lilmax:
lol

time for unmarried women to give married women advice

so what it is now is

submit= no career
don't submit = career

where are these dumb women coming from?

ibkayee:
It’s scenario dependant

For example:

Since the whole idea of submitting to your husband is that he has the final say, if he doesn’t want her to take a specific job or have a career at all then she can’t essentially

So in this particular case, it isn’t possible

Acidosis:


Absolutely. If he doesn't want her to take a job in a brothel or strip club, then she can't essentially.

ibkayee:

I know this was supposed to be an edgy retort but jokes aside, you haven’t heard of cases where the husband doesn’t want the wife to work?

ibkayee:

I know this was supposed to be an edgy retort but jokes aside, you haven’t heard of cases where the husband doesn’t want the wife to work?

Mellowbandw:
Is it possible for a wife that submits to her husband to have a successful career?

Acidosis:


Someone posted this earlier "submissiveness doesn't mean a man having his way over his wife". Nothing is wrong in having certain prejudices about about situations, job, in-laws, place of worship, etc. It is not gender specific.

People should focus on marrying sane partners. A man can allow you to work 24/7 so he can merry in peace and tour the world with his side chicks, not necessarily because he wants the best for you. Some want you to work so you pay most of the bills.

Marrying sane and loving/lovable partners should be our focus. Submissiveness, and the rest are extremely natural when love prevails.

bukatyne:


Someone's husband I know refused her getting a better paying job so she doesn't earn more than him.

Same woman is responsible for most things at home.

Acidosis:


Someone posted this earlier "submissiveness doesn't mean a man having his way over his wife". Nothing is wrong in having certain prejudices about about situations, job, in-laws, place of worship, etc. It is not gender specific.

People should focus on marrying sane partners. A man can allow you to work 24/7 so he can merry in peace and tour the world with his side chicks, not necessarily because he wants the best for you. Some want you to work so you pay most of the bills.

Marrying sane and loving/lovable partners should be our focus. Submissiveness, and the rest are extremely natural when love prevails.

Btw, the decision to work or not should be talked about before marriage.

Mellowbandw:
Is it possible for a wife that submits to her husband to have a successful career?

ibkayee:

Imagine having to tone down your ambition and career progression because of an insecure husband lol. This is the type of scenario where submitting can get in the way of your career as a woman

Acidosis:


Someone posted this earlier "submissiveness doesn't mean a man having his way over his wife". Nothing is wrong in having certain prejudices about about situations, job, in-laws, place of worship, etc. It is not gender specific.

People should focus on marrying sane partners. A man can allow you to work 24/7 so he can merry in peace and tour the world with his side chicks, not necessarily because he wants the best for you. Some want you to work so you pay most of the bills.

Marrying sane and loving/lovable partners should be our focus. Submissiveness, and the rest are extremely natural when love prevails.

Btw, the decision to work or not should be talked about before marriage.

LordKO:
Yes. In fact, the most successful women I know are those who are submissive to their husbands - sane husbands. Submissiveness is neither a success inhibition nor a disease. Behind any family you see where the couple has peace of mind mutually, there's a man who loves his wife and a wife who's submissive to her husband.

And every sane man knows that the last person to take for granted is a submissive woman, because when pushed to the wall she can mar the mightiest of men. Someone like Jeff Bezos is lucky he came out less-scattered after taken his ex-submissive wife for granted.

Meanwhile, the biggest misconception out there is an average Black woman's thought that sane White women aren't submissive to their husbands - they're.

Submissiveness doesn't mean a man having his way over his wife, even when he's wrong in his thought or action - selflessness, which is the soul of submissiveness doesn't mean absence of conscientiousness. A sane man knows the importance of being thoughtful and tactful towards his wife.

lilmax:
lol

time for unmarried women to give married women advice

so what it is now is

submit= no career
don't submit = career

where are these dumb women coming from?

lilmax:
lol

time for unmarried women to give married women advice

so what it is now is

submit= no career
don't submit = career

where are these dumb women coming from?

Goodnewsbearer:


the type of women we have these days only God can help us, i tell you.

Mellowbandw:
Is it possible for a wife that submits to her husband to have a successful career?

Miarose:
U are an idealist, I worry for you cos human nature is brutal. Unfortunately , people are not always ALL we think they are. Humans are a sum of all parts. As a partner, do you know all their parts before marriage, heck, do they even know all their parts?
If the implementation of the agreement is postponed indefinitely, what can you do?

Before marriage, all there is is promises and vows. You better pray your spouse has high doses of integrity and selflessness, else, those words all come to nothing.

ibkayee:

I know this was supposed to be an edgy retort but jokes aside, you haven’t heard of cases where the husband doesn’t want the wife to work?

bukatyne:

This one I agree with you so.......
Marrying sane partners is key.

ibkayee:

Imagine having to tone down your ambition and career progression because of an insecure husband lol. This is the type of scenario where submitting can get in the way of your career as a woman

ibkayee:

Ideal situations where the partner is ‘sane’ are great but this often isn’t the case.

Bukatyne just mentioned a situation where someone’s husband didn’t want her to get a better paying job than him, these are the types of situations I’m talking about

nwanneni:
ibkayee listen wella.
Out here guys that tell their wives not to work are odogwus
In other words you will become oriaku
Chopping his money
No worry when I make that kind bread I go put you on

Miarose:
U are an idealist, I worry for you cos human nature is brutal. Unfortunately , people are not always ALL we think they are. Humans are a sum of all parts. As a partner, do you know all their parts before marriage, heck, do they even know all their parts?
If the implementation of the agreement is postponed indefinitely, what can you do?

Before marriage, all there is is promises and vows. You better pray your spouse has high doses of integrity and selflessness, else, those words all come to nothing.