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Re: The Disadvantages Of Sending Your Children To Boarding Schools by MacMkboy(m): 9:15am On Jul 15, 2019 |
Mistakes Are A Part Of Growth And Learning. Every Individual Should Have A Record Of Some Mistakes Made. Imho, Boarding Experience Will Allow You Grow Faster In So Many Areas Of Life. I'll Always Choose Boarding Again If Given The Choice. |
Re: The Disadvantages Of Sending Your Children To Boarding Schools by Airtimex(m): 9:16am On Jul 15, 2019 |
Send the child to seminary or convent. You won't regret it |
Re: The Disadvantages Of Sending Your Children To Boarding Schools by toprealman: 9:25am On Jul 15, 2019 |
OP, do you realise university is still part of boarding system? 1 Like |
Re: The Disadvantages Of Sending Your Children To Boarding Schools by frozen70(f): 9:26am On Jul 15, 2019 |
Auduambless: Thats not true of them being stubborn If your ward attends missionary school boarding, he or she will learn how to be independent of themselves It teaches you on how to stand and take a decision without your parents aiding you It gives you the privilege to do things on your own without looking for help You It programs you and gives you timing for everything In the mission schools like Catholic schools, if your child fails, that child must repeat unlike the private boarding homes that doesn't want your child to fail for fear of losing their students But in private boarding school, it's show of class and power where parents display their affluence on their children 1 Like |
Re: The Disadvantages Of Sending Your Children To Boarding Schools by naijapunters(m): 9:28am On Jul 15, 2019 |
People who went to boarding schools are disciplined set of people, you can manage yourself, your business and family |
Re: The Disadvantages Of Sending Your Children To Boarding Schools by Nobody: 9:30am On Jul 15, 2019 |
Boarding school nowadays is nothing but a camp where girls are groomed to be harlots and lesbians while the male becomes ruthless and gangsters of any kind, their colleagues who is from a corrupt family background will just take advantage of them and initiates them into the world of sodomity. 4 Likes |
Re: The Disadvantages Of Sending Your Children To Boarding Schools by djoe21(m): 9:34am On Jul 15, 2019 |
Mrshape: Get your facts right. From your write up, it is quite clear you never went to a boarding school. |
Re: The Disadvantages Of Sending Your Children To Boarding Schools by ikhalyfah(m): 9:37am On Jul 15, 2019 |
Auduambless:See honestly, nowadays, i can't see the wisdom and benefit of sending your child to boarding, what is it that u can't give him at home that a "boarding school" will give?? Boarding sch was for our forefathers and they enjoyed it. Now boarding sch is just full of cruelty, violence, stubbornness, and God forbid,HOMO 5 Likes |
Re: The Disadvantages Of Sending Your Children To Boarding Schools by ikhalyfah(m): 9:39am On Jul 15, 2019 |
djoe21:His facts could be right. Maybe u went to one but i bet some years ago , nowadays,the case is entirely different 3 Likes |
Re: The Disadvantages Of Sending Your Children To Boarding Schools by djoe21(m): 9:41am On Jul 15, 2019 |
If I no send my children go boarding school, wetin I gain? |
Re: The Disadvantages Of Sending Your Children To Boarding Schools by ikhalyfah(m): 9:41am On Jul 15, 2019 |
Y'all don't get it. Many of y'all here attended boarding school many years ago. THE SYSTEM IS ENTIRELY DIFFERENT NOW. In both the private and public schools 5 Likes |
Re: The Disadvantages Of Sending Your Children To Boarding Schools by ikhalyfah(m): 9:42am On Jul 15, 2019 |
djoe21:Ok, but, Make sure u investigate d sch thoroughly |
Re: The Disadvantages Of Sending Your Children To Boarding Schools by MacMkboy(m): 9:43am On Jul 15, 2019 |
Unik3030: 1. I Never Snuck Out With You. 2. Was It Every Student That Committed Those Acts?? I Went To An All Day School First Before Attending A Day/Boarding School. During Friday Sports At The Day School (Owned And Managed By A Deeper Life Pastor), I Occasionally Saw Some 'seniors' Smoking At A Hidden Spot. It Had Nothing To Do With Boarding School, But Rather Bad Parenting Skills. Most Of The Bad Kids (Slay Queens And Cultists) In The Universities, Were Day Students. Yet They Acquired These Bad Traits --Even Under The `Watchful' Eyes Of Their Parents. As One Leaves The Boarding House, A Certain Realization About Life Dawns On Them. This New Realization About Life Guides Them In Both Making And Taking The 'best/right' Decisions Most Times. I attended a boarding school in Nigeria and still turned out good. |
Re: The Disadvantages Of Sending Your Children To Boarding Schools by djoe21(m): 9:46am On Jul 15, 2019 |
ikhalyfah: I believe you can still get very good boarding schools now. |
Re: The Disadvantages Of Sending Your Children To Boarding Schools by djoe21(m): 9:47am On Jul 15, 2019 |
MacMkboy: Thank you. You have indeed spoken well. |
Re: The Disadvantages Of Sending Your Children To Boarding Schools by ikhalyfah(m): 9:47am On Jul 15, 2019 |
djoe21:Of course the good doesn't perish, but they are very few, very very few 1 Like |
Re: The Disadvantages Of Sending Your Children To Boarding Schools by djoe21(m): 9:48am On Jul 15, 2019 |
ikhalyfah: Sure, of course. I prefer Unity Schools. Mix Unity Schools to be precise. |
Re: The Disadvantages Of Sending Your Children To Boarding Schools by Damfostopper(m): 9:48am On Jul 15, 2019 |
None of my child will stay in dormitories nor board in school..... never...... The exposure is too much..... my junior brother who is about entering senior class 1 came back and at his age.... he is something else Boarding house prestige died since 2010.....now it's just a place where ur child can be corrupt 5 Likes |
Re: The Disadvantages Of Sending Your Children To Boarding Schools by djoe21(m): 9:49am On Jul 15, 2019 |
ikhalyfah: I don't think they are very very few. |
Re: The Disadvantages Of Sending Your Children To Boarding Schools by ikhalyfah(m): 9:50am On Jul 15, 2019 |
djoe21:What I'm trying to say is, u can only LUCKILY get them |
Re: The Disadvantages Of Sending Your Children To Boarding Schools by djoe21(m): 9:51am On Jul 15, 2019 |
Damfostopper: It is better for them to be exposed and smart than to be unexposed and dumb. |
Re: The Disadvantages Of Sending Your Children To Boarding Schools by djoe21(m): 9:52am On Jul 15, 2019 |
ikhalyfah: All right, I get your point. |
Re: The Disadvantages Of Sending Your Children To Boarding Schools by Nobody: 9:53am On Jul 15, 2019 |
The problem is with the girl child, you're better off sending her to a day school. Send her to a boarding school and she's very likely to become a lesbian or runs girl, every lesbian I know went to a boarding school, it's not a coincidence. In my previous compound two lesibians lived in one apartment, there was this time they invited there lesibian friends for a week, all sort of noise was coming from their room at night. There was this day these girls had a fight, before we knew it they picked up weapons, Knife, bottle, planks and using all sort of cult slangs. They all went to the same boarding school, the oldest amongs them is 20. I'll never send my girl child to a boarding school! 3 Likes |
Re: The Disadvantages Of Sending Your Children To Boarding Schools by MacMkboy(m): 9:54am On Jul 15, 2019 |
Damfostopper: You Should Also Seize Their Phones, Laptops And Communication Gadgets Cos The Exposure From Those Sources Alone Are Like 1trillion Times Worse Than The Boarding House. Bar Them From Talking To The Neighbourhood Kids And Church Kids Too Cos They Might Be Too Corrupt For Your Innocent Kids. Home School Them And Set Cctv In Every Living Space To Capture Their Every Act. Plant Listening And Recording Devices On Their Clothes And Properties Also. Lame Excuse Imo. |
Re: The Disadvantages Of Sending Your Children To Boarding Schools by Foxie: 9:58am On Jul 15, 2019 |
denjjy:Dear Sir, all these attributes cum traits you mentioned I have them and even more, but I was never boarder. Meanwhile, my younger bro' who was sent to a unity boarding school in SS1 turned out worst, but we thank God for His life... IMHO boarding school (especially in this present dispensation and era) is a big disservice to our kids. 2 Likes |
Re: The Disadvantages Of Sending Your Children To Boarding Schools by arinola2504(f): 10:02am On Jul 15, 2019 |
i wont say boarding school is not good because i went to one myself but boarding schools of these days are way different from the ones we attended way back, i can tell you 85% of lesbianism/gay started from there plus lack of home training and all, you just have to think about it very well and choose a school you're 99% sure it is okay in terms of moral upbringing 1 Like |
Re: The Disadvantages Of Sending Your Children To Boarding Schools by Mrshape: 10:14am On Jul 15, 2019 |
djoe21:But I have boarders from arcross the best schools in Edo state under my care, who is now in the best position to evaluate Note that the best way to evaluate a boarder is to have some in a school that have provision for bothers and day children |
Re: The Disadvantages Of Sending Your Children To Boarding Schools by Foxie: 10:18am On Jul 15, 2019 |
toprealman:At least they're a lot more grown and mature compared to when they're in secondary school... |
Re: The Disadvantages Of Sending Your Children To Boarding Schools by steveslid(m): 10:20am On Jul 15, 2019 |
Homosexual and lesbianism started from boarding schools. Think twice before sending your kids to boarding schools. 1 Like |
Re: The Disadvantages Of Sending Your Children To Boarding Schools by Foxie: 10:20am On Jul 15, 2019 |
naijapunters:Because you've met all the people who were never boarders? That's hasty generalization. |
Re: The Disadvantages Of Sending Your Children To Boarding Schools by KristaPretty(f): 10:24am On Jul 15, 2019 |
I went to a boarding school starting from JSS1 - SS3 at 10years old. I will never send my child to a boarding school because such made me TOO independent, too secretive, too hardened, not caring or minding about certain things, relationships and people and too wise. That stage is where you need to be close to your child and groom him/her. That is a delicate stage where you can impact a lot and monitor them. Talking from experience, It is not advisable. 7 Likes |
Re: The Disadvantages Of Sending Your Children To Boarding Schools by EmmyNorse(m): 10:25am On Jul 15, 2019 |
I my self attended one, in boarding school you either be good or bad, but you must get sense. 1 Like |
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