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|Is This Normal? by BUSHYANUS(f): 8:12pm On Apr 11|
For a woman who is married to visit a male bestie? And also to disclose such info as she is seeing her menses? If u are the male bestie in this situation what must u do
|Re: Is This Normal? by jawalis(m): 8:18pm On Apr 11|
She doesn't have self respect and for her Husband. had a friend then (though not married but about to), she always visit my place and talks about everything but I knew its a bad habit. I had to tell her blankly and she was cautioned.
|Re: Is This Normal? by BUSHYANUS(f): 8:20pm On Apr 11|
So must the male rebuke her?
|Re: Is This Normal? by badadvice: 8:25pm On Apr 11|
I'll advise the male bestie welcome her and continuing being her confidant.
Her confidin in her male bestie shows she trust him to a fault and it would be sheer wickedness if the male bestie takes that for granted
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|Re: Is This Normal? by BUSHYANUS(f): 8:43pm On Apr 11|
|Re: Is This Normal? by iRepNaija1: 10:04pm On Apr 11|
He doesn't have to do anything except listen. Just like she'll listen when he gushes about the fine babe down the street. Does she start changing her behavior around her best friend (who happens to be male) because she got married? I swear, ya'll act like marriage is the end of someone's life. It's not that deep.
|Re: Is This Normal? by flokii: 10:21pm On Apr 11|
It is normal.. she must really feel comfortable with you to tell you stuffs like that.
Just don't mess the friendship up.. it'd be a sad lonely journey of regrets if you do
|Re: Is This Normal? by anochuko01(m): 10:24pm On Apr 11|
I dont know why some people cant just learn to STFU!!!
|Re: Is This Normal? by jawalis(m): 10:51am On Apr 14|
|Re: Is This Normal? by morningstar55(m): 2:15pm On Apr 14|
jawalis:Exactly what the OP should do...
Tell the woman to make the hubby her bestie
Can't stand my wife confiding in other men
|Re: Is This Normal? by kingxsamz(m): 2:19pm On Apr 14|
With this your moniker, how can one take you serious?
|Re: Is This Normal? by tee59(f): 3:01pm On Apr 14|
Your moniker is something else.
|Re: Is This Normal? by anthonyuncle(m): 4:10pm On Apr 14|
keep listening to her(u might be da only one she trust),
but reduce her visits
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