The woman with Lot who bore him two daughters was an uncooperative woman. That was his wife. How do you know that? She looked back and became a pillar of salt after she had met with the angels who gave them the right command to do the right thing. She was a calculator. Calculators don’t make it with the divine. Let the divine override your permutations in life and success is sure for you. Yes, permutate, plan, but let the forces of god override yours. Don’t stand in His way. We can conclude based on the results obtained and the methodology followed together with the introduction that she must have been nagging with Lot all along. When Lot gives an instruction and command she must have been used to going her own way. She must have been a champion of women emancipation even in her days. She must have been a strong advocate of the rights of women. Women are equal to men and are also heads must have been her slogan at home. That’s good. Two good heads are better than one. But one the two heads are heading in opposite direction it will tear down the home. She was not submissive. This must have made it difficult for them to evangelize Sodom and get 10 souls needed for the place not to be destroyed. Yes, a woman can make or mar a man’s ministry. She might have marred the ministry of Lot but she was not spared either. She became popular, she became famous as a pillar of salt. What a thing to be popular for. The Lord will make us popular for good reasons.

The desire of God is for women to be popular as real mothers who raise standard children and support their husbands in all ramifications. The women ought to be role models to other women. They ought to be reminders to their husbands about their goals in life. The real woman is a perfect help meet. As help meet, women should have something with which to help the man. They should have certificates, jobs, careers, businesses, crafts, etc., with which to support. Don’t leave the man alone to do all in the home. Support him. Two are better than one because they have a good reward for their labour. Women, arise and be what the creator intended you to be. Give your spouse the needed rest of mind to function. Resist the temptation to nag. Don’t do anything that will disrupt the progress of your family. Rise and take your good place.

Remember Lots wife (Luke 17:32). Lots wife touched the angel yet did nothing with her life. Some women have powerful husbands and yet they do nothing with their lives. They have strong, impactful husbands yet they remain at the background. doing nothing. They belong to the supporters’ club of life. Some countries are yet to have women as presidents. It’s time for you (yes you) to aspire for that high calling, that position. God is depending on you. Don’t look back like Lots wife. Keep going, keep moving, keep on keeping on. Laughter is your portion in a bit. Determine to do something tangible with your life. Women also have destinies to fulfil. Don’t just come and go like that. Do something before you go. Do something tangible with your life too. Pursue your dream. Make impact. It is your season. It is your time. See you in the camp of the successful! See you in success!!

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