Do not underestimate the power of naturalism!
Sometime, we seemingly fall in love with aesthetics of life, perhaps, gratifying our egos and hedonistic retributions!
Often time, the underestimation of the power of naturalism, seemingly culminates into man's vulnerability in putting blames to our either societal norms or the otherwise.


" Pastor Biodun Fatoyinbo raped me..."

I wouldn't blame the supposed religious leader, that, no man is above the imperfections of life, outstandingly, LOVE AND SEX, even as the Biblical David plotted and killed Uriah, just to devour Bathsheba, Uriah's wife
Robert Sternberg developed a theory; THE TRIANGULAR THEORY OF LOVE.
In this theory, he examined concepts, called; the three components of love, which are: an intimacy component, a passion component, and a decision/commitment component.


Sternberg says that intimacy refers to "feelings of closeness, connectedness, and bondedness in loving relationships", passion refers to "the drives that lead to romance, physical attraction, sexual consummation, and related phenomena in loving relationships" and decision/commitment means different things in the short and long term.

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