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|Are You Eligible For Marriage? by lovelifeng: 4:37pm On Mar 12|
Age has nothing to do with being ELIGIBLE for marriage
You can be old enough to get married but that doesn’t make you eligible for it. Age qualifies you for the wedding experience but it doesn’t qualify you for the marriage experience. The reason why many marriages break up almost as soon as they start is that we have one or two of the partners who are old enough for the wedding but not eligible for a happy and lasting happy marriage.
It’s the reason why you can meet a man today, fall in love at first sight, get wedded the next day but have a stressful marriage. Anyone is free and should be free to get wedded, enjoy the night and experience together but not anyone should take the vow of a lifetime with kids gloves – if you don’t have the capacity to be happy and make the other person happy every day for the rest of your life, you are not eligible in any way for marriage.
Note that I said ‘capacity’? Let me explain why
Marriage is like an organization
The institution of marriage can be likened to a corporate organization with a vision and goal to succeed and meet their targets. For them to achieve their objectives, they need competent staffs that will do their job well enough to get the organization good result.
When such an organization hires incompetent staff, it will naturally experience a loss and if nothing productive is done about it, will close shop.
When you hire competent staff, your organization will make a profit and continue to thrive.
How this relates to you
As a man, you are hiring a woman for the role of a wife into your ‘marital institution or organization’. As a woman, you are hiring a man for the role of a husband into your marital organization’. The quality of your hire will determine the result you get. When you are perpetually sad in marriage, check your own quality and the quality of your hire.
When you hire the right one, your marriage will be happy and long-lasting but when you hire the wrong one, your marriage will suffer the consequences as well.
You are the HR (human resource) personnel of your life; you should never hire a person who will run your organization aground or at a loss.
Already married to an ineligible spouse
Just like any organization that hires incompetent staff...
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