i was surprise when my future wife told me that she's afraid of introducing me to her family after seven years of relationship, that she still want the relationship to continue but she can't do that. please someone should advise me wisely what do you think is going on.

What reason did she give for not introducing you to her family? Could it be that she doesn't want to marry you?

Rogo:

i was surprise when my future wife told me that she's afraid of introducing me to her family after seven years of relationship, that she still want the relationship to continue but she can't do that. please someone should advise me wisely what do you think is going on.

If the woman is ashamed/embarrassed to introduce you to her family,desist from calling her your future wife (afraid is not the right word).

She thinks you're not what she is expected to bring home as a future spouse.
Drop her like yesterday's news and find a woman who would love you with all her heart and would proudly introduce you to friends and family.

maybe she has told so many lies to you and her lies are about to find her out.

may b u r unpresentable , u should av given us d real reason why she couldnt introduce u

she said my familarity with their family is the major problem she have. because we live together in the same place and the eldest brother is my close friend. she never and has never complain of my person or personality. my appearance is sure to her and the family but she is only affraid of voicing it the family. then what do you think again,

Rogo:

she said my familarity with their family is the major problem she have. because we live together in the same place and [b]the eldest brother is my close friend.[b] she never and has never complain of my person or personality. my appearance is sure to her and the family but she is only affraid of voicing it the family. then what do you think again,

Does this means that none of the family member and even the eldest brother which is ur close friend is not aware of the relationship of seven years?
It then means that you have not been to their house before, if two of you are leaving close according to you, people would have noticed your relationship.

You have waisted 7 useful years of your life, please don't waist your time further. I'll say that you do not have a relationship if your girl can hide you for that long. I wander if you will have to have a secret affair with her for ever. Good luck.

The poster isn't coming straight with us,and besides how can you wait all of 7 years for a formal introduction?Something just aint right here.

it's been 10 years now hope u aint still waiting @ poster u might start growing grey hair

Hope all has been resolved

HA! and you are still waiting

@ Poster I wanna say you don try reach. Mine it was only a year and asked her to take me to her family and she was blabla, guy i quit without notice.

Please runaway before it is too late.

@Post

I'm sure you already know the answer to this question.Somewhere deep down in that mind of yours, there's a bugging voice that keeps telling you that there is another man and believe it or not, THERE IS DEFINITELY SOMEONE ELSE and you are not on her top priority list.Forget all the illogical/irrational reasons she will give you.You are just a spare tire she's keeping on the side in case things doesn't work out with the "real man" in her life.The sooner it dawns on you, the easier your life will become.

Supposed future wife.