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Surviving Criticism by Xtdott(m): 10:25am On May 27, 2019
Surviving Criticism

As the saying goes, you see the back of your head from the eyes of other people.

SOMETIMES listening to what those who criticize you say can really help you develop yourself GREATLY as an individual

HOW

Bypass the Criticism - Look beyond the criticism and ask yourself, why did the person said this? what is this person aiming at? afterward

Judge Yourself Rightly n Honestly - The easiest way to ever grow in knowledge and wisdom is to judge yourself rightly or wrongly, Say to yourself am I right? am I wrong? Leave SELF PRIDE out of this, judge Yourself like a third party judging between you and the critic, then you know if the critic are right or wrong.

What if they are RIGHT - If the things which you are criticize for is true after judging yourself then CHANGE for good, because some will criticize you because they Love you and Care for you.

What If they are WRONG - After judging yourself honestly and realize that your critic are wrong then you move with what you Know how to do best remember some will criticize you because they don't like you or are jealous of you.

What if you are not SURE if they are Right or Wrong - Ask someone who is older than you or has Life experiences more than you to Judge you Honestly.

Criticism so times can be so painful especially when you have a good motive and you are criticized for the wrong reasons
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When you are criticized for a good reason and you KNOW but self pride won't let you change then you get angry and start defending yourself.

Don't turn a deaf ear to criticism they might point out to you those things you are ignorantly doing that are wrong, Remember nobody is perfect.

Believe it or not criticism are facts of Life, you either let it work for you or against you. You Choose.

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