i have a realistic heart and a good one at that.

davidylan:

i have a realistic heart and a good one at that.

wait till he begins to ask for gifts and money,then you can jump him till then Mr realistcynic , cut him some slack , just siddon dey look am!

na so we siddon look until armed robbers took over aso rock. God dey!

Davidylan,
Must you reply or contribute to every post? Or is there an award for whoever has the highest numebr of postings? If you are not interested, just move on. Don't even offer your sympathy. There are a thousand and one issues that you can contribute to on Nairaland.

What if (against your bereavement theory) the poster is just "weird enough" to be able to post his bereavement on nairaland?

I understand where you are coming from. But what if this is true? He is not asking for anything and I don't think you should label him as such. It could be painful.

What goes round comes around,

HA HA HA HA HA HA HA HA HA HA
what can i say.
if i lost someone i loved dearly
my action would be to follow and find him
in that new place.

ireke:

Davidylan,
Must you reply or contribute to every post? Or is there an award for whoever has the highest numebr of postings? If you are not interested, just move on. Don't even offer your sympathy. There are a thousand and one issues that you can contribute to on Nairaland.

What if (against your bereavement theory) the poster is just "weird enough" to be able to post his bereavement on nairaland?

I understand where you are coming from. But what if this is true? He is not asking for anything and I don't think you should label him as such. It could be painful.

What goes round comes around,

LMAO. na so e pain you reach? Are you related to the poster? What is your business if i choose to reply to every thread and if my reply does not necessarily go along the grain of popular thought? No wonder Africa is the way it is, independent thought is a rare commodity.

@ davidlyan et al.
Saying i don't understand your concerns will be untrue, afterall i'm a NIGERIAN and just like you (davidlyan) i'm not afraid to stand alone.
But, i also will want you to know that i am in no way looking for what u think or insinuate.
If it's finance, i'm tight.  What i earn = very much in the range of what most peeps dream about (without any iotre of pride or self-praise)
Presently i work in a BANK & i'm doing excellently.
I said i never discussed this with anyone B4 now, not even my family members, colleagues e.t.c because they PITY me and they say i should just "let it go" (Even her family members think so) but just letting the best thing that ever happened to me "GO" made me feel like "guilty"
Discussuing it with "peeps i have not met & may never meet" is because i needed to talk, no matter who i talk to, i just needed to talk.
To all those who have shown sincere concern & have shared my grief, i'm eternally grateful to you.
Believe me, what everything i've written wasn't "cooked-up" for any reason(s).
Thank you all once again.

David SHUT UP!!!!!

Please accept my heart felt sympathy and may her soul rest in peace.

Need I say more?

You said it all.

You pay off read: WHEN YOU ARE DOWN TO NOTHING, GOD IS UP TO SOMETHING

Please give your belief an action. Believe your Belief

WHEN YOU ARE DOWN TO NOTHING, GOD IS UP TO SOMETHING
WHEN YOU ARE DOWN TO NOTHING, GOD IS UP TO SOMETHING
WHEN YOU ARE DOWN TO NOTHING, GOD IS UP TO SOMETHING
WHEN YOU ARE DOWN TO NOTHING, GOD IS UP TO SOMETHING
WHEN YOU ARE DOWN TO NOTHING, GOD IS UP TO SOMETHING
WHEN YOU ARE DOWN TO NOTHING, GOD IS UP TO SOMETHING
WHEN YOU ARE DOWN TO NOTHING, GOD IS UP TO SOMETHING
WHEN YOU ARE DOWN TO NOTHING, GOD IS UP TO SOMETHING
WHEN YOU ARE DOWN TO NOTHING, GOD IS UP TO SOMETHING
WHEN YOU ARE DOWN TO NOTHING, GOD IS UP TO SOMETHING
WHEN YOU ARE DOWN TO NOTHING, GOD IS UP TO SOMETHING
WHEN YOU ARE DOWN TO NOTHING, GOD IS UP TO SOMETHING
WHEN YOU ARE DOWN TO NOTHING, GOD IS UP TO SOMETHING

My sincere apology

zimba, accept my deepest sympathy. men, i try to put myself in our shoes and to think you are actually going thru this is incomprehensible. i can only imagine how u will be facing life every other day.
zimba, i know God may not make sense to you now but i beg on you to still hold on to Him cos only Him can grant you the fortitude to bear this great loss.it takes just time to heal a wound but it takes more than time to heal the wound of a lifetime. it takes God.
once again accept my deepest sympathy and i pray that her gentle soul will rest in perfect peace.

Zimba,
Accept my sincere sympathy. I HAD SIMILAR EXPERIENCE. But it was my mum. She fought the good fight but she had a relapse too, she never woke up from the operation table. It was on XMAS Eve (24th Dec). Oh! what a , Xmas day. She is a good mother indeed

I know God has a plan for everyone and i'm sure no one chooses to pass away under knife & blades.


Life is a Rhythm which only the wise can dance to it.

Also remember that precious is the death of a Saint in the eyes of the Lord


Live on Brother!!!

Zimba,

Please accept my sincere sympathy, since it has come to this stage there is nothing you or we here can do other than you taking consolate in God

I know what it takes to loose the one you love, if there is such pains of missing your love due to distance how much more of missing the person for life.

Sometime as human i felt this life is not fair but as children of God we are told to be thankful to God in every situation we find ourselves. You don't need to cry or be sorrowful I know how difficult it is but find time to read motivational or inspirational books that will give you reason to live

If you believe in life after death pray for her soul each time you remember her, I PRAY THAT THE COMFORTER (HOLY SPIRIT) GIVE YOU THE REASON TO LIVE ON THROUGH CHRIST OUR LORD, AMEN.

God knows best
*what wont kill us,makes us stronger*
*this too will pass*
be assured that she is resting in the bossom of the Lord
Take heart dearie,

dont see me as someone who is clod blodded but does he use to smoke?

i mean she

Not all cancer patients are smoker.

@Kike001

kike001:

don't see me as someone who is clod blodded but does he use to smoke?

no, she never did

accept my condolence

for every thing,god has a purpose. it is not for us to ask him why but to believe and trust in him that all things work for good to all who believe in him.my heart goes out to you,my sympathy.be strong and never dwell on the past but use it as a stepping stone to move ahead in life.

Hang in there dude

Ah ya. sorry o, Time heals, meditate, pray, u have a reason to live beleive me u will be a inspiration to someone with this. Peace be to your heart. Peace

david if dont have anything positive to say why dont u just shut up and ignore the thread wait till u lose someone close and see how it feels how can u be so callous heartless and wicked? im sure u are not a nigerian and if u are u are bad specimen

dont worry u can take it standing behind dark cloud is a silver lining take care

tobbyjohn:

david if don't have anything positive to say why don't u just shut up and ignore the thread wait till u lose someone close and see how it feels how can u be so callous heartless and wicked? im sure u are not a nigerian and if u are u are bad specimen

@ all need

no need for all this verbal attacks on David , he has a right to express his doubts about @topics intensions, and nowhere in his posts did he curse him out or something!,so why all this ill wishes and curses?

well i can't imagine what you're going through. 7 years!!

may her soul rest in peace.

but i'll encourage you to find someone to talk to about your feelings though. That's one of the most important things to do and I'm sure you know that since you created this thread which is a good idea.
maybe a close friend or family of yours that's willing to listen or a counselor (they help people go through times like this) to help you get better. I wish i were there to help but it's all good.
I'm at loss what what to say but I wish you good luck now and in your future.

i see some weed in this garden. pls stand up where u are, u know urself

very clever human being ha

superman:

i see some weed in this garden. please stand up where u are, u know yourself

very clever human being ha

super bikozianu eh.
leave them weed alone oh.
your response does not relate to the topic.

I sincerely sympathise with the poster .
It is tough to lose a loved one.

Bless ur heart zimba . i feel for you.Its so sad to hear this kind of stories yall.7 years aint no joke .Keep ur head up

It is utmost impossible to assume the story was cooked up by Zimba. guess dis broda man needs encouragement. God forbid it happens to anyone else.
May God in His infinite mercy grant you the fortitude to bear the loss. I pray He brings to your path a greater person to replace her.
Enjoy

superman:

i see some weed in this garden. please stand up where u are, u know yourself

very clever human being ha

Yo!! who be de mon looking fa some weeed in da house, Hey bra you neeed to go check some place else ugh! Ganja smoking not be allowed in de area, So my bg guy supamon, Fl my friend to Jaimaica nd get ya self sam goooood weeed there and let your face just be