Flashh:
I have more than enough data to watch that video, but I won't watch.

stanliwise:
You actually made a point and rendered it useless at the same time. even feminists and non-feminist are shaking their heads.
Think properly next time.

Gratefulheart01:


I always say things that many people dont have the capacity to understand. Its not my fault that I think farther.
If I may ask. What rendered it useless?

Chimada or what?

stanliwiser:
Most people who follow chiamanda(including me) knows how strong she supports feminism and some considered it extreme, if you later praised her at the ending of your post. Then it contradicts your initial claim of the negative effect of being a feminist.

Gratefulheart01:


She praises feminism but has a husband and a good home, while the so called fake feminist can't keep a home. The problems is that most people dont know what feminism really is. Feminsim is just saying women are not inferior. It is not a rebel against sanity. Just to correct a view of women as inferior human beings. So, if someone who understands feminism as Chimanda preaches it, its not wrong. That's why her life is sane and very normal unlike the majority of illetrates who misunderstands the term, dem oloshos, slain queens and mannerless single moms who misuse the word and majority of men who think oloshos and single moms are feminists.
That's why I said Chimanda is one of the real feminists I know in my initial post. A real feminist is the best woman a man can ever wish for. A woman who believe in herself, not all these begger oloshos who think its your job to feed their generation and jump from dck to dck.
A real feminists believes in herself, will not give her respected body to the gateman to fxk, will achieve and challenge her husband and so on.

Feminism is one of the words majority of people misunderstand and misuse.

Fgbread:
Yoruba folks be vexing right now... haha!

stanliwiser:
Ok all said and read. Appreciate your effort for a long post.

Now how does Ini Edo fit this picture of a feminist that doesn't want to marry?

Why do you feel woman are majorly their own problem if they are not married?

Is she not living a more peaceful life than some so called married people?

So being married and having children is now a status quo to judge who a true feminists is.

Even chiamanda would fault some of your ideas.
Nevertheless I still understand the point you're driving home, but beacuse people aren't married when due or people who for some reason remain single does not in all it self maje it a hard and fast rule for spotting failed feminists. There are more to it.

culturedboss:

Women for u...Always fake.

Gratefulheart01:


My initial post was that way being aware that the wrong misconception of feminism is one of the defences most rebellious women hide under nowadays or those who end up as single moms for dirty reasons.
Then a woman can live a peaceful life unmarried like u said but it's not very good. We can all live peaceful lives if we run from responsibilities or some sane but demanding lifestyles. You impregnate a girl but wouldn't make her your wife so you don't face all the restrictions or responsibilities of a husband. Although u cater for the kid from a distance but you're free to do whatever you want in peace. Its cool but not ethical. People just walking in and out of marriages like its a boutique; more women embracing single motherhood because they can't respect or be obedient or because they are free in the wrong sense to do whatever they want. They are not hurting me in any way and you can say they live in peace, except that such cannot be ethically sane in a normal society. When it finally becomes totally normal that no one want to endure the responsibility of marriage. Where majority of women end up as single moms and people marry and divorce and remarry as many times as they want. That will never be a sane society.

Anyway, white people will say as long as they are adult and not hurting any one. So I don't have the right to dictate what is right for anyone even if they are wrong. Gay, or lesbian or incest homosexuals or marriage rebellions or divorce maniacs. They are not hurting me in any way and they are at peace with what they do. I'm just only baffled how strange things are gradually becoming normal nowadays.

stanliwiser:
I understand everything you're beating at correctly.
Incase you didn't see my last post:

Here are a list of failed feminists

Instagram slayqueen,
feminist-strippers,
Doctors who do enchantment surgery.
Magazines owner and music producer.
Bleach cream-makers

The above do feminism for nothing else but business.

Fgbread:
Yoruba folks be vexing right now... haha!