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I brought this here so we all can learn. How do you makeup/settle with your partner and how long does it take before you makeup? I’ll go first.


After a heated argument, women will be women, she’d still want to keep a mean face. But for me, not up to an hour my brain has gone to reset mode. I’ll politely ask her if she has eaten, she sef go Dey form she’s not hungry. Then I’ll dish food for the both of us to eat or ask her to come over if she’s not at my place the moment. At first she wouldn’t want to eat nor talk, then I start teasing. Once I’m able to locate and touch her nipples even with her clothes on, e don finish be that.

She won’t stop laughing and asking me to stop. So we yaf settled.




If we are very far from each other that moment, after the heated argument on phone, within two to three hours, we back to talking like nothing happened.


Please let’s hear from couples on here. Pardon my moniker and take the thread serious.

U mean na nipple una dey use settle scores.. Lol

stupidity:
I brought this here so we all can learn. How do you makeup/settle with your partner and how long does it take before you makeup? I’ll go first.


After a heated argument, women will be women, she’d still want to keep a mean face. But for me, not up to an hour my brain has gone to reset mode. I’ll politely ask her if she has eaten, she sef go Dey form she’s not hungry. Then I’ll dish food for the both of us to eat or ask her to come over if she’s not at my place the moment. At first she wouldn’t want to eat nor talk, then I start teasing. Once I’m able to locate and touch her nipples even with her clothes on, e don finish be that.

She won’t stop laughing and asking me to stop. So we yaf settled.




If we are very far from each other that moment, after the heated argument on phone, within two to three hours, we back to talking like nothing happened.


Please let’s hear from couples on here. Pardon my moniker and take the thread serious.

This ur monicker funny

I prefer you/ we talk about it so everyone understands each others point very well with soft tone and pampering

Here 2 learn

Married folks oya

Anytime I Bleep up she complains.. I remain silent until she's through then I apologize....when she Bleep up too she self go mute till I don rake finish. Sorry na d statement we dy end matter.

as long as both of you are not choleric.. you will be fine!!!..saying sorry also goes a long way.... and people need to.look out for spouses that don't argue too much and stay quiet..na dem worse pass o....when they explode.. ypu wont like it......emotional abuse and verbal abuse should be avoided....lastly understand your spouse!!

You are placing your question on friendship or lovers level

When it comes to proper marriage level, it's a different ball game

But bear in mind,
Women bear grudges 100times more than men

Best option is get it resolved quite immediately

Op is not even married

It's a different ball game in marriage

Using nipple to settle DT sounds like secondary school relationship.

Sometimes settlement takes time especially for weighty offence like cheating

frozen70:
You are placing your question on friendship or lovers level

When it comes to proper marriage level, it's a different ball game

But bear in mind,
Women bear grudges 100times more than men

Best option is get it resolved quite immediately

Some men bear grudges much more than women ooo, I can attest to that, the best thing to do is to let them let off the steam and then apologize, even when you are wrong as long as you still need the relationship. Life goes on.

babyfaceafrica:
as long as both of you are not choleric.. you will be fine!!!..saying sorry also goes a long way.... and people need to.look out for spouses that don't argue too much and stay quiet..na dem worse pass o....when they explode.. ypu wont like it......emotional abuse and verbal abuse should be avoided....lastly understand your spouse!!

Choleric ni cholera ko.

Temperaments are just rubbish!


Tim lahaye was high on weed.

No serious medical liteterature attributes anything to temperaments.

partnerbizz4:
Choleric ni cholera ko.

Temperaments are just rubbish!


Tim lahaye was high on weed.

No serious medical liteterature attributes anything to temperaments.

Temperament is psychological not medical.



Thanks

TonyeBarcanista:
Temperament is psychological not medical.



Thanks

Psychology and medicine are intertwined.

Your emotions and feelings have physiological components in that they can trigger release of hormones. Mental state affect physical health.


Why is it that anxiety or low self esteem can manifest as erectile dysfunction or premature ejaculation?


Zodiac signs and Temperaments have no credence in medical or even psychological literature.

ogawisdom:
Op is not even married

It's a different ball game in marriage

Using nipple to settle DT sounds like secondary school relationship.

Sometimes settlement takes time especially for weighty offence like cheating

your right. I’m not married yet. That’s why I want to learn. Thanks for the input

frozen70:
You are placing your question on friendship or lovers level

When it comes to proper marriage level, it's a different ball game

But bear in mind,
Women bear grudges 100times more than men

Best option is get it resolved quite immediately

thanks for your input. I’m not married yet. That’s why I’m here to learn.

mirob:
Some men bear grudges much more than women ooo, I can attest to that, the best thing to do is to let them let off the steam and then apologize, even when you are wrong as long as you still need the relationship. Life goes on.

I Dont apologize when i am right, did that with my ex and the conseqences were not friendly. if you offends me, i tell you straight up, he you take it upon your self that i must be the one to apologize and make the relationship work, i will walk away. Life is too short

stupidity:
thanks for your input. I’m not married yet. That’s why I’m here to learn.

Ok

gloria34:
I Dont apologize when i am right, did that with my ex and the conseqences were not friendly. if you offends me, i tell you straight up, he you take it upon your self that i must be the one to apologize and make the relationship work, i will walk away. Life is too short

How do you deduce that you are right?,did you both agree that your opinion is the right one or how do you conclude his view or action is wrong?.

hidee20:
How do you deduce that you are right?,did you both agree that your opinion is the right one or how do you conclude his view or action is wrong?.

There are some situations where you just know you did nothing wrong. Whether i feel i'm right or wrong, i usually apologize cause i read somewhere that it is the right thing to do. I apologized for every argument we had till i got Tired.

gloria34:
There are some situations where you just know you did nothing wrong. Whether i feel i'm right or wrong, i usually apologize cause i read somewhere that it is the right thing to do. I apologized for every argument we had till i got Tired.

That's so energy draining.

gloria34:
I Dont apologize when i am right, did that with my ex and the conseqences were not friendly. if you offends me, i tell you straight up, he you take it upon your self that i must be the one to apologize and make the relationship work, i will walk away. Life is too short

Yes life is too short.

All of you should come back to this topic five years after marriage. Boyfriend and girlfriend game in not the same as marriage.

Quarels may last for days, weeks, months or even years in marriage. I have seen couples living in the same house but sleeping in different rooms and each person cooks his/her own food. Maybe they dont want to divorce or seperate becausr of the children.

Regardless of the differences, Always have it at the back of your mind that you are dealing with a fellow created being, a soul beyond time and space in a body to experience this reality. This basically puts you in a place where you show understanding, respect,love,empathy and compassion.

I'm a great fan and a student of makeup sex. I will always look forward to that part

etrouble:
All of you should come back to this topic five years after marriage. Boyfriend and girlfriend game in not the same as marriage.

Quarels may last for days, weeks, months or even years in marriage. I have seen couples living in the same house but sleeping in different rooms and each person cooks his/her own food. Maybe they dont want to divorce or seperate becausr of the children.

We have never slept overnight with any quarrel after 5yrs of marriage and 13yrs of knowing each other.