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Re: Man Shoots His Girfriend Dead In Bayelsa Over Cheating Allegation. Graphic Photo by BigBashiru: 8:44pm On Apr 15, 2019 |
trapQ: Men are also responsible for male on male violence frequently involving brutality e.g. homicides, mass shootings, assassinations, etc. Gender studies calls this toxic masculinity. Women must stand up for themselves and resist toxic masculinity. |
Re: Man Shoots His Girfriend Dead In Bayelsa Over Cheating Allegation. Graphic Photo by Nobody: 8:45pm On Apr 15, 2019 |
tunize:olodo it's female and not femala |
Re: Man Shoots His Girfriend Dead In Bayelsa Over Cheating Allegation. Graphic Photo by Juell(m): 8:51pm On Apr 15, 2019 |
Isoduwa:BACK TO SENDER IN JESUS NAME! |
Re: Man Shoots His Girfriend Dead In Bayelsa Over Cheating Allegation. Graphic Photo by BigBashiru: 8:53pm On Apr 15, 2019 |
Foodforthought: You are missing the point. Brutality is gender specific. In the police departments of 50 major world cities, the most brutal crimes and violence were in every city 97+% male and 3% or less female. So toxic masculinity is an issue. And male savagery is an issue. It's not palatable tohear the truth but it's the truth. Males hv very poor conflict resolution skills and resolve conflict like brute savages compared tofemales. Intra female violence typically does not involve brutality compared to intra male violence that typically results in murder, homicides, brutality. Road rage where ppl get killed for scratching someone else car is in the domain of males. So males are actually inferior to women!! 1 Like |
Re: Man Shoots His Girfriend Dead In Bayelsa Over Cheating Allegation. Graphic Photo by BigBashiru: 8:53pm On Apr 15, 2019 |
You are missing the point. Brutality is gender specific. In the police departments of 50 major world cities, the most brutal crimes and violence were in every city 97+% male and 3% or less female. So toxic masculinity is an issue. And male savagery is an issue. It's not palatable tohear the truth but it's the truth. Males hv very poor conflict resolution skills and resolve conflict like brute savages compared tofemales. Intra female conflict typically does not involve brutality compared to intra male violence that typically results in murder, homicides, brutality. Road rage where ppl get killed for scratching someone else car is in the domain of males. So males are actually inferior to women!!! |
Re: Man Shoots His Girfriend Dead In Bayelsa Over Cheating Allegation. Graphic Photo by Nobody: 8:54pm On Apr 15, 2019 |
What is happening in this Country!!!!.....please God thank you for Life.. |
Re: Man Shoots His Girfriend Dead In Bayelsa Over Cheating Allegation. Graphic Photo by Mcy56(f): 9:01pm On Apr 15, 2019 |
frozsen70:Too much jealousy and being over-possesive too. Majority of men have these and there's the need to watch over it. They cheat but can't take it from their gf or wife. |
Re: Man Shoots His Girfriend Dead In Bayelsa Over Cheating Allegation. Graphic Photo by luluman: 9:05pm On Apr 15, 2019 |
ChangeIsCostant:I think Bayelsan's brain too should be replace with technology like the police. |
Re: Man Shoots His Girfriend Dead In Bayelsa Over Cheating Allegation. Graphic Photo by luluman: 9:06pm On Apr 15, 2019 |
ChangeIsCostant: |
Re: Man Shoots His Girfriend Dead In Bayelsa Over Cheating Allegation. Graphic Photo by tunize(m): 9:06pm On Apr 15, 2019 |
futurist369:Alright thank you. but u should atleast be wise enough to know its a typing error... |
Re: Man Shoots His Girfriend Dead In Bayelsa Over Cheating Allegation. Graphic Photo by Mcy56(f): 9:07pm On Apr 15, 2019 |
kingreign:You sure you're excluded? This your reply says otherwise. |
Re: Man Shoots His Girfriend Dead In Bayelsa Over Cheating Allegation. Graphic Photo by BigBashiru: 9:09pm On Apr 15, 2019 |
BigBashiru: Police brutality is also a manifestation of toxic masculinity. The recent shooting by a customs officer, killings by police officers etc are all examples of toxic masculinity. Toxic masculinity is driven by ego!! |
Re: Man Shoots His Girfriend Dead In Bayelsa Over Cheating Allegation. Graphic Photo by BigBashiru: 9:09pm On Apr 15, 2019 |
Mcy56: Pls read my replies on this thread. Wat do u think? |
Re: Man Shoots His Girfriend Dead In Bayelsa Over Cheating Allegation. Graphic Photo by frozen70(f): 9:10pm On Apr 15, 2019 |
Mcy56: You are absolutely right The best way is for a woman to be independent of her self Once her husband starts displaying those their stupid attitudes of Jealousy Possessiveness Control Display of anger Manipulation Just sort yourself out by doing the needful Such is life No man should determine a woman's happiness 1 Like |
Re: Man Shoots His Girfriend Dead In Bayelsa Over Cheating Allegation. Graphic Photo by Mcy56(f): 9:38pm On Apr 15, 2019 |
BigBashiru:Think you are right in a way. Male folks are egoistic in nature, becoming more insecure and really trying to fight as well as suppress women independence by imposing their 'superiority' through violence. There's the need for reorientation program for men - that a woman's crave for independence is not a threat to them, it doesn't make them less of a man, neither does it remove the God given authority from them. Also, society is not helping matters here. Where is our rich culture that teaches morals, ethics and values from childhood? They are daily been replaced with all sorts of vices. What is the role of religion here? How is our ever increasing religious houses impacting positively on individuals and society as a whole? Where is the place of God in our hearts? .......Let me stop here. |
Re: Man Shoots His Girfriend Dead In Bayelsa Over Cheating Allegation. Graphic Photo by Mcy56(f): 9:55pm On Apr 15, 2019 |
frozen70:You're right. Female independence. Just to add this: Think there's a misconception about feminism among male folks. One thing men should understand is that there are various schools of thought on feminism, different factions. While there are extreme ones (radical feminism), there are also modest and conservative ones. There's the need to educate themselves on what it is and what it is not before they'll just be shouting feminist upandan. One thing is this, there's the need to empower girl-child going forward and they should stop all these attacks on women overtly or covertly. NB: I am not a feminist oooo, before someone'll be quick to tag me.. 1 Like |
Re: Man Shoots His Girfriend Dead In Bayelsa Over Cheating Allegation. Graphic Photo by Zeusc(m): 9:56pm On Apr 15, 2019 |
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Re: Man Shoots His Girfriend Dead In Bayelsa Over Cheating Allegation. Graphic Photo by Foodforthought: 10:06pm On Apr 15, 2019 |
BigBashiru:I didn't comment on brutality,but on wickedness. That's a general term for different negative acts. Brutality is more common in males, its not found only in males. So it isn't gender specific. The person I quoted seemed to settle on only men being WICKED, effectively saying women aren't. So my comment on women being more wicked is probably an exaggeration but still in that context....It's not gender specific is what I meant. For clarity go read up on gender specific traits. I don't know what you mean in your last sentence. |
Re: Man Shoots His Girfriend Dead In Bayelsa Over Cheating Allegation. Graphic Photo by emkz: 10:09pm On Apr 15, 2019 |
Having had problems with anger in the past myself, I need to contribute to this issue. No one knows exactly how he'd react when these things happen and emotions get raw. Sometimes, you lose control and until you have committed the deed, you wont know what/how it happened. I visited Kirikiri Prisons during my NYSC and more than 50% of the people there had no uniforms because they had not been convicted, but they were remanded for various heinous crimes. Interacting with them, they were educated and well mannered, but a moment of inexplicable madness landed them in jail. I wont claim to have a recipe for anger management; but PLEASE people, before things escalate, talk to someone, probably a person you respect. Let that someone mediate peace at that moment. That may be your saving grace. It might be hard to just walk away from these situations, especially when one believes being in a relationship gives him exclusive right to the woman's toto. When I was younger, I fought in justification of my anger. When I got older, I found out that walking away even in the face of provocation saves a lot. It is hard, yet one must do it. Please people. It is better to be labelled a coward and live your life in peace than live a life of regret because you want to show you are the boss. Let us sensitize our brothers and sisters on this because these stories are upsetting. If you must strike, go and strategize. There are more effective ways (like silence and gradual withdrawal) to deal with these kind of situations. It has always worked for me as an adult. I read that someone poured hot water on her husband last night. And an Abuja lady murdered her husband because she suspected he was cheating, as well as the story in Lagos of the woman that stabbed her husband to death because he wanted to will some of his properties to his daughter from a previous marriage. Please let us educate ourselves more and before things escalate, inform the police if you dont want to be directly involved because even peacemakers have been killed. Please people. This is a heartfelt appeal. I dont know what is going on in the world, but it seems Lucifer is getting the upper hand. Let us overcome him... 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Man Shoots His Girfriend Dead In Bayelsa Over Cheating Allegation. Graphic Photo by Platony(m): 10:13pm On Apr 15, 2019 |
Women are powerful cheats compared to Men. D worst part of it all is, they will use ur head to play champions league, giving u that 310% assurance that u are d one they are dating, even fight wen dey see u with another barney, meanwhile they are seriously cheating. And mind u, women don't jst cheat with one guy, minimum is 3 guys at same time. The boy sha na big fool, his brain wasn't strong enough to stand d storms of women. 1 Like
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Re: Man Shoots His Girfriend Dead In Bayelsa Over Cheating Allegation. Graphic Photo by Chibokgame: 10:15pm On Apr 15, 2019 |
Oh! What a great loss and waste, and come to think of it, women � prefer dating agbero........ |
Re: Man Shoots His Girfriend Dead In Bayelsa Over Cheating Allegation. Graphic Photo by Platony(m): 10:37pm On Apr 15, 2019 |
Some of these girls enjoy dating bad guys. What do they expect? U need to see d kind of sophisticated phones these small small girls use, especially here in Bayelsa....the rate of phone theft by these their so called tout boyfriends are very High. Everyday dem dey thief!! Guns everywhere,...Any small thing, dem don point u gun, collect every. Within a month my Wife has bn robbed twice & was dispossessed of her phones. She's been forced now to use a cheaper small phone. As for me, I dnt go out with my Big phones anymore becos of d way d town has become. I solidly believe she knows his status & still chose to be with him. RIP to her. 1 Like |
Re: Man Shoots His Girfriend Dead In Bayelsa Over Cheating Allegation. Graphic Photo by Leviana(f): 12:00am On Apr 16, 2019 |
What is up with people and Killing their boyfriends/girlfriends these days? Honestly, I knew it was happening before but the rate at which it has increased Is just simply ridiculous |
Re: Man Shoots His Girfriend Dead In Bayelsa Over Cheating Allegation. Graphic Photo by frozen70(f): 3:22am On Apr 16, 2019 |
Mcy56: Don't be scared That's a good one. Let them tag you, be proud of who you are ⏺️ 1 Like |
Re: Man Shoots His Girfriend Dead In Bayelsa Over Cheating Allegation. Graphic Photo by OyinO: 3:49am On Apr 16, 2019 |
Nothing but a useless cultist. A woman you've not paid any dime on her head? He'll suffer injustice for the rest of his miserable days. |
Re: Man Shoots His Girfriend Dead In Bayelsa Over Cheating Allegation. Graphic Photo by OyinO: 3:53am On Apr 16, 2019 |
emkz: You spoke very well until when you ended it with Lucifer. Chai |
Re: Man Shoots His Girfriend Dead In Bayelsa Over Cheating Allegation. Graphic Photo by NwaIgboBoy(m): 8:33am On Apr 16, 2019 |
the truth is that guys that gets too angry when their girlfriends cheats are the once that cheats even more.... |
Re: Man Shoots His Girfriend Dead In Bayelsa Over Cheating Allegation. Graphic Photo by Bryan88(m): 11:19am On Apr 16, 2019 |
trapQ:NAH...HAVEN'T SAID SO...JUST WONDERING WHAT IF HE'S MARRIED TO HER, WHAT WUD THEN NOW HAPPEN? |
Re: Man Shoots His Girfriend Dead In Bayelsa Over Cheating Allegation. Graphic Photo by seangy4konji: 8:29pm On Apr 16, 2019 |
Now he will spend majority of his miserable life in Nigeria prison... Or be hanged.. What a fool |
Re: Man Shoots His Girfriend Dead In Bayelsa Over Cheating Allegation. Graphic Photo by cooooooks(m): 2:30am On Apr 17, 2019 |
Even if she was cheting, SO WHAT!!!! Move on. This our madness must stop. We are almost 200 million people but everyday people are crying and killing themselves because somebody they "love" isn't showing love back to them. Abeg we should stop this nonsense. |
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