Fountainofyouth:
Firstly, thank you sir for rendering great help to the little girl, may the good Lord continue to bless you abundantly for this, amen.
Some people are not meant to be parents at all.

Laird:
Op thank You for your kind heart.
Please get a letter of consent form the father Oooo. Please for.legal.purposes.
Thank You

Resurgent2016:
@montanaguy, I pray you reap blessings even as you have sought to bless a child whom many have deserted.

However, please have the child's guardian (can't call the imp a father) sign a document assigning custody to you so your good deed is not misinterpreted in the event of any unforeseen circumstances. If he refuses to sign, let him know you may not be able to keep the child under your roof and you'll have him reported to the police if she is neglected again.

Tallesty1:
Don't take the daughter back to his father and don't blast the father at work. In life, do things to satisfy your conscience not to please people.

Since you saw her and become troubled by what she's going through at her age, and the human side of you convinced you to take her in which you have done, it's just right that you continue what you've started because that's what will make you happy.

Assuming she doesn't have a dad, would you have you refused to take her?

Now ask yourself, the life she was living when you first saw her, is it like someone who has a father? Why did her old man suddenly become so important.

There's something Don Jazzy said recently, do you and leave the rest.

You want to help so help, if her Dad doesn't appreciate, I am sure she will and even if she doesn't, deep down you will be happy because helping her is something you want to do.

madridguy:
Firstly, May God bless you, your wife and accept your good deed as act of worship.

You don't need this, just take the girl to see him and if possible get the contact of the mother so the girl can be seeing her mother. I said no, that I will make out time to see him at his place of work and blast him.

montanaguy:
In my neighborhood where I live. There is this 10yrs old girl I always see hawking yams and tomaoes during the school hours. I made inquiry to know who is the father of the girl and why the girl is not going to school because I newly parked in. My neighbours hinted me that, the father of the little girl married another woman and the woman forbids the little girl from living with them. I was told her father and the first wife parted ways. They have two girls. While the wife left with the elder one, the father went with the younger one. I was further told that the girl has been staying with his father going to school. That the father was taking good care of the girl until he found the second wife he is marrying now. The woman in question has four kids. I don't know if the husband is late or they separated. After marrying the woman, he took her daughter along to live with the woman in her house built by her. These did not go down well with the woman as she started maltreating the poor girl accusing her of witchcraft. Her father took her back to where he previously rented a one room self con and was living with his her. One thing led to another, the girl stopped going to school. The father visits her once in a while to drop some money for her for her feeding. One of their neighbors, a woman took advantage of her situation and turned her to a slave because she gives her foods. While her children are going to school, the girl is helping her to hawk yams and tomatoes. Meanwhile, the man's rent had expired and he is left with no other option than to send her daughter back to the village. The poor girl has insisted that she does not want to go back to the village, that she wants go to school. After hearing all these, I approached my wife to bring the girl to me let me interview her. I was amazed that the girl speaks English fluently and very sharp. I asked her if she would like to live with us and continue her school, she did not hesitate to say yes. I then met one of my neighbors who has her father's no and collected the no. I called the man to come that I have something to discuss with him. When he came, we introduced ourselves. I discovered that we work in same company but different department. I queried him on why he allow a small girl like this to be on the streets hawking while others are in school? The man started talking trash how he got married to his first wife, how she left him with their first daughter to how he married the second one whom he accused of casting a spell on him to marry her bla bla. To cut the story short, I told the man that I would like her daughter to be staying us so that She will continue her school next term. He accepted and
we fixed a date to discuss further. I told him that I would like the girl to stay with us for three days so I can access her. He agreed. When I came back from work, my wife told me that the woman giving her yams to hawk came to our house fomenting troubles, calling the girl all sorts or names. I said to my wife, that is not a case, the woman is only pained that she won't see the girl again to be used for hawking, she should start using her daughters instead. Since I would be parking to another town, I told the father that its good considering that the little time she was left unattended to, she might have mixed up with bad friends. This is going to three weeks now that I parked, her father has not deemed it necessary to visit us at least, to know where her daughter is staying and how she is fairing. He is doing shift work and he has off days. The other day, the girl was crying and when I asked her what was the matter, she said her father has not come to see her. My wife said I should call her father to come. I said no, that I will rather make out time to see him at his place of work and blast him. My wife suggested that we should take the girl back because of her father's I don't care attitude. I said no. Whatever we are doing is for the girl and not her father. Please what do you people suggest I should I do? Thanks.

Fountainofyouth:
Firstly, thank you sir for rendering great help to the little girl, may the good Lord continue to bless you abundantly for this, amen.

Pls continue to help her regardless of what the irresponsible father is doing, my question now is, how come the girl's mother never asked of her for once or checked up on her? Some people are not meant to be parents at all.

montanaguy:
In my neighborhood where I live. There is this 10yrs old girl I always see hawking yams and tomaoes during the school hours. I made inquiry to know who is the father of the girl and why the girl is not going to school because I newly parked in. My neighbours hinted me that, the father of the little girl married another woman and the woman forbids the little girl from living with them. I was told her father and the first wife parted ways. They have two girls. While the wife left with the elder one, the father went with the younger one. I was further told that the girl has been staying with his father going to school. That the father was taking good care of the girl until he found the second wife he is marrying now. The woman in question has four kids. I don't know if the husband is late or they separated. After marrying the woman, he took her daughter along to live with the woman in her house built by her. These did not go down well with the woman as she started maltreating the poor girl accusing her of witchcraft. Her father took her back to where he previously rented a one room self con and was living with his her. One thing led to another, the girl stopped going to school. The father visits her once in a while to drop some money for her for her feeding. One of their neighbors, a woman took advantage of her situation and turned her to a slave because she gives her foods. While her children are going to school, the girl is helping her to hawk yams and tomatoes. Meanwhile, the man's rent had expired and he is left with no other option than to send her daughter back to the village. The poor girl has insisted that she does not want to go back to the village, that she wants go to school. After hearing all these, I approached my wife to bring the girl to me let me interview her. I was amazed that the girl speaks English fluently and very sharp. I asked her if she would like to live with us and continue her school, she did not hesitate to say yes. I then met one of my neighbors who has her father's no and collected the no. I called the man to come that I have something to discuss with him. When he came, we introduced ourselves. I discovered that we work in same company but different department. I queried him on why he allow a small girl like this to be on the streets hawking while others are in school? The man started talking trash how he got married to his first wife, how she left him with their first daughter to how he married the second one whom he accused of casting a spell on him to marry her bla bla. To cut the story short, I told the man that I would like her daughter to be staying us so that She will continue her school next term. He accepted and
we fixed a date to discuss further. I told him that I would like the girl to stay with us for three days so I can access her. He agreed. When I came back from work, my wife told me that the woman giving her yams to hawk came to our house fomenting troubles, calling the girl all sorts or names. I said to my wife, that is not a case, the woman is only pained that she won't see the girl again to be used for hawking, she should start using her daughters instead. Since I would be parking to another town, I told the father that its good considering that the little time she was left unattended to, she might have mixed up with bad friends. This is going to three weeks now that I parked, her father has not deemed it necessary to visit us at least, to know where her daughter is staying and how she is fairing. He is doing shift work and he has off days. The other day, the girl was crying and when I asked her what was the matter, she said her father has not come to see her. My wife said I should call her father to come. I said no, that I will rather make out time to see him at his place of work and blast him. My wife suggested that we should take the girl back because of her father's I don't care attitude. I said no. Whatever we are doing is for the girl and not her father. Please what do you people suggest I should I do? Thanks.

Laird:
Op thank You for your kind heart.

Please get a letter of consent form the father Oooo. Please for.legal.purposes.

Thank You

TheeDetective:


1) Get a lawyer for you to sign papers with her father so as to become her legal guardian;
2) Get the governmental authority involved (possibly the women affairs ministry, they are usually interested in negligible cases of children) so that if it ever goes to any court matter the authorities would already be aware of this situation; and
3) Get the contact of the girls biological mother so that she is aware of what is happening and what you intend to do on a legal basis as she may not be aware that her child is being neglected by her biological father.

Once you have gotten the above steps then you should be good to go and help this child as much as you can. Help her to achieve her desire to go to school if you are able to do so.

Thank you very much once again for your kind-heartedness.