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|Help!!! My girlfriend is prone to masturbation by BIGGIE121(m): 6:17pm On Jul 11|
Hello nairalanders, there is this girl i met in shop rite few months ago she was the kind of girl that has evrytin i would want in a woman, as a sharp guy that dont admire women silently i aproached her for her digits . she was reluctant in giving me her number initially ( you guys know the general mentality of girls when guys ask for their digits) after all the "you are a stranger i cant give you my number talks" she enventually gave me her digits and that was how it all started.
Soon enough we started getting familiarised with each other and after all the wooing and persuation she agreed to date me few weeks later.
Fast forward to the third time she came to my house which was yesterday., she had been saying no to my sexual advances all this while so i really went far with her yesterday i almost had sex with her bu ,what happened made me not to, So after all the lovey duvey play we started romancing,the romance was an intense one so it got to my head and i inserted my fingers into her pp and that was where the whole saga started .
She started using my hand to rub her g spot, when she felt my hand was not doing the job she wanted it to do, she removed my hand nd switched it with hers (maybe she forgot i was stiil there with her). she closed her eyes nd started rubbing her center of gravity vigorously i was suprised by her outlandish behaviour so i backed out and was watching her . 1 mins later or so her body stiffened and she started shaking like an epiletic patient when having seizures, i was aghasted to bone (by that time my jt was already flaccid) so i started shaking her with all the strength i had that was she opened her eyes, she was really ashamed of herself so she couldnt look at my face.
Few minutes later when evertin was settled i did not know the right question to ask her, so i asked what the problem was, so she told me that she has been an addict to masturbation for the past 4 years now and that she does twice or thrice a week, (i was shock to the brim by her ourburst) i asked her whether anybody apart from me knew this ,she said not even her room mates or anyone knows that she masturbates . Her outburst was difficult for me to assimilate ,so i had to tell my friend he adviced me to stay away from her cause she gonna be a bad energy to me.
This issue has been making me feel unsettled since yesterday the experience was a new one to me so i had share it here to solicit for your opinions and ideas on how to help her stop masturbation.
I wanted her as a fling before but now i am getting attachted to her pls i am in dire need of advice on what to do with her.....
PS: she is a 300 level student of a prestigious university in nigeria and she is 21 years old
|Re: Help!!! My girlfriend is prone to masturbation by Harlem2(m): 6:19pm On Jul 11|
So girls also masturbate
Op can lie eh
|Re: Help!!! My girlfriend is prone to masturbation by SageMK: 6:25pm On Jul 11|
For her to quit or not to, it's not your decision.
If you can't help her achieve orgasm, step aside.
|Re: Help!!! My girlfriend is prone to masturbation by inforesource: 6:40pm On Jul 11|
Don't tell me you are serious about this question.
@ OP, it is simple, she should stop watching the dirty movies and pornography on her phones or laptop or any other means. There is no cure other than this. Also remember that many ladies do this, especially when a guy don't meet up with the way they really want the "Touch".
|Re: Help!!! My girlfriend is prone to masturbation by Deandean: 7:24pm On Jul 11|
How old re u my friend. ...if my suspicions re right....i may just quit nairaland 4 u.
|Re: Help!!! My girlfriend is prone to masturbation by Michelle55(f): 7:39pm On Jul 11|
You weren't doing it right to she felt the need to do the do by herself to save stress.. It's her personal decision to either stop or continue. TBH, what's the need for a d1ck if the owner of the tool can't properly make use of it
If you want to help her, have a deep communication with her during the act, don't act like you know everything about her body system
|Re: Help!!! My girlfriend is prone to masturbation by franchasng(m): 7:52pm On Jul 11|
|Re: Help!!! My girlfriend is prone to masturbation by okoroemeka(m): 8:45pm On Jul 11|
Harlem2:I think women masturbate more than men
|Re: Help!!! My girlfriend is prone to masturbation by Chanchit: 3:18am On Jul 12|
What's there to help, when her eye open, you sef shook you machine to release your own. Next!
|Re: Help!!! My girlfriend is prone to masturbation by martyns303(m): 6:07am On Jul 12|
A lot of women don't orgasm via penetration, you need to learn what works for her. U have to be matured about this.
|Re: Help!!! My girlfriend is prone to masturbation by femi4: 6:44am On Jul 12|
Harlem2:When they use 30 mins in the bathroom .....what do you think they do there?
|Re: Help!!! My girlfriend is prone to masturbation by domino4211(m): 7:53am On Jul 12|
What my grandma would've done : 'rub dry pepper in it,that should teach her a lesson of her life.'...
Follow this advice.
Old people are wise.
|Re: Help!!! My girlfriend is prone to masturbation by Kehl(m): 8:28am On Jul 12|
First, I really don't see a big deal here.. If you think ladies don't masturbate, then you are on a long thing. The fact they're not open about this things the way we guys are, dosen't make it new. You'll be shocked to find out the number of ladies who masturbate are equal or almost equal to guys.
Secondly I think you should up your sex game... Sex isn't all about penetration.. Learn to use ur fingers, mouth, leg, nose infact every part of u to please your lady (just kidding... Stick to hands and mouth ). I guess if u did your job properly, there wouldn't be a need for her to masturbate in your presence.
Thirdly I think it's too shallow to judge a potential great relationship just because your partner masturbates
Lastly, if you are so worried about her quitting masturbation, then you should be equally worried about you quitting pre marital sex too. There isn't any difference you know.
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|Re: Help!!! My girlfriend is prone to masturbation by handsomebanana(m): 8:29am On Jul 12|
I'm yet to see the problem.
Looks like another guy making a problem out of a non issue
|Re: Help!!! My girlfriend is prone to masturbation by EditLord(m): 8:51am On Jul 12|
If you really love her, then help her overcome her addiction. I was addicted to masturbation to the extent that having sex with a woman is not pleasurable like using my hand. I once masturbated in the presence of a lady cos I wasn't feeling her, yes it was that bad.
Good news is, today makes it the 44th day I last wanked. I've never felt better with myself than I am now. I'm even more confident with women than before and even in the oza room.
I use to think quitting masturbation is impossible cos I've tried many times and failed, but I stumbled across a forum where I discovered that porn and masturbation are the number one cause of erectile dysfunction, a problem I've been battling with. I can't say the same for ladies though but that revelation gave me the determination to quit for life.
Meanwhile, please I need someone to help me with business plan on photography. I need to submit it urgently. God bless you
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|Re: Help!!! My girlfriend is prone to masturbation by AwkaetitiBabe(f): 9:12am On Jul 12|
Yes so what's the problem here? She's still a beginner. Some people wey done graduate from the school
|Re: Help!!! My girlfriend is prone to masturbation by AwkaetitiBabe(f): 9:14am On Jul 12|
|Re: Help!!! My girlfriend is prone to masturbation by alphaNomega: 9:19am On Jul 12|
PM her digits
|Re: Help!!! My girlfriend is prone to masturbation by unadeymadkwa: 9:31am On Jul 12|
True talk.. lots of inexperienced guys here. Instead of the dude to use that opportunity to know his girls pleasure spots. He is here yarning opata.
|Re: Help!!! My girlfriend is prone to masturbation by badadvice(f): 9:36am On Jul 12|
Na so secret take dey expose and spread when you tell only one person.
She told you her secret (though not pleasant), something she hasnt told anyone else not even her roommates or parents and you immediately tell your friend the next day.
Two days after that, you tell the whole world through a faceless social media platform, nairaland.
Anyway, I'll advise you dont leave her.
Instead, do a collabo with her and help her masturbate and reach orgasm more often so she'll get used to you rather than she going solo.
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|Re: Help!!! My girlfriend is prone to masturbation by issylarry(m): 9:45am On Jul 12|
BIGGIE121:That is not a problem na..its means,u gats work to do ..if u love her.u will help her conquer it..what she need is beta dickson ...she don show u d spot wey she needs..na make u utiise am remain..it shudnt b a problem...u can help her conquer it with time she will be attracted to u more
|Re: Help!!! My girlfriend is prone to masturbation by Ilekokonit: 9:46am On Jul 12|
Masturbation is a normal action in men and women and she was just being her normal self without deceit. The only issue may be if she uses a vibrator which gradually wears down the vaginal walls and may lead to a nasty odour down below. Apart from that, I don't think you should judge her for doing what comes to humans naturally.
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|Re: Help!!! My girlfriend is prone to masturbation by damtan(m): 9:47am On Jul 12|
AwkaetitiBabe:She self na fresh graduate after 4 years of masturbating
|Re: Help!!! My girlfriend is prone to masturbation by izaray(f): 11:30am On Jul 12|
When next u guys wanna do the do, help her reach orgasm more often that way she will get used to you than masturbating.
Secondly if you feel she's clean down there give her head, that thing the burst ladies head scatter, i swear
|Re: Help!!! My girlfriend is prone to masturbation by obynno7(m): 11:36am On Jul 12|
is nothing to worry about most ladies are guilty of that just go for HIV test with her after DAT u gonna be sexing her with flesh to flesh because the intense will supperced her own
|Re: Help!!! My girlfriend is prone to masturbation by Richy4(m): 1:08pm On Jul 12|
I don't even see the problem... Maybe someone below might see it..
|Re: Help!!! My girlfriend is prone to masturbation by Nche95(m): 1:45pm On Jul 12|
|Re: Help!!! My girlfriend is prone to masturbation by frozen70(f): 1:48pm On Jul 12|
I don't know why you are scared
Women too do have urge and there kind of urge comes in a crazy way if it wants to come
You triggered her and you weren't ready to finish the job you innitiated so she has to help herself out
Besides, she must have formed the habit of masturbating because she doesn't want to go about bleeping up and down any how
If you want to keep her as a friend, get close to her and encourage her to stop the act that you will be there for her
With time, you will get to know if she has a high libido or not
She is at the pick age of sex urge, don't blame her.
|Re: Help!!! My girlfriend is prone to masturbation by Deepfeel(m): 2:16pm On Jul 12|
It's not new na my virgin female friend from Edo I met on Facebook masturbates twice a day she asked me to send my d*ck pic to her to help her masturbate, she has a pic of my erect d*ck in her phone
Amatarasha you know am a generous giver
|Re: Help!!! My girlfriend is prone to masturbation by Amuocha: 2:28pm On Jul 12|
But where is lalasticlala sef now
Doctors in the house ..pls.advice
'she closed her eyes nd started rubbing her center of gravity vigorously i was suprised by her outlandish behaviour so i backed out and was watching her . 1 mins later or so her body stiffened and she started shaking like an epiletic patient when having seizures, i was aghasted to bone (by that time my jt was already flaccid) so i started shaking her with all the strength i had that was she opened her eyes'
|Re: Help!!! My girlfriend is prone to masturbation by Amatarasha(f): 2:42pm On Jul 12|
Deepfeel:You know virginity is like a scam most times!
I masturbate 2 in a deep situation ....life is 2 tense and deep...
My lepa friend Smokey will always advice me severally .
He will say ,let me just rub only the head on ur outer pxxsy till u ar satisfied , u will like it ...no deep penetrations
But i allowed him once after months of preaching , but he forgot himself ,b4 i said jack" he wanna go damn deep ...
And i gave him ,d push of his life
|Re: Help!!! My girlfriend is prone to masturbation by Deepfeel(m): 2:48pm On Jul 12|
Amatarasha:Hahaha hahaha you should have given him a hand job instead, you didn't even allow him to pour see wickedness
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