It is better he/she reports to his family to take off what is on his/ her mind.

Than him/her stocking it up, until one day the cup go too full, and na explosion which indirectly means beating, hurting or even killing his partner.

Hmm hmm

oyahitme:
@Gistvic.com

Popular actress Yvonne Jegede who recently shared her pregnancy photos, slams men who report their wives to family members. Gistvic Reports.

Yvonne Jegede said men who do this should start wearing pampers. Gistvic Reports.

See post:

Gist From Gistvic.com>> https://www.gistvic.com/2019/03/actress-yvonne-jegede-slams-men-who.html

Any woman who acts insane and never listens to reason should be reported to her family, her village people, her pastor, her friends n even to the chief priest in their village...

See ashawo talking o... When she can't close her legs... Slutty bitch

koyyes:
Third parties, the number one cause of broken marriages.

They are like lizards. When you decide to create a crack on your wall, they will crawl in and shit all over your house.

Blatant lies.

Feminist bull sh*t

All these nonesense feminist propaganda that u people are presenting online will not work; it seems all spoilt and manneless women that never took proper home training just want to give themselves unbriddles license to wreck havoc on men's lives and get away with anything;if he hits u,he's not a man,if he reports u,he's immature,if he complains,he's this and that.......and you are the ones that always nag,abuse,insult,fight etc.....no wonder majority of them dont have stable marriages,.....why am I even wasting my precious time with her.....she's just looking for attention.....rubbish

PrecisionFx:


Blatant lies.

Just wait and see how the brainless person you mentioned will attack you now.

He/She has two stock in trades...

Commenting nonsense and berating people who detect the nonsense he/she typed

She is right, they are many times sentimental and hypocritical fellows.

asuustrike1:

Don't mind those lunatic

Like your mother right?

tesppidd:


If you beat them they call you a wife beater and tell you real men don't hit women.

If you report them to their parents they tell you you're not man enough and you need pampers?

Abeg which one do you prefer?

You should be ashamed of yourself to consider beating a normal response in marriage.
Stay single if you are too weak to handle marriage and need the help of outsiders.
Marriage is not for everybody.

oyahitme:
@Gistvic.com

Popular actress Yvonne Jegede who recently shared her pregnancy photos, slams men who report their wives to family members. Gistvic Reports.

Yvonne Jegede said men who do this should start wearing pampers. Gistvic Reports.

See post:

Gist From Gistvic.com>> https://www.gistvic.com/2019/03/actress-yvonne-jegede-slams-men-who.html

Hoe’loshos everywhere forming wife material. How many days you stay inside marriage wey you don turn marriage counselor sooo

iammo:
Words women use to scam men:: Realmen dont do this Realmen don't do that Mature men don't do this Mature men don't do that. A man loves his mother for taking care of him then he is a mummy boy He dare touches his wife he gets arrested and tagged a caword, if he reports to a family member to counsel her then he needs pampers. As a Nigerian Man we need alot of wisdom and patience

its amazing how women today think they know how to be men better than men themselves

They know who be real and who be "fake"

shior

Xisnin:


You should be ashamed of yourself to consider beating a normal response in marriage.
Stay single if you are too weak to handle marriage and need the help of outsiders.
Marriage is not for everybody.

I am married and have never beaten a woman in my life talkless of my wife.

But I doubt that you are married or maybe you are but "you never jam woman"

Stay there and be thinking of marriage like the perfect ones you see in the movies.

That's all I have to say to you.

prince3009:


Just wait and see how the brainless person you mentioned will attack you now.

He/She has two stock in trades...

Commenting nonsense and berating people who detect the nonsense he/she typed

.

What can we do nah.

tesppidd:


If you beat them they call you a wife beater and tell you real men don't hit women.

If you report them to their parents they tell you you're not man enough and you need pampers?

Abeg which one do you prefer?

Lol, so the choice is between reporting her to her parents or beating her to a pulp?

frying pan to fire

midnighter:


Lol, so the choice is between reporting her to her parents or beating her to a pulp?

frying pan to fire

or begging and pampering her whenever she behaves badly.

midnighter:


Lol, so the choice is between reporting her to her parents or beating her to a pulp?

frying pan to fire

or reporting her to Nairaland

tesppidd:
or begging and pampering her whenever she behaves badly.

what happened to scolding her when she behaves badly? Or whenever anyone behave badly, for that matter?

Xisnin:

Like your mother right?

Are they not lunatic? They should keep on wailing till they become old

iammo:
Words women use to scam men:: Realmen dont do this Realmen don't do that Mature men don't do this Mature men don't do that. A man loves his mother for taking care of him then he is a mummy boy He dare touches his wife he gets arrested and tagged a caword, if he reports to a family member to counsel her then he needs pampers.

As a Nigerian Man we need alot of wisdom and patience, the moment they cut you off from your form of psychological support like family, friends, shrinks and counsellors. Or clergymen. You'll soon become miserable helplessly depressed or turn to an alcoholic and slowly you may end up dieing faster than your wife without enjoying your kids life phases

'Coward, Dying'

there are better options. there is something called communication between two[b] mature[/b][i][/i] minds. in case you need a lecture on that, check this out
https://thebossladyng..com/2019/03/hard-guy-hard-guy-but-you-keep-losing.html.. you're welcome.

tesppidd:


If you beat them they call you a wife beater and tell you real men don't hit women.

If you report them to their parents they tell you you're not man enough and you need pampers?

Abeg which one do you prefer?

Ok...This woman is talking a little bit too much...I think she should spend more of her time looking for work...and working.

No time to waste...it’s time to move on to bigger and better things.

femi4:
or reporting her to Nairaland

Even that one is better

This divorcee is obviously still hurting from the separation. I thought she said she has moved on?

Modern women are too weak, I think too much empasy on outlook has made them empty on their inside. Even with liberation many still are slow and uninventive in many areas.

This one that is insecure. His family was here before you. If not for there support you will not be here. If he us still report you to family, it's maybe you are yet to earn trust.

she is 70% right, every man should be able to handle pressure at home either from wife or otherwise.

cos one day the family might not be there to help him. then wetin him go do.

midnighter:


what happened to scolding her when she behaves badly? Or whenever anyone behave badly, for that matter?

some behave badly and when they get scolded they can't take it, they scold back, they bark back, they shout back.

some behave badly, despite that you scold with one word, they respond with 10 words.

what do you do?

forget about movies and telemundo, this is reality.

what do you do?

tesppidd:
some behave badly and when they get scolded they can't take it, they scold back, they bark back, they shout back.

some behave badly, despite that you scold with one word, they respond with 10 words.

what do you do?

forget about movies and telemundo, this is reality.

what do you do?

I understand your point but you seem to be advocating for reporting to parents as a last resort, when other options have been exhausted

Not flying off the handle and beating shades of red out her every time she offends

But what would you do? Im interested in your answer

Thebosslady01:
there are better options. there is something called communication between two[b] mature[/b][i][/i] minds. in case you need a lecture on that, check this out
https://thebossladyng..com/2019/03/hard-guy-hard-guy-but-you-keep-losing.html.. you're welcome.

lol

forget all that ideal stuff

this is reality

Here are the options for a bad/rude/troublesome/ unrepentant wife;

1.divorcing her.
2.beating her.
3.reporting to her people hoping they could make her amend her ways.
4.pampering her even in her bad habits.
5.submiting to her bad habits.

There is no middle ground, every man much choose one and live with it.

midnighter:


I understand your point but you seem to be advocating for reporting to parents as a last resort, when other options have been exhausted

Not flying off the handle and beating shades of red out her every time she offends

But what would you do? Im interested in your answer

interesting.

we must realize there are different kinds of wives.

Some are very remorseful, repentant and apologetic when they are wrong.
For these ones there is no limit to the level of patience for them. One must continue to understand them and continue to forgive and encourage them when they snap or misbehave.

There are some who are never remorseful especially if you dare to scold them.
These ones want you to pamper them and pet them even if they commit the same offence 100 times in a day. They only show remorse if you beg them. But if you dare shout at them, sorry for you.

Frankly some woman are very unremorseful and unrepentant.

For men who would never hit a woman,

They are left with TWO options only;

1. Divorce
2. Counselling (Which might involve a 3rd party)

stephleena:
lol..especially those mummy's boy

If they beat their wives for whatever foolishness, you will still complain.
They are reporting their wives' foolishness, to are still complaining.
If they kill the wife, don't complain o.

tesppidd:
lol

forget all that ideal stuff

this is reality

Here are the options for a bad/rude/troublesome/ unrepentant wife;

1.divorcing her.
2.beating her.
3.reporting to her people hoping they could make her amend her ways.
4.pampering her even in her bad habits.
5.submiting to her bad habits.

There is no middle ground, every man much choose one and live with it.

Use XRAY during dating.
I don't know why a woman will have all this coconut headed behavior and the man is so blind and stupid not to see it during the dating stage and pick race.
It's after all the complete wedding and traditional that the wife will now transform like Transformers! Block head in disguise!