Can we ever make a relationship last? Are all relationships doomed to fail? We can’t control external circumstances, but you can build on what you already have. Most times we don’t realize that the foundation is already there like trust, hope, communication, fidelity, and being able to share dreams without fear. “Good relationships don’t just happen; they take time, patience and two people who truly want to work to be together,” Everyday Lessons wrote, and they were right. Here are five simple ways to know if this is right for you.

Trust
Trust is a major ingredient that makes a relationship work. If the other person doesn’t even trust you to go to the store alone, or with friends, this will be a problem. People, who stay in a relationship where there is no trust, end up living anxious filled lives. They are afraid to do anything without approval. On the flip side, of you have trust—good for both of you. This is a huge asset.

Conflict
Learning how to deal with conflict is a major component in making a lasting relationship. Psychology Today shared that it is key to know how to handle conflict. Just because we have an argument doesn’t mean you have to end a relationship. "Couples with poor conflict resolution skills typically engage in fight, flight, or freeze behaviors. They fight and stay mad, sometimes holding grudges for years. They flight and avoid important issues by sweeping them under the rug.”


Respect
Respect for each other’s beliefs, or dreams is needed for a solid partnership, and allows for growth down the road. When we are with anyone who critiques, disrespects, and embarrasses you, it spells trouble.

Hope
If there is no hope, well, move on. Any relationship where we are going through the emotions never work. However, if both of you are on the same page with life, kids, and the major decisions—rock on! This is a great sign that this team will go on, and last