i am a south african lady,and have many nigerian friends ,wat i have noticed is that most of the nigerian women can stay years waiting for their suitors to come back from abroad to marry them!does this still happen or not??

i am a south african lady,and have many nigerian friends ,wat i have noticed is that most of the nigerian women can stay years waiting for their suitors to come back from abroad to marry them


@ poster

I think you should ask some of your so called friends, because it is not a norm in Nigeria.

Or are you looking for a Nigerian suitor they may consider you.

most of the nigerian women can stay years waiting for their suitors to come back from abroad to marry them

i swear, the minute nigeria decides to grant residency on the basis of marriage to a nigerian citizen, all the yamayama aka arifin go reduce drastically nah!!

na everybody just dey make yanga these days, because their womanliness is the ticket to green card, thanks to their government's laws.



btw, one day i go open thread to research the reasons why nigerian men are so much sought after by other countries' women.

and to find out the reasons why the men of those countries dont seem to be satisfying their women?

ladies it was just a topic no need to get personal,well for your information i am married to a great nigerian man so there is no need for anyone to hook me up coz i am already spoken for! and my `so called friends are all nigerian guys that reside in south africa.i have discovered that most have girlfriends waiting for them in nigeria so i ask again can you wait for your man to come back?

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ladies it was just a topic no need to get personal,well for your information i am married to a great Nigerian man so there is no need for anyone to hook me up coz i am already spoken for! and my `so called friends are all nigerian guys that reside in south africa.i have discovered that most have girlfriends waiting for them in nigeria so i ask again can you wait for your man to come back?

@POSTER

YOU SEE I AM NOT GETTING PERSONAL BUT RATIONAL HERE. THANK GOD YOU ARE MARRIED TO A GREAT MAN BUT,

WHAT I THINK IS THAT YOU SHOULD TRUST HIM AND FORGET WHAT YOUR FRIENDS SAID.

FROM YOUR PREVIOUS QUESTION YOU SAID, THE WOMEN WERE WAITING FOR THEIR SUITORS TO COME BACK AND

NOW IT IS GIRLFRIENDS (A CONTRAST), MY DEAR I FEEL YOU.

SOMETIMES WOMEN FEEL UNNECESSARY TH REATED WHEN THEY MARRY FROM ANOTHER TRIBE OR EVEN COUNTRY

YOU MAY HAVE DOUBTS ABOUT YOUR HUSBAND HAVING HIS COUNTRY WIFE AND IF SHE IS WAITING FOR HIM TO

COME BACK BASED ON THE GIST FROM FRIENDS.

IT IS NATURAL AND FRUSTRATING TO THINK BUT TRUST GOD AND DO YOUR BEST FOR YOUR HUSBAND. TRY TO WORRY

LESS. IT IS NOT ONLY NIGERIAN WOMEN, ANY LADY EVEN IN EUROPE CAN EQUALLY WAIT FOR SUITOR.

I'd wait yonkz forrim!

:/

^^ewu

i have been yo Nigeria and it is a beatiful country,the people are welcoming and friendly,I REALLY LOVE MY COUNTRY.i believe i can call it my country since i married to a nigerian and have two beautiful children!

i have been to Nigeria and it is a Wonderful country,and i trust am the only woman in my husbands life!so please dont try any sha kara.i love my parents in law and i am content.if you have heard stories about south africa and women here we all have different orientation same as all countries, people are different the same applies to south africa,there is good and bad.Before people speak we are all adults and should do research before criticizing a fellow african sister.i am a child of Africa whether South africa or Nigeria i am still a black woman.

wow, cool. So which part of nigeria is ur hubby from and where did you visit when u travlled down to nigeria?

my husband is from cross river state ,okpoma,under the yala local govenment and visited lagos in surulere i hope thats how it is spelt!!!! thats where he stayed before he travelled.

tshepiso:

my husband is from cross river state ,okpoma,under the yala local govenment and visited lagos in surulere i hope thats how it is spelt!!!! thats where he stayed before he travelled.

Lucky you.Goodluck in ur marriage.
@Topic,It boils down to the type of relationship and man.If its a relationship where both parties are committed and know where they are going to,why not?

Thank you very much and i will stroll down to naija anytime if not for my parents in law ,then for the Egusi and bitter leaf soup

tshepiso:

Thank you very much and i will stroll down to naija anytime if not for my parents in law ,then for the Egusi and bitter leaf soup

lol
Hope they have also taught u how to prepare "afan soup" and "ekpan-coco"?

No i don`t know how to make those two i only know bene seed soup and ground nut soup.please give me recipes

wow cool , so how old are your kids?

two girls two years and one year

Really, Nigerian woman wait for their suiters years on end? This is strange. Nigerian woman must put up with a lot of stuff. Maybe you can be a pack horse next? Maybe not, you need a back bone to do that.

tshepiso:

two girls two years and one year

aww this is cute. I adore girls Don't mind my asking nature, I just feel you've got a good heart anyways. So where and when did you meet your husband?

@jennykadry,we meet where he works.and the rest as they say is history!!!

@jennykadry
Why are you asking so many questions? I think the lady has made her point.

@ poster,do not worry,  your marriage is safe & blessed, just keep in touch with his family. My friend is  from Cameroon but the man's family can hardly do without her now. Make sure you learn how to prepare atleast some of their food. You can learn from food section of NL.
All the best   

so there is no need for anyone to hook me up

like i havent heard that one before.

usually from the ones searching for men.

seriously, are nigerian men the only africans who date and marry outside their country or why dont we hear this level of broadcasting from women who are married to other africans.

Ferya:

@jennykadry
Why are you asking so many questions? I think the lady has made her point.

Now i am certain that Nigerian men are really enjoying South Africa.The good food,wine, constant electricity,women in different shapes,colours and sizes,black women who sound european but do all african things.WHAT MORE COULD A MAN ASK FOR !but atleast the ladies waiting for them back home will get to see the one that got away on SKYPE!

Be carefull Tshepiso dont get corky now and boast about our Naija brothers.

just wondering if there are any males in south africa?

some women seem to have no life until they meet a naija man.