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Re: This Is Why Nigerians Do Not Deserve Financial Help From Fellow Nigerians (pics) by Testimony44: 2:04pm On Apr 19, 2019
I learnt this lesson the hard way. Then i lent my friend 35k to support him in the payment of his house rent. I asked him after one month guy how far? Nigga said I'm threatening him. Till tomorrow he is still owing me 10k
Re: This Is Why Nigerians Do Not Deserve Financial Help From Fellow Nigerians (pics) by uuzba(m): 2:15pm On Apr 19, 2019
Driggs:
This WhatsApp conversation is ridiculous..

I dunno what kind of advice to give my friend who sent this to me.

How will someone borrow lend you money after begging and crying to return i....

Borrow = Collect <<<<-
Lend = Give ->>>>
Re: This Is Why Nigerians Do Not Deserve Financial Help From Fellow Nigerians (pics) by DICKstractor(m): 2:15pm On Apr 19, 2019
one of my friends is owing me 8k since November last year... anytime I ask for it, he dribbles me like taribo west...
Re: This Is Why Nigerians Do Not Deserve Financial Help From Fellow Nigerians (pics) by uuzba(m): 2:20pm On Apr 19, 2019
shevon:
I can relate to this.
Borrowed some cash on behalf of a family member last year September because he had an emergency. The money was supposed to be paid back in October; fast forward to February, the money was yet to be paid and the person I borrowed the money from had an emergency too, so I had to use the money I got from selling my car and another one I got from another source to pay the original lender (even though her dad died despite everything)
Before I paid the money, I told the family member I got the money for that the fund I'm using to pay back was meant for me to replace the car I sold and he said it won't go beyond 1st week in March. Right now, he doesn't even call or text me and I still don't have a car. I went all out for him because he had borrowed in the past and paid back, there was nothing to indicate he would treat the last transaction like this. A transaction that was supposed to be closed out within 1 month is 7 months old now and counting, with no end I sight.
It is well.
Don't lend money out to anyone, unless it is an amount you are prepared to lose without complaining.
If the person pays back, Thank God. If he doesn't pay back, take it like that. Don't go about complaining.

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Re: This Is Why Nigerians Do Not Deserve Financial Help From Fellow Nigerians (pics) by uuzba(m): 2:24pm On Apr 19, 2019
Testimony44:
I learnt this lesson the hard way. Then i lent my friend 35k to support him in the payment of his house rent. I asked him after one month guy how far? Nigga said I'm threatening him. Till tomorrow he is still owing me 10k
Well, that makes him a lesser man than you.
Continue your life without the N10k.
Although if you want to be wicked, just be present in all his events, party church....etc. Let his just see you. Don't talk. Smile at him and talk to another person. Do this for the rest of his life. Before he dies, he will pay you that N10k.

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Re: This Is Why Nigerians Do Not Deserve Financial Help From Fellow Nigerians (pics) by vertueptime: 2:34pm On Apr 19, 2019
Especially those that voted buhari
Re: This Is Why Nigerians Do Not Deserve Financial Help From Fellow Nigerians (pics) by wisdomkid: 2:36pm On Apr 19, 2019
Maverickking1:
Honestly op the blame is on you. Why give out money when you know it's your last card?

You give because you Love, NOT because you have enough.
If we're to give because we have enough, WE'LL NEVER GIVE.

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Re: This Is Why Nigerians Do Not Deserve Financial Help From Fellow Nigerians (pics) by izeksblog: 2:36pm On Apr 19, 2019
I'd rather dash you money than borrow you. Learnt my lesson after I borrowed someone my project money. Thank God for the kind of friends I have I for bag extra year and funny enough, the nigga gave no shit.

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Re: This Is Why Nigerians Do Not Deserve Financial Help From Fellow Nigerians (pics) by Treasure17(m): 2:37pm On Apr 19, 2019
Daslim180:
A friend of mine once did that sh*t! He said he needed 15k and it very urgent. He said he will be paying back the next day. Gave him my Card to withdraw and he did and I was received debit alert. Since then till now (3 years) baba no even talk about it...lol

Funny a enough, I did not even asked him about the money. Months later, he came to me to lend him 1k, I just tell him I don't have.

Moral: Don't lend out the money you cannot dash out.
Your last statement is the code. If you want to assist, do that within your capacity.

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Re: This Is Why Nigerians Do Not Deserve Financial Help From Fellow Nigerians (pics) by 3kay945(m): 2:42pm On Apr 19, 2019
gbengaolaniyi:
We Yoruba Muslim don't roll that way angry

Grow up! Don't bring ethnicity into issues.

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Re: This Is Why Nigerians Do Not Deserve Financial Help From Fellow Nigerians (pics) by blackslayer: 2:43pm On Apr 19, 2019
soberdrunk:
Mtcheeewww!! Ontop how much?? Money that I am owing my friends he reach to build stadium and I still dey disturb them cheesy Friendship is for better for worse........ angry

professional parasite!

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Re: This Is Why Nigerians Do Not Deserve Financial Help From Fellow Nigerians (pics) by Daeylar(f): 2:49pm On Apr 19, 2019
Maverickking1:
Honestly op the blame is on you. Why give out money when you know it's your last card?

Irrelevant. This is what happens when you want to victim blame so bad. Even if it's not his last card he has every right to be offended.
Only one person did wrong here. The friend who refused to pay back when he said he would. You ignored that and you're struggling to find a way to blame the victim.
Re: This Is Why Nigerians Do Not Deserve Financial Help From Fellow Nigerians (pics) by bjnice(m): 2:49pm On Apr 19, 2019
Offpoint:

gringrin tomorrow now if angel deny you heaven visa you go talk sey you commit any singrin

��� See Savage reply. Guy you are a wicked somebody
Re: This Is Why Nigerians Do Not Deserve Financial Help From Fellow Nigerians (pics) by ojex004: 2:53pm On Apr 19, 2019
okooloyun1:
That was how one bros borrowed money from me when it was time for him to pay, he asked me to list what I want to use the money for grin Since 2015 he did not pay. 70k just waka like dat.


i been thinking say na only me. mine na since 2013 self and 50k wish i no go forfeit for him wenever we meet. i even beg the guy to pay 30k and leave 20k to himself but keep claiming no job and he get married on the process and has kid and doing some courses. no be money him they use

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Re: This Is Why Nigerians Do Not Deserve Financial Help From Fellow Nigerians (pics) by Buffalo2(m): 2:59pm On Apr 19, 2019
starstaz:


I gbadun ur philo jaree..
Na so e be oo my brother. I can't displease myself to please anybody

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Re: This Is Why Nigerians Do Not Deserve Financial Help From Fellow Nigerians (pics) by WORLDREED(m): 3:02pm On Apr 19, 2019
soberdrunk:
Mtcheeewww!! Ontop how much?? Money that I am owing my friends he reach to build stadium and I still dey disturb them cheesy Friendship is for better for worse..
...... angry




Common sense you dont have nii
Re: This Is Why Nigerians Do Not Deserve Financial Help From Fellow Nigerians (pics) by ogawisdom(m): 3:02pm On Apr 19, 2019
Chaii

Money way guy man don use shak n drink pepper soup grin

As a matter of principle I don't borrow anyone money I can't let go if they don't pay back n I never give anyone the whole money they asked for.

U ask for 5k then I offer u 2k or 1k

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Re: This Is Why Nigerians Do Not Deserve Financial Help From Fellow Nigerians (pics) by mujaya1: 3:03pm On Apr 19, 2019
this are the real almajiri we were talking about not those northern street almajiri.
Re: This Is Why Nigerians Do Not Deserve Financial Help From Fellow Nigerians (pics) by xoxocandy(f): 3:03pm On Apr 19, 2019
Re: This Is Why Nigerians Do Not Deserve Financial Help From Fellow Nigerians (pics) by PAGAN9JA(m): 3:05pm On Apr 19, 2019
samuelson06:


Make that your 'Gods' small 'g.' They are always small spelt with a small 'g' and would remain so. 'gods' NOT 'Gods.' There's nothing like 'Gods' in the dictionary. Mr. Pagan!

shut up you dead jew man worshipper

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Re: This Is Why Nigerians Do Not Deserve Financial Help From Fellow Nigerians (pics) by donbenie(m): 3:24pm On Apr 19, 2019
OkoroPeugeot:
You didn't blur the account number in the reply
Any need,

Who want steal him #31.4 balance .. undecided

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Re: This Is Why Nigerians Do Not Deserve Financial Help From Fellow Nigerians (pics) by OkoroPeugeot(m): 3:28pm On Apr 19, 2019
cheesy cheesy cheesy cheesy cheesy


As he blur the first one he for complete work

donbenie:
Any need,

Who want steal him #31.4 balance .. undecided

STRENGTHesq:
cheesy
You can send money to him then
Re: This Is Why Nigerians Do Not Deserve Financial Help From Fellow Nigerians (pics) by JBArokonkwo1(m): 3:43pm On Apr 19, 2019
daddytime:
Useless somborri...

Professional onigbese
Na this kind guy African countries suppose hire to dey help them borrow money from IMF, World Bank and China.

Dem go draw debt tire. .



This is so hilarious

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Re: This Is Why Nigerians Do Not Deserve Financial Help From Fellow Nigerians (pics) by JBArokonkwo1(m): 3:47pm On Apr 19, 2019
I once borrowed a girl I met at nysc money some years ago and she promised to pay back after a week.
I gave her because she was head of the Pentecostal fellowship.
She didn't pay a dime till today. Almost five years.
She eventually blocked me.
Moral lesson : Na human being be winch!

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Re: This Is Why Nigerians Do Not Deserve Financial Help From Fellow Nigerians (pics) by Dinocarex(m): 3:57pm On Apr 19, 2019
People wicked. My $500 since a year now. Baba just dey post me since.
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Re: This Is Why Nigerians Do Not Deserve Financial Help From Fellow Nigerians (pics) by armadeo(m): 4:37pm On Apr 19, 2019
2 years ago a nigga I hadn't heard from in almost 2 years calls me out of the blue asking for 20k urgently that he'll pay back by weekend. Giving me some bullshit story.

I just lol in my mind and told him i've got just 5k to spare he said I should send it which I did ( gave him for old times sakes). He promised to pay by weekend and i havent heard from him again till date.

Am I upset. Nope. I knew he was probably in a bind and needed cash but I would have preferred he just manned up and asked straight out. I also knew I wasnt getting the cash back that's why I dropped 5k instead of 20.

Well he was my guy back then so no ish.

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Re: This Is Why Nigerians Do Not Deserve Financial Help From Fellow Nigerians (pics) by mechanics(m): 4:51pm On Apr 19, 2019
hmmmm, some people are naturally wicked, one have to lend money he won't use for a while if not, the person you are borrowing to may disappoint you.
Re: This Is Why Nigerians Do Not Deserve Financial Help From Fellow Nigerians (pics) by Tattooboy: 5:14pm On Apr 19, 2019
shevon:
I can relate to this.
Borrowed some cash on behalf of a family member last year September because he had an emergency. The money was supposed to be paid back in October; fast forward to February, the money was yet to be paid and the person I borrowed the money from had an emergency too, so I had to use the money I got from selling my car and another one I got from another source to pay the original lender (even though her dad died despite everything)
Before I paid the money, I told the family member I got the money for that the fund I'm using to pay back was meant for me to replace the car I sold and he said it won't go beyond 1st week in March. Right now, he doesn't even call or text me and I still don't have a car. I went all out for him because he had borrowed in the past and paid back, there was nothing to indicate he would treat the last transaction like this. A transaction that was supposed to be closed out within 1 month is 7 months old now and counting, with no end I sight.
It is well.

Bro, that's the trick now. They payback the first time and never will the next time.
Re: This Is Why Nigerians Do Not Deserve Financial Help From Fellow Nigerians (pics) by Tattooboy: 5:15pm On Apr 19, 2019
armadeo:


Am I upset. Nope. I knew he was probably in a bind and needed cash but I would have preferred he just manned up and asked straight out. I also knew I wasnt getting the cash back that's why I dropped 5k instead of 20.

Well he was my guy back then so no ish.

That's the spirit.
Re: This Is Why Nigerians Do Not Deserve Financial Help From Fellow Nigerians (pics) by Tattooboy: 5:18pm On Apr 19, 2019
ogawisdom:
Chaii

Money way guy man don use shak n drink pepper soup grin

As a matter of principle I don't borrow anyone money I can't let go if they don't pay back n I never give anyone the whole money they asked for.

U ask for 5k then I offer u 2k or 1k
Baba, abeg I need 5k urgently. Abeg

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