There seem to be a growing despartion among ladies to get married. And this despeartion has increased due to the pressure from society, family and friends. A lady btw the ages of 28-35 wld tell u more. And once u are btw this age u are considered by some to hav a problem. There also seem to be other reasons, it's like there is an increse in marriageable girls and sharp decrease in marriageable men. and that can be attributed to the socail and fianancial status a man is reqd to reach b4 being considered to be responsible and good enuf to marry.

I see a social time bomb exploding several hundred of years from now, cause there wld be so a many women willing but not married, I hear there it is written somewhere say na 7 women to 1 man. Girls are aware of these and so some give in to the pressure and marry just man , some wld hav to be a 2nd 3rd or 4th wife else u are on your own. Some wld be willing to be a single parent and jsut have a child without being officially married(just be bear mama segun, emeka, and isa). some go be lesbian. Watch out many nairaland girls are in these category.lol

I am a man but i admit it is not easy being a woman in a man's world. I pity alot of sisters i c, if u look deep around u wld find "SERIUOSLY SERACHING" written on the fore head of some girls. Men are becoming aware, especially successful men and they are taking full advantage of it.

So to my despaerate sister's , we know it when u are desperate and most times u regret the actions that u take.

You sound like someone who would take advantage of their desperation to get married or am I wrong?

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esp after NYSC, the desperation tripples, irrespective of the age.

I really fell sorry for them,

Why are now telling us this here, or u want to add to their "desperation" by demeaning them psychologically, letting them know that there is a statistic of "7 girls to one man", guess u think that will help weak men like u land someone cos now u've let them know they should be lucky that the "one man" to her "7 girls " chose her instead of the "other six".
Improve ur game man.

@poster dis is true,i can c alot desperation among em gurls,esp da so calld S.U,