A lot of men would have fared better in life if they had guarded their loins jealously. A REAL MAN IS ONE WHO CANNOT BE CONTROLLED BY THAT WHICH HE SHOULD BE MASTER OVER ! Most guys have got themselves embroiled in an emotional / spiritual quagmire which has hampered their development and growth at a time when they should be concentrating IN LIFE practically swallowed by demonic ladies . A lot are under curses from girls they raped , deceived, slept with and dumped , with God ’ s stamp on those curses . IF ONLY YOU KNEW WHAT COVENANT YOU WERE ENTERING INTO WHILE DEFLOWERING THAT GIRL , YOU WOULD NEVER HAVE GONE NEAR HER ! DO YOU KNOW THE TYPE OF SPIRIT SHE CARRIES ?

Aside from that , an average lady you sleep with would expect that you take care of her material needs as well as her emotional needs . You begin to stress and drain yourself of what should give you the much - needed comfort to pursue your education /career. What if she gets pregnant? Are you ready to have a baby ? Why go through the hassles of becoming a baby daddy or having blood in your hands as a result of terminating a pregnancy ? You need to be wise , my friend ! Once you get into premarital sex , I ’ m afraid you become unstoppable and eventually give the devil too much access into your life !


I repeat, A REAL MAN IS ONE WHO CANNOT BE CONTROLLED BY THAT WHICH HE SHOULD BE MASTER OVER ! Most people are of the opinion that it’ s natural for men to be full of fleshly lust and be quicker to fall into temptation . While this may be true, it’ s also easier for them to decide not to be moved depending on the spirit directing their lives ! Frankly , any man , in fact , anyone not possessed by the Holy Spirit CANNOT subdue his flesh . You CANNOT be spiritually - sound and be addicted to pornography ! If you are indeed spiritually - sound, you ’ d hate every form of sin with a passion and the spirit of God in you would not only detest watching porn , it would preoccupy your mind with glorious things which would move your life forward ; you ’ d be too engrossed in the supernatural and not inanities ! You may be tempted sometimes because you are human but certainly not to the point of addiction ! I thank God though that you ’ ve spoken out soon enough !
Stupid, bad devil is so smart such that it can capture a glorious life and put it in his net through sexual immorality and drag it round and round in circles in the mud of life. It could turn that life to a game of ping - pong and ensure that the person experiences nothing but hell on earth ! There ’ s a certain man who was on the brink of committing suicide because his life was stagnant and full of frustration for 16 years . After prayers and inquiry from God as to the cause of his unfulfilled life, it was discovered that he raped a girl in 2002 and had been bearing the brunt of his action ! What a waste of life! Sheer stupidity ! His lack of self - control brought the beast out of him and I tell you he has yet to recover because he was told to apologise to the lady he barely remembers ! If he can ’ t find her which is likely, he has SERIOUS WORK to do to get God on his side and have his life restructured and enjoy all that accrues to him ! Of course , God is quick to forgive but what about the multiple attacks and injury his destiny has suffered because of his lack of self - control? Sixteen years … 16 years …16 good years ! Can you imagine all he has lost ? Can you imagine all he would have achieved?

Temilolu okeowo -Columnist on Saturday punch and founder of Girls club.

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God bless you for this, I can verily attest to everything you posted.

But to be honest, it takes God's special Grace to be a volcel in this postmodern generation.

Fortunately, that Grace is available to everyone who needs Him, it's the Holy Spirit.

Pure nonsense.