I want to cut my coat according to my materials,
I know getting married could be very expressive and draining, so I opted for an option regardless of people opinion, my plan is to invite a clergy to bless the rings and join us Immediately after bride price is paid,
because imaging payment 600k for just a reception hall here is something different, Rather this method to me is (3 in 1), everyone has his/her level of income, "my people say person wey dey ask questions no dey miss road"
how feasible is this?

Very feasible my brother... You will one day be glad for it.
Everybody will come, eat and forget about your wedding. It will be left to you and your wife to live on from there.

dawnomike:
Very feasible my brother... You will one day be glad for it.
Everybody will come, eat and forget about your wedding. It will be left to you and your wife to live on from there.

thanks for your opinion, gracias.

Josephilemona:
I want to cut my coat according to my materials,
I know getting married could be very expressive and draining, so I opted for an option regardless of people opinion, my plan is to invite a clergy to bless the rings and join us Immediately after bride price is paid,
because imaging payment 600k for just a reception hall here is something different, Rather this method to me is (3 in 1), everyone has his/her level of income, "my people say person wey dey ask questions no dey miss road"
how feasible is this?

Go ahead bro, the marriage is more important than the wedding.

thesicilian:
Go ahead bro, the marriage is more important than the wedding.

gracias brotherly

Very nice, if your wife to be supports this, it will be the beginning of a beautiful marriage, don't let anyone pressure you into doing anything you don't want to do.

[quote author=thesicilian post=78616240] Go ahead bro, the marriage is more important than the wedding. thanks brotherly

Josephilemona:
I want to cut my coat according to my materials,
I know getting married could be very expressive and draining, so I opted for an option regardless of people opinion, my plan is to invite a clergy to bless the rings and join us Immediately after bride price is paid,
because imaging payment 600k for just a reception hall here is something different, Rather this method to me is (3 in 1), everyone has his/her level of income, "my people say person wey dey ask questions no dey miss road"
how feasible is this?

1. Do bride price payment in the morning with only family

2. Go to churn thereafter, for traditional reception

OR

Do number 1

2. Go to church and share take away packs in the church.

3. You can chose a place for your pictures and change from your gown to traditional there.

That's the best O my brother. That's what I did. Traditional marriage in the morning around 8. Registry people came at 10:30, our clergymen took over around 11:30, the whole ceremony plus reception ended at 2:pm. Everything depends on your woman's readiness to want this kind of arrangement. In the end you guys will look back and be happy because you would have reduced unnecessary expenditures, borrowing and indebtedness.

goldtosure:
That's the best O my brother. That's what I did. Traditional marriage in the morning around 8. Registry people came at 10:30, our clergymen took over around 11:30, the whole ceremony plus reception ended at 2:pm. Everything depends on your woman's readiness to want this kind of arrangement. In the end you guys will look back and be happy because you would have reduced unnecessary expenditures, borrowing and indebtedness.

I think I prefer this, Nice one.

600k for hall is not friendly o. Please cut that coat properly

Do the traditional requirements, go to court and then go to the pastor's office for joining and marriage blessings.

Or have a church ceremony and serve takeaway packs from the church...no hall...no reception.

ImaIma1:
Do the traditional requirements, go to court and then go to the pastor's office for joining and marriage blessings.

Or have a church ceremony and serve takeaway packs from the church...no hall...no reception.

thanks so much, I like this also.