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Re: Being The Odd One In A Sex-infested Society by MrMou: 8:33am On Jun 16, 2019
The non-virgin ladies are waiting in their hundreds to like & share any "virginity doesn't matter" comment! grin
Men, you're hereby advised again to marry only virgins & quit forming woke or liberal. With a virgin, you'll be sure of the mileage of your wife's puna & will definitely be avoiding Okafor's law happening to her or unnecessary unconscious or conscious comparison of your sexual prowess and those of her ex-knackers!
Re: Being The Odd One In A Sex-infested Society by jamace(m): 8:37am On Jun 16, 2019
Starting sexing early weakens later sex life. Today, many youths have exhausted their libido before marriage hence lack of sexual satisfaction during marriage, leading to cold sex life and ultimately divorce.

Conserve your sex energy for your wife/husband biko. Nobody wants to live with a log of wood in marriage.

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Re: Being The Odd One In A Sex-infested Society by Hshd364: 8:40am On Jun 16, 2019
Prove below

Re: Being The Odd One In A Sex-infested Society by immaculate1234(m): 8:41am On Jun 16, 2019
For me I like when a girl is intelligent, street-wise, knowing what to do and know how to do it, a good listener, respectful, caring, outgoing.virgin or non virgin

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Re: Being The Odd One In A Sex-infested Society by Eroms4life17(m): 8:42am On Jun 16, 2019
Why are girls avoiding this topic like a plague? Is it because their kpekus is cheaper than groundnut? grin

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Re: Being The Odd One In A Sex-infested Society by cyrilamx(m): 8:46am On Jun 16, 2019
Drshobz:
virginity doesn't determine stability in marriage.
virginity doesn't determine direct entrance to heaven .
virginity doesn't determine how successful one can become .
virginity doesn't determine excellent grade.
men like me are not interested in ur virginity status,
but rather we are interested in what you can offer apart from your private part,
op live ur life the way that suit you
and let others live theirs.


If you are a christian and wrote all these above, are you insinuating that the Omniscient God is unwise to have legislated against immorality and told us that our bodies re the temple of the Holy Spirit? That pre-and extra-marital sex are grievous sin? Well you can be excused if you are not Christian.

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Re: Being The Odd One In A Sex-infested Society by wonder233: 9:00am On Jun 16, 2019
He gave cogent reasons, like not having to worry about HIV Aids, unwanted pregnancy, etc. Surely you can't fault that?
Drshobz:
virginity doesn't determine stability in marriage.
virginity doesn't determine direct entrance to heaven .
virginity doesn't determine how successful one can become .
virginity doesn't determine excellent grade.
men like me are not interested in ur virginity status,
but rather we are interested in what you can offer apart from your private part,
op live ur life the way that suit you
and let others live theirs.


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Re: Being The Odd One In A Sex-infested Society by Draught: 9:01am On Jun 16, 2019
That's your own cup of tea, me am having sex with my intending before marriage.. Every man to his own tent and philosophy!
Re: Being The Odd One In A Sex-infested Society by safarigirl(f): 9:02am On Jun 16, 2019
Drshobz:
virginity doesn't determine stability in marriage.
virginity doesn't determine direct entrance to heaven .
virginity doesn't determine how successful one can become .
virginity doesn't determine excellent grade.
men like me are not interested in ur virginity status,
but rather we are interested in what you can offer apart from your private part,
op live ur life the way that suit you
and let others live theirs.



At least, you have peace of mind. You won't have to worry that one vagabond will tell your business to the world, you won't have to count any abortions, you don't have to worry about Postinor 2, when your period doesn't come early as a lady, you won't have to sit down and start counting the last time you had sex, your heart won't skip a beat when you see your ex at a party with your husband, you won't have to worry about some dude soliciting you because he heard your story.

I think I enjoy my peace of mind. Being loose will not guarantee a long lasting marriage either, divorce rates are higher today than they were fifty years ago, even though the number of sexually active people outside wedlock has tripled since then

What does that tell you?

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Re: Being The Odd One In A Sex-infested Society by obowunmi(m): 9:06am On Jun 16, 2019
The issue is DELAY.

Finding a good person in the midst of the rot can be hard and will cause DELAY.


God is not going to come down from heaven so you choose someone here on earth if you really want to be married or you marry whoever you come across.
Re: Being The Odd One In A Sex-infested Society by Valleys(m): 9:14am On Jun 16, 2019
MyVILLAGEpeople:
undecided angry

All these religious folks sef. Nothing wrong with phucking before marriage.
Point of correction, I am still a virgin in my late 20s and it has no religious connotations. I don't even know the last time I went to church. But I believe in God

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Re: Being The Odd One In A Sex-infested Society by NextBuhari: 9:20am On Jun 16, 2019
Neither the urge for sex nor sex itself are sins. It's a natural and innate instinct. Why don't we condemn the urge for food or sleep,etc? It's all about how humans and society have chosen to construe it. For example, what makes it right to touch one's elbow, knees, but wrong to touch one's br*asts or a*s? These interpretations flow from the canality of the mind of the interpreter.

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Re: Being The Odd One In A Sex-infested Society by homesteady(m): 9:20am On Jun 16, 2019
Blehhh!!!
Re: Being The Odd One In A Sex-infested Society by sKeetz(m): 9:21am On Jun 16, 2019
wonder233:
He gave cogent reasons, like not having to worry about HIV Aids, unwanted pregnancy, etc. Surely you can't fault that?

Is sex the only way to contact hiv aids?

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Re: Being The Odd One In A Sex-infested Society by jaxxy(m): 9:23am On Jun 16, 2019
There are many issues besides sex in the country bt I get ur point. What about greed and wickedness are those not serious issues.

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Re: Being The Odd One In A Sex-infested Society by duality(m): 9:25am On Jun 16, 2019
Drshobz:
virginity doesn't determine stability in marriage.
virginity doesn't determine direct entrance to heaven .
virginity doesn't determine how successful one can become .
virginity doesn't determine excellent grade.
men like me are not interested in ur virginity status,
but rather we are interested in what you can offer apart from your private part,
op live ur life the way that suit you
and let others live theirs.



Obedience to God can determine all the good things you mentioned and more

Let's obey God.

ednut1:
Why is this guy obsessed with sex. Staying away from sex no mean say u go enter heaven

Obedience to God will make you enter heaven.

Let's be sexually pure.

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Re: Being The Odd One In A Sex-infested Society by MyVILLAGEpeople(m): 9:27am On Jun 16, 2019
Valleys:

Point of correction, I am still a virgin in my late 20s and it has no religious connotations. I don't even know the last time I went to church. But I believe in God

like seriously
Late 20s and still a virgin??

Am surprised ooo

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Re: Being The Odd One In A Sex-infested Society by lionesskadosh(f): 9:38am On Jun 16, 2019
God bless you OP
Fornication destroys one easily
The Scripture explains in details.
No one is a saint is the common language, but I tell you no matter how much you've dwelled in immorality, u can still find your way back. You shall know the truth and the truth shall set you free and you shall be free indeed. You have known the truth set yourself free by God's grace.

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Re: Being The Odd One In A Sex-infested Society by orisa37: 9:44am On Jun 16, 2019
MrPresident1:
Orisa37 have you seen this thread? grin
..



I can't remember but it is not uncommon situation. It is common in Dormentary Societies-Boarding Schools, Hostels, Dens, Hotels, Special Prison setups, Gangsters, Hooligans, Herdsmen, Kidnappers and Terrorists hide-outs.

And when you are caught in one of these, remember that "Fools gather and rush where Angels care to thread.

Remember and sing Psalm 10:

Think that God's Anointing may be on you. And you are not going to carelessly squander the Anointing just like that?

Just feel, think and reason before you act, interact and move.

The Lord Himself watches The Ways of The Righteous and the ways of The Selfish shall perish.

Surely, Goodness and Mercy shall follow us everywhere and all the days of our Life and we shall live in the House of The Lord forever.

Happy Sunday !!!
Re: Being The Odd One In A Sex-infested Society by AshipaEk0: 9:49am On Jun 16, 2019
Sanctimonious Assholes

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Re: Being The Odd One In A Sex-infested Society by churchee: 9:53am On Jun 16, 2019
There are ways that seem good to man but the end leads to destruction.

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Re: Being The Odd One In A Sex-infested Society by orisa37: 10:02am On Jun 16, 2019
obowunmi:
The issue is DELAY.

Finding a good person in the midst of the rot can be hard and will cause DELAY.


God is not going to come down from heaven so you choose someone here on earth if you really want to be married or you marry whoever you come across.
.


Have you heard that "Moniker-obowumi"? Please let us pray IJN AMEN.
Re: Being The Odd One In A Sex-infested Society by orisa37: 10:08am On Jun 16, 2019
Valleys:

Point of correction, I am still a virgin in my late 20s and it has no religious connotations. I don't even know the last time I went to church. But I believe in God
.


Just watch Lizards coil to have sex and you will answer obowunmi.
Re: Being The Odd One In A Sex-infested Society by obowunmi(m): 10:11am On Jun 16, 2019
orisa37:
.


Just watch Lizards coil to have sex and you will answer obowunmi.

Wetin concern me for this matter ?
Re: Being The Odd One In A Sex-infested Society by Aaronsrod: 10:12am On Jun 16, 2019
Valleys:

Point of correction, I am still a virgin in my late 20s and it has no religious connotations. I don't even know the last time I went to church. But I believe in God

I also am a man in his early 40s.

I have conquered the temptations of Jezebel!

I am a virgin and will remain so until I find a woman who is also a true Christian virgin like my mother.

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Re: Being The Odd One In A Sex-infested Society by orisa37: 10:14am On Jun 16, 2019
NextBuhari:
Neither the urge for sex nor sex itself are sins. It's a natural and innate instinct. Why don't we condemn the urge for food or sleep,etc? It's all about how humans and society have chosen to construe it. For example, what makes it right to touch one's elbow, knees, but wrong to touch one's br*asts or a*s? These interpretations flow from the canality of the mind of the interpreter.
.


O ti idondo is otondo and is Akeredolu.
Re: Being The Odd One In A Sex-infested Society by Durhleepee(f): 10:16am On Jun 16, 2019
Drshobz:
virginity doesn't determine stability in marriage.
virginity doesn't determine direct entrance to heaven .
virginity doesn't determine how successful one can become .
virginity doesn't determine excellent grade.
men like me are not interested in ur virginity status,
but rather we are interested in what you can offer apart from your private part,
op live ur life the way that suit you
and let others live theirs.


So to you and men like you virginity means nothing? Have you considered how less stuff like unwanted pregnancy leading to abortion which in some cases causes death of the lady, sexually transmitted diseases, demoralization of the female and male gender would reduce, how the average girl wouldn't see sex as a retribrution for money? Are you saying one can't be smart and be a virgin? Careless and I daresay tactless statements like yours spur this people on to regard virginity as insignificant whereas it is of great value.

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Re: Being The Odd One In A Sex-infested Society by Aaronsrod: 10:17am On Jun 16, 2019
sKeetz:


Is sex the only way to contact hiv aids?

No.

Also through demonic covenants with the impure.

Fear all women.
Re: Being The Odd One In A Sex-infested Society by orisa37: 10:19am On Jun 16, 2019
jaxxy:
There are many issues besides sex in the country bt I get ur point. What about greed and wickedness are those not serious issues.
.



Goodluck is clear. He groups them all as Corruption.
Re: Being The Odd One In A Sex-infested Society by Biglittlelois(f): 10:21am On Jun 16, 2019
Interesting15:


by Sunday Akanni Moshood

It is not easy to stand for sexual purity in this world of ours, but it is always beneficial. Of course, as adults, Sexual Purity is not automatic; there are various things attached to it, including prices to pay to remain pure. One of the prices to pay is to be ready to stand alone and be the odd one amongst the crowd.

Currently, a lot of people out there don't embrace the idea of sexual purity because they are still slaves to their lusts and untamed desires. They want pleasures. They want fun. They want immediate gratification. And so, you will be treated as an abnormal person if you decide not to play the game with them. They will call you all manner of name, they will mock you scornfully, they will laugh at you quite alright..... But don't worry... He who laughs last laughs best...

The good thing is that when you embrace Sexual Purity, you are a person of dignity and honour, and you have virtues which the innermost of immoral people constantly craves for. In case you don't know, many of those who mock you for your stance on Purity are simply envious of you. When they see you, their conscience punishes them with guilt. Silently, when they see you, shame itself queries them with harsh words like "If this person can successfully discipline himself/herself to remain chaste, it means you are simply an undisciplined and unprincipled person for constantly yielding to your urges and desires, like animals"

Really, it is guilt of this sort that prompt many of them into retaliating with mockery... Their aim is to persuade you to become immoral like them, so they can justify their sinful actions with words like "after all, everyone does it"

They will mock you definitely, and they will laugh at you... But don't worry... He who laughs last laughs best


When they suffer from the pains of Sexually Tranmitted Diseases like Staphilococus, gonorrhea, syphillis, vaginal infections, HIV, AIDS e.t.c, or when the troubles of unplanned pregnancy calls, you will be right here hale and healthy, at peace with your body, your conscience and your Creator.

You will laugh last when you see them arching from heartaches of broken relationship (as losing a relationship becomes more painful if one is spent in the process), or living in regrets following an abortion.

Continue walking in Sexual Purity. You will find happiness and peace and calmness at the end on your wedding night. Above everything, you are at peace with God, and you keep making Him happy by choosing to honour Him with your body. He honors those who love Him and stand out for Him

One with God is a majority!

“All my friends are all doing it” is not an excuse before Him. The fact that everyone is doing it in your environment doesn't mean you should join the bandwagon. Dare to be different and Stand for holiness


All of us will separately stand before Jesus Christ to give an answer for ourselves. Romans 14:10, 12

Receive strength to keep honouring God to the end in JESUS Name.

https://m.facebook.com/story.php?story_fbid=2215789075199012&id=100003038222908&ref=bookmarks


God give me strength, amen, God bless.

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Re: Being The Odd One In A Sex-infested Society by Daviddson(m): 10:23am On Jun 16, 2019
Interesting15:


by Sunday Akanni Moshood

It is not easy to stand for sexual purity in this world of ours, but it is always beneficial. Of course, as adults, Sexual Purity is not automatic; there are various things attached to it, including prices to pay to remain pure. One of the prices to pay is to be ready to stand alone and be the odd one amongst the crowd.

Currently, a lot of people out there don't embrace the idea of sexual purity because they are still slaves to their lusts and untamed desires. They want pleasures. They want fun. They want immediate gratification. And so, you will be treated as an abnormal person if you decide not to play the game with them. They will call you all manner of name, they will mock you scornfully, they will laugh at you quite alright..... But don't worry... He who laughs last laughs best...

The good thing is that when you embrace Sexual Purity, you are a person of dignity and honour, and you have virtues which the innermost of immoral people constantly craves for. In case you don't know, many of those who mock you for your stance on Purity are simply envious of you. When they see you, their conscience punishes them with guilt. Silently, when they see you, shame itself queries them with harsh words like "If this person can successfully discipline himself/herself to remain chaste, it means you are simply an undisciplined and unprincipled person for constantly yielding to your urges and desires, like animals"

Really, it is guilt of this sort that prompt many of them into retaliating with mockery... Their aim is to persuade you to become immoral like them, so they can justify their sinful actions with words like "after all, everyone does it"

They will mock you definitely, and they will laugh at you... But don't worry... He who laughs last laughs best


When they suffer from the pains of Sexually Tranmitted Diseases like Staphilococus, gonorrhea, syphillis, vaginal infections, HIV, AIDS e.t.c, or when the troubles of unplanned pregnancy calls, you will be right here hale and healthy, at peace with your body, your conscience and your Creator.

You will laugh last when you see them arching from heartaches of broken relationship (as losing a relationship becomes more painful if one is spent in the process), or living in regrets following an abortion.

Continue walking in Sexual Purity. You will find happiness and peace and calmness at the end on your wedding night. Above everything, you are at peace with God, and you keep making Him happy by choosing to honour Him with your body. He honors those who love Him and stand out for Him

One with God is a majority!

“All my friends are all doing it” is not an excuse before Him. The fact that everyone is doing it in your environment doesn't mean you should join the bandwagon. Dare to be different and Stand for holiness


All of us will separately stand before Jesus Christ to give an answer for ourselves. Romans 14:10, 12

Receive strength to keep honouring God to the end in JESUS Name.

https://m.facebook.com/story.php?story_fbid=2215789075199012&id=100003038222908&ref=bookmarks
Well said; abstinence before marriage is not old-fashioned. But I'm surprised why almost all your threads are about sex. You should try to bring other character and behavior topics too.
Re: Being The Odd One In A Sex-infested Society by BalogunIdowu(m): 10:45am On Jun 16, 2019
You'll see people commenting nonsense because of why the society had turned using.

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