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My Wife Does Not Know That I Know by ExAngel007(f): 11:38am On Apr 07, 2019 |
MY WIFE DOES NOT KNOW THAT I KNOW I have been married for 14years 'we' have 3kids(all boys) but none of them belongs to me. I know this for a fact but my wife does not know that I know. Let me explain. 5years before I met my wife, I was involved in a car accident together with two of my friends. We were traveling from Kasoa to Madina and our car skidded off the road. I was the only survivor of that accident, my friends died. I spent about 11months at the hospital and that left me with a condition that says I can't have children. I gave my life to Jesus Christ and became a committed Christian after the incident. In summary I became a pastor in a local church in my community 5years later and met my wife in the process. I did not tell her about my condition because I was hopeful that God will heal me. 6years into our marriage my wife got pregnant and had 'our' first child. To be sure, I secretly went for a DNA n it was clear I wasn't the father. I repeated the test for all 3 children and they are all not mine. I have been living with this situation for the past 8 years and I am beginning to get irritated by both the children and my wife. My wife pretends to be a good wife. She goes round preaching to young women in the church about the need to remain faithful to their partners but she has had 3 children by another man or men I don't know. I want to confront her, but I am confused as to how to go about the situation. I am just angry and irritated by everyone in my house lately. I feel like a total stranger in my own home. What should I do! https://mobile./899005560181154?view=permalink&id=2166005056814525&refid=7&ref=opera_speed_dial&_ft_=qid.6677098748022043176%3Amf_story_key.8676719285697770512%3Agroup_id.899005560181154%3Atop_level_post_id.2166005056814525%3Acontent_owner_id_new.100006312072963%3Asrc.22%3Astory_location.5%3Aview_time.1554633199&__tn__=%2As-R |
Re: My Wife Does Not Know That I Know by bukola89(f): 11:42am On Apr 07, 2019 |
Since you're born again, tell her about it,the more you keep it the more you keep on hurting yourself 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Wife Does Not Know That I Know by daddytime(m): 11:45am On Apr 07, 2019 |
Oturugbeke 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Does Not Know That I Know by KevMitnick: 11:46am On Apr 07, 2019 |
Super Story... Smh. 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Does Not Know That I Know by kunleweb: 12:08pm On Apr 07, 2019 |
Oturugbeke.. |
Re: My Wife Does Not Know That I Know by kunleweb: 12:08pm On Apr 07, 2019 |
Oturugbeke... |
Re: My Wife Does Not Know That I Know by kunleweb: 12:08pm On Apr 07, 2019 |
daddytime: Na real oturugbeke my brother |
Re: My Wife Does Not Know That I Know by Oyindidi(f): 12:12pm On Apr 07, 2019 |
Wicked man 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Wife Does Not Know That I Know by RoyalBlu(f): 12:26pm On Apr 07, 2019 |
This script will not sell jor. Too recycled and watery 6 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Wife Does Not Know That I Know by bukatyne(f): 12:41pm On Apr 07, 2019 |
The man is a wicked man. What makes the man think that his wife doesn't know that he can't produce children? Oya let him divorce her and the kids na. All these 'demonic' Christians. 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Does Not Know That I Know by eyinjuege: 12:42pm On Apr 07, 2019 |
Actually, I know a true life story similar to this. The man knew he was infertile, kept it a secret and married a young lady without telling her. I'm talking of over 15 years ago. The first-time his wife got pregnant, he came excitedly to his Dr asking if God had done it. A test was conducted on him, which still showed he was infertile. She gave birth to a boy. The second time she got pregnant, she gave birth to twins. However, I had no sympathy for the man then, neither do I have one for this man here. When you go into a marriage with utmost deceit, be ready to be equally deceived in full measure. "It is he who is fast the gods support"... I'm not sure if that's the correct way of saying the proverb 12 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Wife Does Not Know That I Know by aanuoluwami14(f): 1:40pm On Apr 07, 2019 |
Pray very well before you tell her. Unless the Holy Spirit is in her, she can poison you. It's a very big risk or you keep quiet. I wouldn't blame the woman, yes! Many women are childless today because of their husbands but people think the women have the problem 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Does Not Know That I Know by Pavore9: 2:17pm On Apr 07, 2019 |
Super story! Even if it is true, the man deceived the woman into marriage with his infertility, the woman returned the deceit with children outside marriage....it balances out. 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Does Not Know That I Know by nicepoker101(m): 4:52pm On Apr 07, 2019 |
Take a look at them above. Blaming the man. I don't just know why Adam didn't die with all his ribs intact. 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Does Not Know That I Know by kennybelle: 5:23pm On Apr 07, 2019 |
Sow wind and reap whirlwind. Sow lies and reap falsehood. The pastor started d falsehood by not telling his wife his health status before marriage 'tort of deceit'. Unknowing to him, his wife must have found out from someone else and decide to save him from the shame. She also extended the falsehood by having babies from another man/men. It all started from a faulty marital foundation. Better call her and settle what you started amicably. At least the kids have a right to know who their real father is |
Re: My Wife Does Not Know That I Know by anochuko01(m): 5:49pm On Apr 07, 2019 |
eyinjuege:na real talk u talk sir. eni yara l'ogun n'gbe 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Does Not Know That I Know by Joystark(f): 6:28pm On Apr 07, 2019 |
Sheyb you didn't tell her and went into the marriage believing you will get your healing? Guess what? Your prayers were answered. God works in mysterious ways, man. 4 Likes |
Re: My Wife Does Not Know That I Know by sobastical: 6:53pm On Apr 07, 2019 |
bukola89: Unfortunately, the victim is not in NL so he won't be able to view your advice. 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Does Not Know That I Know by Rosarie(f): 7:03pm On Apr 07, 2019 |
D |
Re: My Wife Does Not Know That I Know by Pidginwhisper: 7:26pm On Apr 07, 2019 |
Re: My Wife Does Not Know That I Know by Nobody: 10:26pm On Apr 09, 2019 |
eyinjuege: Your stupidity is becoming something else |
Re: My Wife Does Not Know That I Know by eyinjuege: 5:30am On Apr 10, 2019 |
Elder0001: Son of a thousand fathers, I've noticed you. Your foolishness is legendary and that's not surprising. Unfortunately unfortunate fellow. Your mother owes you many explanations. 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Wife Does Not Know That I Know by babyfaceafrica: 7:03am On Apr 10, 2019 |
fake |
Re: My Wife Does Not Know That I Know by tboydbrave(m): 10:08am On Nov 15, 2019 |
Bro u should consider yourself lucky oo. At least she doesn't allow your disagreements affect her responsibilities in d home to u n d kids. N she is still willing to sleep with u. Some women wouldn't even allow u touch Dem even after d issue has been settled. Am not hyping your wife but maybe she sees it as a means of settling d issue in her own understanding. My advice is dat u use dat time after sex,with d two of u still on bed to discuss the issue at hand. Cheers. |
Re: My Wife Does Not Know That I Know by Khalidase83(m): 10:15am On Nov 15, 2019 |
Fiction. What's the correlation between been involved in an accident and becoming impotent . Except u were before the accident. There's more to this ur story. |
Re: My Wife Does Not Know That I Know by Lamanii22(f): 10:34am On Nov 15, 2019 |
ExAngel007: You should tell her... Instead of hating on 'em... Soon the irritation would lead to hatred... |
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