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Re: Ajayi Crowther University VC Blast Parents And Students In Open Letter by Esquire8080(m): 2:22pm On Mar 31, 2019 |
Our own professor dapo asaju. We are lasu we are proud. 4 Likes |
Re: Ajayi Crowther University VC Blast Parents And Students In Open Letter by ddeola: 2:24pm On Mar 31, 2019 |
Private university wahala spoilt kids 1 Like |
Re: Ajayi Crowther University VC Blast Parents And Students In Open Letter by Nobody: 2:29pm On Mar 31, 2019 |
Imarnuel10:Take a look the notice sent to the students has directed by the vc 1 Like
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Re: Ajayi Crowther University VC Blast Parents And Students In Open Letter by dangotesmummy: 2:41pm On Mar 31, 2019 |
Joshmodest:so you expect him to sound subservient BECAUSE THE PARENTS ARE THE ONES PAYING HIS SALARY need I remind yo that in every business or services rendered ,there are TERMS AND CONDITIONS. so he should be begging parents after the insults he received from them.the elders say RESPECT IS RECIPROCAL. the mere fact that his salary is coming from the school fees of the students is not a license to insult your children's vc.even if you're not happy with things you express your displeasure with manners as a parent. This is part of the indiscipline we're talking about. For example when you have an appointment by 9am or an event and adults are coming at 11am.does that show regard for the person waiting for you? Now the school is trying to enforce discipline, A FAITH BASED SCHOOL and all of a sudden he is rude.no wonder cultism,armed robbery, rape ,exchanging vagina for marks and all manners of barbarism happens in public schools because there are no boundaries or enforced rules for students and lecturers Any parent that doesn't want his child disciplined for bad behavior or wants his child too have lousy freedom can as well carry them to uniben,lasu,esut etc where they will spend eternity to get a degree and be susceptible to cult related attacks or gang killing Anything goes schools are all over Nigeria where they harbor all sorts and where nasty behaviors can easily be concealed and go unchecked till they enter the society and become a nuisance to themselves and others around them 5 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Ajayi Crowther University VC Blast Parents And Students In Open Letter by Balawal(m): 2:41pm On Mar 31, 2019 |
Mr VC you need to watch the way your institution adopt students.Some of these students came from corrupt private secondary schools where they over pamper them these same private secondary schools assisted them to pass waec ,your institution also gave them admission on the ground of money making now you're complaining. 2 Likes |
Re: Ajayi Crowther University VC Blast Parents And Students In Open Letter by poseidon12: 3:11pm On Mar 31, 2019 |
Good. That's a no nonsense VC right there. That's how it should be. 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Ajayi Crowther University VC Blast Parents And Students In Open Letter by mechanics(m): 3:11pm On Mar 31, 2019 |
The VC is really angry. |
Re: Ajayi Crowther University VC Blast Parents And Students In Open Letter by poseidon12: 3:14pm On Mar 31, 2019 |
asuustrike1: Yep, you are. They don't have time for nonsense. |
Re: Ajayi Crowther University VC Blast Parents And Students In Open Letter by CodeTemplar: 3:16pm On Mar 31, 2019 |
asuustrike1:People think paying fees for a service is such big deal. The man is doing his VC job according to agreement the parents/students signed at admission stage. 5 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Ajayi Crowther University VC Blast Parents And Students In Open Letter by CodeTemplar: 3:21pm On Mar 31, 2019 |
HigherEd:Let the rest go to the N30m library. |
Re: Ajayi Crowther University VC Blast Parents And Students In Open Letter by poseidon12: 3:23pm On Mar 31, 2019 |
HigherEd: A University should not be in the business of compelling students to attend classes. If a student does not attend classes, I expect that the student will fail the exams. To get students to attend classes, the Professors should be organising frequent class quizzes and mid term exams. 3 Likes |
Re: Ajayi Crowther University VC Blast Parents And Students In Open Letter by poseidon12: 3:26pm On Mar 31, 2019 |
wink2015: A University is supposed to be a not-for-profit organization anyway. |
Re: Ajayi Crowther University VC Blast Parents And Students In Open Letter by poseidon12: 3:31pm On Mar 31, 2019 |
Optimist88: That's terrible to hear. Shame on the Anglican Church leadership. |
Re: Ajayi Crowther University VC Blast Parents And Students In Open Letter by Biglittlelois(f): 3:56pm On Mar 31, 2019 |
dingbang: So you graduated from a private University? Wonders, lol. |
Re: Ajayi Crowther University VC Blast Parents And Students In Open Letter by iamclime(m): 3:57pm On Mar 31, 2019 |
I know Professor Dapo Asaju personally and have worked with him at higher levels on very challenging and sensitive work in University Administration. I can confidently say that he is a man of his words. He is very open and approachable and gives regard to all, irrespective of their status or stature. He doesn't tolerate nonsense and abuse of privileges either, and may get highly frustrated at such things. For our beloved professor to have written this, the parents and children's cups must have been full and running over. I may not agree with his choice of words in some parts of the write-up, but I can bet you that one of the most difficult people to manage in Nigeria are cosseted, obstreperous children with a sense of entitlement, who also believe in instant self gratification! I have been there. Enough said. 6 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Ajayi Crowther University VC Blast Parents And Students In Open Letter by Nobody: 4:33pm On Mar 31, 2019 |
oweniwe:It is not hard if you follow right group. It would be hard if you have low self esteem . 1 Like |
Re: Ajayi Crowther University VC Blast Parents And Students In Open Letter by Nobody: 4:40pm On Mar 31, 2019 |
Optimist88:and u went on to fvck them dry and crazy yet bashing them. your hypocrisy is loud |
Re: Ajayi Crowther University VC Blast Parents And Students In Open Letter by Redder97(m): 4:49pm On Mar 31, 2019 |
Joshmodest: so, the VC shouldn't do his job anymore, he should become a puppet? Just give this forum one of those ways. The tree, you mean the parents? |
Re: Ajayi Crowther University VC Blast Parents And Students In Open Letter by dingbang(m): 5:03pm On Mar 31, 2019 |
Biglittlelois:whats the big deal in that? |
Re: Ajayi Crowther University VC Blast Parents And Students In Open Letter by Optimist88(m): 5:05pm On Mar 31, 2019 |
camobri:Sorry I forgot to include that I did not do such with her! 1 Like |
Re: Ajayi Crowther University VC Blast Parents And Students In Open Letter by Joshmodest(m): 5:25pm On Mar 31, 2019 |
dangotesmummy:It's easy for you to come here to say what suits you , cos you speaking from one angle alone .. Now look at it from the angle of the parents , i hope you realise this private unis are financially oriented universities, we can as well call them businesses, u have to treat your customers who keep the business running ,with courtesy and don't expect to be treated with same , cos you are at the receiving end .......if you were a parent , you definitely wouldn't be glad and be chanting discipline here and there , if you are insulted in this manner..it's like receiving slaps from something you bought with your money !! And what does FAITH BASED , have to do with this issue , so in a faith based school the VC , can insult the parents anyhow he likes..you made mention of TERMS AND CONDITIONS. in a business setting , once a customer violates the T&C's, you follow due process and kick such person out , and not trading words with them ...such impatience and lack of self control from the VC of a FAITH BASED SCHOOL, is really surprising.... Noone is oblivious of the fact that , private unis are attended mostly by spoilt brats , whose parents want to have an easy life....so why all of a sudden the VC is acting , like he is a fresher in the school... Schools where the VC can talk to the parents anyhow , like Unilag, Uniben, laspotech and the likes, are all over Nigeria, where the VC can show his lack of wisdom of speech ...he should go and seek employment there ...if you must work in a private uni, and enjoy all the benefits , then be ready for sticks like this ,after all THIS IS NIGERIA !! if he can't take the heat let him leave the kitchen ..... |
Re: Ajayi Crowther University VC Blast Parents And Students In Open Letter by Biglittlelois(f): 5:37pm On Mar 31, 2019 |
Re: Ajayi Crowther University VC Blast Parents And Students In Open Letter by wonder233: 5:39pm On Mar 31, 2019 |
Which one is "the girls have parents that have been hurt".. Where they raped? |
Re: Ajayi Crowther University VC Blast Parents And Students In Open Letter by dangotesmummy: 5:41pm On Mar 31, 2019 |
Joshmodest:can you just imagine.this is part of the entitlement mentality we're talking about. What is wrong is wrong. There's no grammar for it.if you insult anyone (you have opened a can of worms) and expect a feedback that might not be pleasant or go down well with you.if you are a parent and you don't like the way your child is treated,what happens to expressing your displeasure with manners and basic courtesy.you have to resort to insults. What for? You as a parent KNEW THE RULES AND REGULATIONS BEFORE BRINGING YOUR SON OR DAUGHTER TO THE SCHOOL. Why the sudden complaints? ESPECIALLY WHEN YOU HAVE OTHER OPTIONS.if you cannot take the heat,get out of the kitchen. If you want to pamper and spoil your kids rotten and you don't want anyone to call them to order when they misbehave, withdraw them and take them to other schools where they'll have the freedom to smoke their brains out, engage in oorrggy and not go to class or take exams at all and let's see who will bear the brunt of untrained and indisciplined kids The only unfortunate part of the matter is that untrained kids do not just constitute nuisance to their immediate family but others,if they were only a menace to their parents maybe there'll have been less crimes and parents will draw the line between over indulgence and care 1 Like |
Re: Ajayi Crowther University VC Blast Parents And Students In Open Letter by dangotesmummy: 5:48pm On Mar 31, 2019 |
iamclime:the mistake the vc made was engaging in discussion with parents and making himself too available. THAT IS WHAT YOU SHOULDNT DO WITH OVER SPOILT CHILDREN AND ENTITLED PARENTS. Make them feel they're not all that. All he needed to do was write down an official letter, cc the deans,deans will cc the hods and hods will cc the coordinator. Its the coordinator that will give the students the letter or better still send the letter to the parents e.mails.you don't indulge spoilt and rude kids or their parents irrespective of what they pay or whoever they are. 2 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Ajayi Crowther University VC Blast Parents And Students In Open Letter by Joshmodest(m): 5:54pm On Mar 31, 2019 |
dangotesmummy: My bone of contention is the VC was not professional in his response ...two wrongs has never and would never make one right, the VC lacks self control and that is the main reason he got insulted, by the parents in the first instance.... All those supporting him are either jealous of parents and students of private unis, or trying to form disciplinarians.. |
Re: Ajayi Crowther University VC Blast Parents And Students In Open Letter by dangotesmummy: 5:58pm On Mar 31, 2019 |
Zerlo:I don't understand. Is the vc a lecturer in lasu? Speaking of lasu,that university is a den of cultist,school girls in the afternoon and prostitutes at night. I recently heard of an associate professor that was dismissed for sexual harassment. So the moral decadence in lasu is mega |
Re: Ajayi Crowther University VC Blast Parents And Students In Open Letter by dingbang(m): 6:03pm On Mar 31, 2019 |
Biglittlelois: |
Re: Ajayi Crowther University VC Blast Parents And Students In Open Letter by dangotesmummy: 6:13pm On Mar 31, 2019 |
Joshmodest:so how should he have spoken to the parents or exercise self control? He should be going to their houses and prostrate for them once by one or what? The vc is a human being with emotions and very minute number of people, like 5 in 500 million can ignore and I'm very happy he put the parents in their place Those parents are what Yoruba's call awon iya ati baba oshi tobimo Oran Those days when a child misbehaves its the teachers that will discipline him and when the parents know of it they'll come to school and thank the teacher but now we have people who lack self control,having no business being parents but unfortunately are 2 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Ajayi Crowther University VC Blast Parents And Students In Open Letter by Wiseandtrue(f): 6:39pm On Mar 31, 2019 |
A very matured response! |
Re: Ajayi Crowther University VC Blast Parents And Students In Open Letter by Nobody: 7:18pm On Mar 31, 2019 |
naijadefender: Which stupid money? So... because they are fulfilling their parental obligation their wards shouldn't respect the school rules again? They should desecrate every good value and Goodwill the institution are working assiduously to build, what nonsense. 1 Like |
Re: Ajayi Crowther University VC Blast Parents And Students In Open Letter by oyejohn: 7:53pm On Mar 31, 2019 |
Daddysmind: God bless you bro..most people here dont know Prof Asaju. I met him when he was Bishop Theologian of The Church of Nigeria Anglican Communion. I studied for a PhD at Crowther Graduate Seminary Isale Igbein Abeokuta. Prof was a father gave us advises on our choice of research topics taught long classes,sent us on numerous trips to meet the best Old Testament Scholars which I studied wherever they could be found in Nigeria He is not a conventional academic professor though he has loads of research works home and abroad. He is just a practical pastor and theologian Finally I doubt if ACU can pay Prof. He is a reformer he is not answerable to a salary hence he can pen this powerful one! So happy to read this! 1 Like |
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