (John 14:21).

Source: https://www.musictori.com/2019/01/what-intimacy-in-marriage-really-mean.html


Blessed write up!

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